Video Blog: Young people dating Cougars and Old Farts

by Mike Masters on January 18, 2010

Had a lot of fun fliming this, didn’t have much time so I decided to tape it while driving!

Talked for about 12 minutes about Large age gaps. Managed to boil it down to a nice 3 minutes. Turned out well if I say so myself!

Topics covered:

  • Why cougars are hot
  • Does a 13 year age gap work?
  • Threesome with my professor
  • Babies from another man!
  • and… I get pulled over by a cop

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1 CREDIT CLEANER January 18, 2010 at 3:10 pm

So was that a cop behind you?

Agreed, I would never ’seriously’ date a younger guy… but I would never ’seriously’ date a man too much older than me either.

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2 Mike Masters January 18, 2010 at 5:08 pm

Well I seem to have to date down a bit these days. The older I get the less physically fit people my age are. I am thinking I should gain 30 pounds so that I feel more comfortable with my age group! =)

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3 Shannon Nelson January 18, 2010 at 5:33 pm

You almost hit a truck backing up, it appears a cop is following you…for what? Dating tips?! haha. You are too funny. Good video though–glad your highlights are on their way out. HA!
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4 Mike Masters January 18, 2010 at 5:42 pm

I didn’t almost hit that truck! I was TOTALLY aware of it. and I was just kidding about the cop.
So the highlights are almost gone… and all my speech therapy has finally helped out with my horrible lisp. (either that or removing my tongue ring)

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5 Julie Roche January 18, 2010 at 6:10 pm

Ha, loved the randomness of you driving and talking…would love to hear a bit more. Way to be direct!

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6 Mike Masters January 18, 2010 at 6:16 pm

There actually was a lot more but I had to cut it out because after getting on the freeway it was way to loud to hear…
I want to do another one while jogging/shaving/doing the dishes

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7 Rose January 18, 2010 at 6:12 pm

I laughed out loud at the “pregnant with another man’s baby!”. You had this look on your face like, “good times!”

This cougar term is totally unknown in the UK. You mean younger hotties?

Yeah I agree with Credit Cleaner.

Older men make great casual relationships, as long as they’re in an open marriage!

I’d prefer to date a mature, highly-sexed, sexually-liberated, intelligent, hot guy my own age, though. I have a date with someone who may just fit the bill on the 30th. I’ll letcha know, Mike!

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8 Mike Masters January 18, 2010 at 6:18 pm

You nailed the look on my face! The babies father was the head instructor, it all came to a head when my 19 year old buddy and the 45 year old instructor looked like they were going to go to blows. Wow… Wish I could have taped that.

A cougar is an older woman that chases younger men, clearly for relationship driven.

good luck with your date.

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9 Rose January 19, 2010 at 7:05 pm

I seeeee! Ha, my ex’s mother was a cougar.

I don’t know about when I’m older, but right now I couldn’t consider someone who wasn’t at least my age.

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10 Jules January 18, 2010 at 7:38 pm

Mike, that was just too funny! You were right on about the cougar thing, but I don’t know if I would classify myself as, “just one of the Dudes”. Yes, I’m a great challenge for a younger guy. And yes, I will eat them up and spit them out when I so choose. JK! I’m not that mean! That last part works both ways, its not just a cougar thing. It is nice when you finally figure out that you don’t have to put up with someone elses Bullshit. I think that is what the younger male species finds us cougars so attractive & so challenging!

Anyway, Great post! Impressed with the driving skills! lol! :)

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11 Mike Masters January 18, 2010 at 9:51 pm

I am probably talking about the cougars I am attracted too but ironically they are the same age as I am.
I consider myself late 20’s so any girl older than that is a cougar!

Impressed with my driving skills? I almost hit a car in the first five seconds!

everyone tells me the video was funny but I don’t really understand why. =) seriously

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12 Jules January 19, 2010 at 4:47 pm

LOL! Well you are talking to the Blonde Demi Moore here, a 25 year old stuck in a 35 year old body! GRRRRRRR! I honestly don’t consider myself a cougar either, I’m too young for that!

Sarcasim doesn’t translate too well in text! Glad that you missed that truck. You better work on those driving skills for the next Drive-By Video Blog!

The Video I think was successful due to the Drive-By Video format that you choose to go with. Don’t forget the driving Near misses, you breaking your sun visor for the sake of the blog, the cooky reminiscing looks & the cop car following you was priceless comedy that you could not have topped if you had planned for it! It was hilarious! But, at the same time, infomative!

Loved it! :)

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13 Mike Masters January 19, 2010 at 7:40 pm

Crap! How am I going to top that video??
I am still a little baffled what I will do for the next one.
Maybe while in the shower?

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14 Jules January 20, 2010 at 9:02 pm

That would def be interesting, video blogging while in the shower! It could be a very shocking experience if you’re not careful! Hey,you could always do it in a bubble bath! It could be a little safer. It looks like your video blog was a great success! CONGRATS!! You are going to have to be very creative to top it with the next one. Good Luck with that! LOL! :)

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15 Dating Dufus January 19, 2010 at 1:14 am

Fun post Mike! Yes, this is a lot better than the first one, you are really improving quickly! It’s more natural, I guess…

I’m interested to hear more about what young men think of Cougars, and do you have any tips for dating younger men?

I’m in my early 40’s but like you, feel a lot younger than that. The years sneak up on us a lot faster than our self-perception! So now I am getting back in the dating scene after a 12 year break, and I’m at parties talking with nice guys, they look like the guys I used to date, and then it suddenly sinks in… uh wait a minute… how much older AM I? I wouldn’t have thought seriously about dating a younger guy but the truth is, guys my age are sorta old! Divorced with teenage kids, etc… And they are going for 20- or 30-something women anyway.

Meanwhile the younger ones are approaching me on their own! They are quite sweet and frankly I’m flattered… :-) But do they have high expectations? I’m really out of practice and a little worried about measuring up to the Cougar mystique! ? ? ?

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16 Mike Masters January 19, 2010 at 5:16 am

oh, jeeze you are thinking way too much here.
Just take one home and see if its too your liking!

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17 Dating Dufus January 19, 2010 at 7:37 am

Thanks for the laugh, I guess I’m a scaredy cat! ;-)

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18 LMC January 19, 2010 at 3:33 am

I really liked the aesthetics of your driving while giving the advice.

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19 Mike Masters January 19, 2010 at 8:04 am

can those words be used in the same sentence? aesthetics and driving?

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20 lifebeginsat30ty January 20, 2010 at 6:46 am

Funny! I think it was definitely a combination of you being relaxed and the shear comedy of happenstance, lol.

So here’s my question: what’s up with all the late 40ish and older guys thinking that a 30-year old (me) would go out with them?! Ten years is pushing it but 20?!
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21 thomas January 22, 2010 at 8:56 pm

It is interesting to see how foolish some people become because of age when instead they should be looking at the persons maturity. Then again, we have society to blame for this because this is how they shaped it to be.

One thing I learned is this, if you want something, you will find it, but you may need to get a lot of rejection first but sooner or later you will find it. It really is a numbers game.
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