Comments on: 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: luann http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-6077 luann Thu, 18 Aug 2011 22:11:44 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-6077 hi love this finally a guys point of view..ill tell you my story my boyfriend has asked me three times to marry him and then backed out...of course he has been drunk everytime...third time we had a room reservered rings bought date set and he said he will marry me but just not right now..so then he buys some property and says he wants me to move in with him..so i did still i havent heard those words yet...he has been married three times and has lost everything each time was even homeless for a while because of it...he got alot of money and i think hes afraid of losing it..i have a house i rent and i still work and make pretty good money..im in debt eith a credit card so i dont think he wants to be responsble for it..if we did get married..what do you think about this well be 2 years in nov...thanks for your time and article. hi love this finally a guys point of view..ill tell you my story my boyfriend has asked me three times to marry him and then backed out…of course he has been drunk everytime…third time we had a room reservered rings bought date set and he said he will marry me but just not right now..so then he buys some property and says he wants me to move in with him..so i did still i havent heard those words yet…he has been married three times and has lost everything each time was even homeless for a while because of it…he got alot of money and i think hes afraid of losing it..i have a house i rent and i still work and make pretty good money..im in debt eith a credit card so i dont think he wants to be responsble for it..if we did get married..what do you think about this well be 2 years in nov…thanks for your time and article.

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]]> By: 1anester http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-5858 1anester Wed, 06 Apr 2011 04:49:55 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-5858 Thanks so much for the speedy reply UPDATE, he's emailed twice now, first email noted above, 2nd one, endearing, apologetic, blah, I haven't and am not responding. You hit the nail on the head, would go for option two, but no passion, he doesn't fight, just texts that this or that has pushed him over the edge and he's done. At least a good debate or fight might have the make up sex potential of passion, but communication is key especially for open relationships. So thanks again for your reply, it helped :) Thanks so much for the speedy reply UPDATE, he’s emailed twice now, first email noted above, 2nd one, endearing, apologetic, blah, I haven’t and am not responding. You hit the nail on the head, would go for option two, but no passion, he doesn’t fight, just texts that this or that has pushed him over the edge and he’s done. At least a good debate or fight might have the make up sex potential of passion, but communication is key especially for open relationships. So thanks again for your reply, it helped :)

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-5854 Mike Masters Tue, 05 Apr 2011 07:43:44 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-5854 He dumps you because he wants the freedom to be involved with other women. Its that simple... He wants the security of a committed relationship and the freedom to play. Either get a man more commitment driven or allow him his freedom and have an open relationship with him. He dumps you because he wants the freedom to be involved with other women. Its that simple…
He wants the security of a committed relationship and the freedom to play.
Either get a man more commitment driven or allow him his freedom and have an open relationship with him.

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]]> By: janester http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-5853 janester Tue, 05 Apr 2011 05:23:12 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-5853 Mike, great reads thanks, especially like your lists... Can't find any posts on this, and direct me to one if I've missed it to save yourself another painstaking reply to the same question We've been together 8 months, going great, no disagreements, really! except for one wee Lil irritating quality he has. He goes to his 'place' every couple of months. I let him go, have his space, 'pws' (Putting up with Women Shit} whatever you want to call it. I of course get typically insecure, sabotage....he breaks up with me. So last time (4th), 2 days ago, I accepted it, said I understand, and left it at that. Is there any hope? I'm resolved to accept its over, regardless of him being great in every other way. I don't think he's insecure, he has shared he has commitment issues, but that's fine, I want slow, but being dumped every couple of months is not where I want to be at. We talked last week bout wanting to grow old together (he told me first), we were planning a June move in date, kids are great together... all's good. I know I need to work on my 'sabotage' issues, but they wouldn't and haven't been there, if he'd just stop dumping me!!! So is he question 1, just a dick? 2 maybe not really into me, talk is bs to get laid? 3 insecure fear of commitment? he emailed to say, 'lets please keep in touch, hold on to the 'stuff', and he will respect my space as he would expect me to respect his' wtf thanks Mike, great reads thanks, especially like your lists…
Can’t find any posts on this, and direct me to one if I’ve missed it to save yourself another painstaking reply to the same question
We’ve been together 8 months, going great, no disagreements, really! except for one wee Lil irritating quality he has. He goes to his ‘place’ every couple of months. I let him go, have his space, ‘pws’ (Putting up with Women Shit} whatever you want to call it. I of course get typically insecure, sabotage….he breaks up with me. So last time (4th), 2 days ago, I accepted it, said I understand, and left it at that. Is there any hope? I’m resolved to accept its over, regardless of him being great in every other way. I don’t think he’s insecure, he has shared he has commitment issues, but that’s fine, I want slow, but being dumped every couple of months is not where I want to be at. We talked last week bout wanting to grow old together (he told me first), we were planning a June move in date, kids are great together… all’s good. I know I need to work on my ’sabotage’ issues, but they wouldn’t and haven’t been there, if he’d just stop dumping me!!! So is he question 1, just a dick? 2 maybe not really into me, talk is bs to get laid? 3 insecure fear of commitment? he emailed to say, ‘lets please keep in touch, hold on to the ’stuff’, and he will respect my space as he would expect me to respect his’ wtf
thanks

