Comments on: The simple rules for texting a guy, killer texting stratagies

By: Tarryn

Tarryn — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 20:53:07 +0000

So I was reading that you mentioned to never send any cheeky sexual pics before the actual act. Which is something I’m wishing I read before I did send some pics to a guy I’m flirting with (were technically going out but keeping it under cover in terms of college and our age gap). Anyway, I’ve sent these pics which I felt comfortable doing, but I’ve just read don’t and I am worried the only reason he’s texting me is to get some more pics. How can I fall back into that “relationship status” rather than “sexual material” or is the damage done? Me and him are quite flirty people and make a lot of innuendoes, that’s why I didn’t really hesitate to the send the pics. Is this a mistake? And how can I fix the situation? Cheers

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By: Maria

Maria — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 03:14:26 +0000

too busy for a relationship ??? Just wants to be friends..he said it all clearly and honestly. I am sorry but base on my EXTENSIVE experience, you don’t tell some one that you are really interested in that you want to be friends. Thats the F word that kills relationship expectations dead and if he wanted more…well, he would not say that and risk losing you while he “clears his head “(whatever that means). I am so sorry to be so blunt and I am hijacking Mike’ answers but I just had to answer as i have been through exactly this and have learned that if a guy wants to be in a relationship with you, well, he would be in a relationship with you. sounds like the distance cooled things down a bit, along with his age (young, does not want to get tied down to one girl), and maybe the serious turn the relationship was taking. Ask him if he still wants you to come and hang out with him( use very casual words) or is it best to just leave it (ie cancel the trip) for now..guage his answer and read between the lines if you have to get his real meaning. Good luck. I think you are handlling this whole thing beautifully.

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By: pligg.com

pligg.com — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 01:52:03 +0000

502 Bad Gateway…

502 Bad Gateway…

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By: Janice T

Janice T — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 00:55:55 +0000

This is just form me, not Mike, but I would agree with Mike, to just go dark. First let the guy know you’re interested, but signing off for now while he’s in a relationship.

Besides, you should be dating more than one guy anyway – esp since this dude is long-distance!

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By: Janice T

Janice T — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 00:54:11 +0000

Perfect reply Mike. You know your stuff.

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By: Janice T

Janice T — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 00:53:04 +0000

I don’t think this really works in the girl’s favor. If ALL he thinks about is her orifices, than she doesn’t move from the “I just want to have sex with her” category, to the “I really want to hang with this girl” category.

Better to text him less, but be funny and light, with the occasional witty innuedo.

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By: Texting guys, 5 awesome tools for texting guys

Texting guys, 5 awesome tools for texting guys — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 02:34:33 +0000

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By: Typical texting problems with guys and how to solve them – Part 5 | MasterDater

Sat, 30 Jan 2010 22:29:16 +0000

[...] have a chance but if the first impression is blown it is so hard to regain power again. Try the hook method to get him to text you. Once he does get him to meet you somewhere and see if you can sense the [...]

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By: sekhmet's warrior

sekhmet's warrior — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:04:52 +0000

Great website with some cool advice that you don’t have to pay $300 for like the rules website!
I have a question: I met the guy of my dreams in July on a scuba trip, we had a great time on holiday and it was a rules relationship – he made the first move, no sex etc. He lives in another country to me and since we’ve been back we’ve been texting constantly and we’ve visited each other twice. The texting has dropped off since I got back from seeing him last weekend and he has only texted me twice since then.
I emailed saying I’m super busy, got a lot on my plate, is he sticking to it or should i clear him off..with smileys of course. He emailed me to say he has enjoyed every moment and is still enjoying our time together but has a lot on HIS plate and doesn’t have time for a relationship and wants to be friends… despite having planned a trip away at christmas break and travelling to Eastern Europe together next summer??!? He’s at uni studying to be a pilot and he’s only 22. He also texted me today calling me beautiful, asking about my day and telling me he has no time and it’s stressing him out. He always ends his texts with kisses.
I haven’t replied…leaving it four days like he did which will kill me less than the agonising four days I had to wait for him strangely enough ;-P I hate playing these games but he’s special.
Is he giving me a super nice brush off or does he really need to ‘clear his head’ like he says? I have a flight booked to see him in two weeks but am not sure what to do now. Any advice?

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By: The best way to text guys - the rules, Part 2 : MasterDater

The best way to text guys - the rules, Part 2 : MasterDater — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 01:13:50 +0000

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By: RSS

RSS — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:59:06 +0000

so does this mean backing off completely and not contacting him at all until he contacts me? or does this mean giving him the ultimatum and then backing off?

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:49:04 +0000

Very simple answer to this one and I kinda talk about it here http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2009/06/22/the-cheating-gene-who-does-it-and-why/
You are the other woman, nothing ever works out for the other woman. EVER…! Enjoy your flirt but don’t have any expectations. There is not texting advice I can give the will get him back because he has another woman. His genitals want two woman but if he really wanted to be with you… he would be.
Only way to solve this is back off completely, tell him you can’t see him until he finishes up with his current relationship. Hopefully you will be able to handle the attention he throws back your way.

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By: RSS

RSS — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:25:01 +0000

i’m really liking the advice you have here, so i want to ask you a question about my situation, which has a bit of a caveat to it.

i’m having an emotional affair with someone who’s already in a relationship. it’s a long-distance thing that’s been going on for about a month or so. for the first two weeks, we were talking every day, whether by text, chat or phone. sometimes, our phone conversations would last for hours into the night.

our texting has been consistent, for the most part. this last week, it hasn’t been as much. last thursday, he mentioned that he was going to text me to let me know when we could talk, because he was going to be on the road and we could chat for awhile. i never heard from him, so i texted him later in the evening, to find out if everything was okay. no response.

i next heard from him when he texted me over the weekend, after he had had some to drink. i didn’t respond.

i called him on monday and we spoke for an hour or so. everything seemed fine, no red flags or anything. he explained that the reason why he didn’t contact me was because he had gotten locked out of his hotel room and it took him an hour to get back. by that time he was in a bad mood…i probably wouldn’t have wanted to talk to him. at the end of the conversation, he said he had to take care of something, so he said he’d call back. however, i didn’t expect him to, so when i didn’t hear from him, i didn’t think it was a big deal.

i texted him the next day, a playful/funny one. i haven’t heard back.

and, of course, things are complicated because he’s in a serious, committed relationship…even though he’s made it clear that he wishes he could be with me.

so my question is – is there really nothing going on, or should i just move on? i know he’s been stressed out lately with his job, etc. but wondering if there’s more to it than this.

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By: Dallas Charlie

Dallas Charlie — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 02:45:55 +0000

yay! i love it. sooo true.

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By: Pascal H

Pascal H — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 07:46:22 +0000

MAIN RULE!

Flatter his mind with what he’s got underneath the belt WITHOUT MENTIONING A CRUDE WORD!
DO IT LIKE MAE WEST!
Until he only gets your orifices in mind as a target.
YOU’LL GET TO THE HIGHER SKIES THAT WAY!
PascalH.

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