Texting girls – Want sex? Create tension and comfort FIRST!

by Mike Masters on July 11, 2009

Girls sexting

Creating tension – why is this important? How to do it over text.

Sexual tension is something that is not well understood, and it is abused constantly. In fact this is something about the PUA mentality that I hate. Why? Because most PUAs degrade a woman to get into her pants. This is simply shitty and I have no respect for it. Sure it works but at the end of the day after you have been laid you ask yourself, was it worth it?

However, if you understand what tension really is it isn’t that big a deal to slight move over from the PUA asshole mentality to someone a little more moral.

How to we create a little sexual tension when texting a girl? Easy, anyway we can push or pull, keep her off balance, expand her world, is creating tension. But it’s cool, you don’t have to think that much, just be difficult and you have tension and this is relatively easy to accomplish over text.

*She’s not texting you back? Not very into you? Doesn’t follow you around like a homeless puppy??? FIX THIS NOW!*
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Her: Hey Mike what are you doing on Friday
Me: Going out with you, impressed you had the guts to ask me
Her: Idiot, I wasn’t going to ask YOU, I wanted to introduce you to my friend
Me: I like how girls who want me always push me on their friends, you shouldn’t let this boyfriend thing get in the way of your obsessions
Her: May I remind you that my BF is gorgeous a 6’3” med student
Me: :) you are hot when you are angry
Her: God…
Me: Don’t text me so much, it makes you seem desperate

At this point she has absolutely nothing to text and she is a little pissed, she thinks I am an arrogant ass and she hates me just a tad but this is GOOD! Now is when we sit on it a little bit and let the tension gestate.

Please understand, I honestly am not trying to steal her from her BF but I do know that she isn’t happy with him and a break up is eminent.  When it happens I will certainly be happy to have my rebound trampoline ready to go for her to bounce on all night.

There are a MILLION ways to build tension when texting a girl but what sets text apart is it is a wonderful place to practice and if you fuck up you can just blame it on the misunderstanding of tone. Play around, push boundaries, and fuck up, just remember that although being cruel builds tension ridiculously fast, it eventually catches up to you. Usually in the form of crying like a baby while considering jumping off a building, Not cool.

*She’s not texting you back? Not very into you? Doesn’t follow you around like a homeless puppy??? FIX THIS NOW!*
Check out TextAppeal – the Ultimate Guide to Texting girls Getting EXACTLY what you want is easier than you think.

Sexual before comfortable – big mistake

If only I had a dollar for every time a naked girl in my bed said with her head on my chest, “I don’t know what it is but I am a so comfortable with you, I feel like I have known you for years.”

So many men thrust their sexuality on a girl like a Peter North money shot (might be a generation gap, google him, the guy is a geyser) Rather than build trust and comfort first. You must understand that although women are sexual they are also physically vulnerable. This means that immediate sexual aggression by you will lead to fear NOT AROUSAL from her. Remember Safety, THEN Sexy when texting girls.

Peter: It was cool to meet you at Zodos the other night
Her: Yeah you seem pretty cool
Peter: I couldn’t resist talking to you since you have such a great ass (Way too soon!)
Her: So you were checking out my ass? (She is immediately on the defensive and is setting him up for fuck up)
Peter: Of course not, you are sexy all over
Her: What about my tits? (DANGER! DANGER!)
Peter: Fucking beautiful baby (Moron)
Her: Is that all you care about, Sex? (Peter is screwed now, he can’t recover from this because she has classified him as a perv and thus dangerous)

I am sure you are not a douche like Peter but you get the point right? When texting a girl you have a lot of time to think about what to say, so fucking think first!

Now the right way to text a girl:

Peter: It was cool to meet you at Zodos the other night
Her: Yeah you seem pretty cool
Peter: Seem eh? And pretty?
Her: lol, shut up you know what I meant
Peter: Well you are kinda cute and cool yourself but the booty jeans were a little tight, I think I saw way too much (sexual but not aggressive)
Her: WHAT?? Hahaha, I wouldn’t be talking Mr. “I look like I just walked out of a gay bar”
Peter: Ah, so now you know not ALL the hot ones are married or gay
Her: I never said you were hot!
Peter: You didn’t say it but you thought it
Her: So you know what I am thinking???
Peter: Yup, and no I am not going to sleep with you on the first date but I might let you kiss me.
Her: lol, what a disappointment ;) (and I mean the kissing)

So much better than the first interaction. You see, by just changing your intentions just a little bit changes the dynamic. If your intentions are to fuck her, she will sense this and not be comfortable. If your intentions are to create comfort FIRST the sexual part comes naturally. So one more time, women are JUST as horny as men but without comfort the golden vaginal gates are locked. Guys, texting girls to create attraction really doesn’t have to be that hard.

Texting is the easiest way to get her into your bed NOW!

Guys, texting is such a gift. You have time! You don’t have to fumble over your sentences while you try to be cool in person. Let me walk you through how I use texting to get tons of women into my bed or that really amazing girl into a relationship. I know you can improve massively on this aspect of your game and what will it cost you? The price of a movie? Dude, isn’t getting that particular girl worth it???

Click here if you think YES

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Continue to the next blog post – Texting girls, are you relationship or fucking material?

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