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]]> By: The Waiting Game: How long is too long? « *wink* *wink* *wink* http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3592 The Waiting Game: How long is too long? « *wink* *wink* *wink* Mon, 26 Jul 2010 21:30:53 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-3592 [...] I know I’m not the first woman (or, in some cases, man) to experience the Waiting Game. In fact, the website LuvemOrLeaveem.com practically builds its viewership on this one dilemma (see Mike the Master Dater‘s funny two-part take on this Waiting Game here: Part 1 and Part 2). [...] [...] I know I’m not the first woman (or, in some cases, man) to experience the Waiting Game. In fact, the website LuvemOrLeaveem.com practically builds its viewership on this one dilemma (see Mike the Master Dater‘s funny two-part take on this Waiting Game here: Part 1 and Part 2). [...]

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]]> By: Dr. K. http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3085 Dr. K. Mon, 03 May 2010 16:00:32 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-3085 why he WONT ask you to marry him ? Uhmmm..............because he has a brain, and actually uses it. State sanctioned marriage is really an oxymoron, providing leaches and parasites so-called "legalities" to steal, rob and pychologically torture the unsuspecting dupes they lure into their trap. why he WONT ask you to marry him ?

Uhmmm…………..because he has a brain, and actually uses it.

State sanctioned marriage is really an oxymoron, providing leaches
and parasites so-called “legalities” to steal, rob and pychologically
torture the unsuspecting dupes they lure into their trap.

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]]> By: Bianca http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3022 Bianca Tue, 27 Apr 2010 13:44:20 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-3022 Thanks so much!! I just realized it is time for me to move on!! This guy I have been nothing but loving& patient to was previously trapped into marrying his ex cause she was pregnant & then they divorced & then he had some cokehead he was engaged to. So, I realized I am too good for him. He wants someone inferior & most of all, his family disliked me since I am Brazilian and not all white Norweigan like them!! Fuck it!! Im glad that I found this site!! I also forgot , after I was generous with him on his birthday & Christmas, I got no presents..not even a card!!!

Thanks so much!! I just realized it is time for me to move on!! This guy I have been nothing but loving& patient to was previously trapped into marrying his ex cause she was pregnant & then they divorced & then he had some cokehead he was engaged to. So, I realized I am too good for him. He wants someone inferior & most of all, his family disliked me since I am Brazilian and not all white Norweigan like them!! Fuck it!! Im glad that I found this site!! I also forgot , after I was generous with him on his birthday & Christmas, I got no presents..not even a card!!!

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2919 Mike Masters Wed, 21 Apr 2010 20:35:05 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2919 I love buttons and they are even more fun to push! I love buttons and they are even more fun to push!

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]]> By: whatever http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2918 whatever Wed, 21 Apr 2010 19:56:40 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2918 OH come on....if a girl gains 10 pounds while dating but it's OK for him to gain weight. I swear guys have such double standards that they themselves do not live by but expect the girl to fulfill all of their qualities. Give me a break. We overlook your imperfections because we love you. What's funny is most men don't realize HOW quickly another man can snatch up their unwanted goods. Men don't commit becuse they just dont! There's no special formula to run through it's just because they dont' want to AND for the most Part marriage\proposal is All about them and their TIME LINE has nothing to do with anything else. So MOM's stop raising MOMMA's boys and babying them. Raise them like you do your daughters to be self reliate, to take care of themseleves maybe just maybe we will have a World OF MEN and NOT boys! OH come on….if a girl gains 10 pounds while dating but it’s OK for him to gain weight. I swear guys have such double standards that they themselves do not live by but expect the girl to fulfill all of their qualities.

Give me a break. We overlook your imperfections because we love you. What’s funny is most men don’t realize HOW quickly another man can snatch up their unwanted goods.

Men don’t commit becuse they just dont! There’s no special formula to run through it’s just because they dont’ want to AND for the most Part marriage\proposal is All about them and their TIME LINE has nothing to do with anything else. So MOM’s stop raising MOMMA’s boys and babying them. Raise them like you do your daughters to be self reliate, to take care of themseleves maybe just maybe we will have a World OF MEN and NOT boys!

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]]> By: Why won't he marry me? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2110 Why won't he marry me? Mon, 08 Feb 2010 01:34:03 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2110 [...] Part 2 of 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him continued here [...] [...] Part 2 of 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him continued here [...]

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2109 Mike Masters Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:25:40 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2109 You are not a guy but you probably are more comfortable in the male role. I imagine you are usually the one to leave the relationship. What to do? Probably get out, people like you (and me) tend to date people not up to our standards for multiple reasons (avoiding marriage, lack of choice, enjoy the power, etc) but it really isn't fair to the other person. This is why, at this juncture in my life I am very much single. I wouldn't be surprised if more women felt the way you do. We are all humans, having similar feeling and sharing similar sexual roles. You are not a guy but you probably are more comfortable in the male role. I imagine you are usually the one to leave the relationship. What to do? Probably get out, people like you (and me) tend to date people not up to our standards for multiple reasons (avoiding marriage, lack of choice, enjoy the power, etc) but it really isn’t fair to the other person. This is why, at this juncture in my life I am very much single.
I wouldn’t be surprised if more women felt the way you do. We are all humans, having similar feeling and sharing similar sexual roles.

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]]> By: Guiltee http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2108 Guiltee Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:13:04 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2108 Btw, I've been married before and was the one who initiated the divorce because I was incredibly unhappy and lonely. I'm not sure so it was my ex husband now, as much as it is that I will never be happy and not lonley. Btw, I’ve been married before and was the one who initiated the divorce because I was incredibly unhappy and lonely. I’m not sure so it was my ex husband now, as much as it is that I will never be happy and not lonley.

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]]> By: Guiltee http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2107 Guiltee Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:11:44 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2107 I'm a girl, and I read the first half last week and the second half just today. For the past several days, I've been thinking about the first half of the list, and now I know why I will most likely never marry my current boyfriend. I feel much the same as several of the items on your list. It's unsettling, but I can't see myself breaking up with him even if I don't see myself with him forever. It's giving me tremendous guilt to think about staying with him when I don't feel that strongly about him anymore. Am I turning into a guy? I’m a girl, and I read the first half last week and the second half just today. For the past several days, I’ve been thinking about the first half of the list, and now I know why I will most likely never marry my current boyfriend. I feel much the same as several of the items on your list. It’s unsettling, but I can’t see myself breaking up with him even if I don’t see myself with him forever. It’s giving me tremendous guilt to think about staying with him when I don’t feel that strongly about him anymore. Am I turning into a guy?

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]]> By: Dating Diva http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2094 Dating Diva Sat, 06 Feb 2010 05:24:15 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2094 Scares men because she is confident and pretty? Hmm. That may be it. That's what you were going to say, right Mike? ;) .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.talesfromaninternetdater.com/2010/02/funny-dating-profile-titles.html" rel="nofollow">Funny Dating Profile Titles</a> =-. Scares men because she is confident and pretty? Hmm. That may be it. That’s what you were going to say, right Mike? ;)
Dating Diva´s last blog ..Funny Dating Profile Titles My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Tina t http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2090 Tina t Fri, 05 Feb 2010 22:20:40 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2090 I love the part 2 list even more than part 1. The Matrix and being "the one" and the S&M and training him had me laughing so hard. As someone who recently celebrated my 16th wedding anniversary, I have to say that I totally disagree with marriage being jail. Of course, I do know women who want to make it like jail by never letting their men have any space or do anything by themselves. Being married is wonderful, but it requires work to keep a marriage alive. I think that turns people off and many choose to remain single rather than put the work in that marriage would require. .-= Tina t´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2010/02/02/why-wont-he-marry-me/" rel="nofollow">Why Won’t He Marry Me?</a> =-. I love the part 2 list even more than part 1. The Matrix and being “the one” and the S&M and training him had me laughing so hard.

As someone who recently celebrated my 16th wedding anniversary, I have to say that I totally disagree with marriage being jail. Of course, I do know women who want to make it like jail by never letting their men have any space or do anything by themselves.

Being married is wonderful, but it requires work to keep a marriage alive. I think that turns people off and many choose to remain single rather than put the work in that marriage would require.
Tina t´s last blog ..Why Won’t He Marry Me? My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-he-wont-ask-you-to-marry-him-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2082 Mike Masters Fri, 05 Feb 2010 03:56:41 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1656#comment-2082 Damn-it Now I have to answer I know DD personally and I it is very possible that they guy is not into her but I think the real problem is that DD scares men. Don't want to get myself in trouble with my friend so I won't say anymore! Damn-it
Now I have to answer
I know DD personally and I it is very possible that they guy is not into her but I think the real problem is that DD scares men.

Don’t want to get myself in trouble with my friend so I won’t say anymore!

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