The simple rules for texting a guy, killer texting stratagies

by Mike Masters on January 19, 2009

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Never drunk text a guy

These rules apply to guys you are interested in and want to get to know better. This is not necessarily the best texting strategy for friends or the current guy you are seeing.

Never:

  • Never send more than one text at a time. He sends a text you reply
  • Never diarrhea text, it is needy and not attractive
  • Never DRUNK TEXT A GUY!!! This is like trying to buy a car intoxicated, you are not going to get a good deal
  • Never lie to get his attention
  • GIRLS: never bring up anything sexual before the actual act, YOU ARE VIRGINAL!
  • GUYS: flirt with the sex boundary but don’t push it,  make a girl feel comfortable first.
  • GIRLS: Never send nude pics of yourself, even if he can’t see your face. NEVER EVER DO THIS, I CAN GUARANTEE AFTER YOU BREAK UP THEY WILL BE SHOWN TO FRIENDS OR PUT ON A WEBSITE (unless of course you don’t mind)
  • GUYS: encourage the nude pics! and immediately forward them to your friends. Hahaha!

As you notice the advice differs a little bit from guys to girls. If a girl wants to send me a nude pic, I won’t stop her but I will let her know right after she shouldn’t have done that! Remember this is a tug-a-war and a good battle is one that stalemates. If a girl wants to show her affections so inappropriately I certainly don’t mind, it means I don’t have to pull so hard.

Try to:

  • Wait the same amount of time to reply that he does, if not a bit longer
  • Think of texting like thumb wrestling, a great time to test each other out
  • GIRLS: When texting a guy never let him know how excited you are to hear from him!
  • GUYS: this applies to you too when texting girls, play it cool. Show zero excitement in the beginning, let her really wonder if you are actually into her.
  • GIRLS: Let the guy contact you first, remember he is the pursuer not you
  • GUYS: Make sure you wait a little while before you contact her, make her sweat a little, seed the doubt. If she contacts you first let her take the male role!
  • Be careful when texting guys with anything sexual it is very hard to tell his mood from a text and you don’t want to be in heat on one end while he watches football on the other
  • Not pull any punches!! Be playful but don’t add the just kidding to the end. Screwed up? So what! Don’t say sorry unless you absolutely have to. Learn from it and move on

Always:

  • Be so popular that you are always too busy to respond
  • After first meeting him wait about three days to contact if he or she does not contact you first
  • GIRLS: Be playful and confident, you don’t need him, he needs you!
  • GUYS: Be cocky and funny, don’t be afraid to be a tiny bit of a dick when texting girls (be cautious here if you are not experienced at this)
  • GIRLS: Keep the power in the situation by being just slightly aloof to his advances.
  • GUYS: Make advances but never show your intent, keep your emotions in control and allow her to falter first
  • Take your time to formulate a killer response, rather than something lame that you fired off
  • Text like a normal conversation but YOU HAVE THE TIME TO MAKE IT SO MUCH WITTIER – wit is sexy, don’t underestimate it

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Text with a “hook” if the guy or girl is not getting back to you or taking too long

You: Hey Jason, I heard something pretty funny about you.
Jason:  Huh? What did you hear?
You: Tell you later, are you going out tonight?
Jason: Yeah I am meeting some friends at Rocks.
You: Sounds good maybe I will see you out tonight
Jason: Okay
Jason: wait, what did you hear???
Jason: hello???

This “hook” basically means you bait the message with information he wants to know. This is mainly to get a text response without begging for one. You create a need from him so he will text you back ASAP. After he does, see how long you can avoid answering the question with out being too much of a pain in the ass.

DANGER!! A friend of mine recently sent her ex this “I can’t believe that you lied to me!!!” He of course IMMEDIATELY called her back and she didn’t answer. This was a lie to get his attention. It worked smashingly but it also elicited negative emotion. When the truth all came out it didn’t work in her favor. So… bend the truth, be playful but lying will bite you later.

So… When texting a guy:

  • The rules” are really just guidelines, you can break them but beware…
  • The most dangerous part of texting a guy is sexual, keep this vague and to a minimum
  • The most important rule is patience, this communicates very attractive emotional maturity
  • Remember conversation in SLOW MO you have time to experiment!

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Look, it really isn’t that hard to control the situation over text, to really make a difference in the way he perceives you, to shift the balance in your favor. If you are not getting what you want from him, why not use some killer texting strategies to get into his head and launch the relationship to the next level?? Take a look below, you are only a click away from getting what you want.

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1 Pascal H March 2, 2009 at 11:46 pm

MAIN RULE!

Flatter his mind with what he’s got underneath the belt WITHOUT MENTIONING A CRUDE WORD!
DO IT LIKE MAE WEST!
Until he only gets your orifices in mind as a target.
YOU’LL GET TO THE HIGHER SKIES THAT WAY!
PascalH.

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2 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 4:53 pm

I don’t think this really works in the girl’s favor. If ALL he thinks about is her orifices, than she doesn’t move from the “I just want to have sex with her” category, to the “I really want to hang with this girl” category.

Better to text him less, but be funny and light, with the occasional witty innuedo.

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3 Dallas Charlie March 26, 2009 at 6:45 pm

yay! i love it. sooo true.

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4 RSS June 30, 2009 at 10:25 am

i’m really liking the advice you have here, so i want to ask you a question about my situation, which has a bit of a caveat to it.

i’m having an emotional affair with someone who’s already in a relationship. it’s a long-distance thing that’s been going on for about a month or so. for the first two weeks, we were talking every day, whether by text, chat or phone. sometimes, our phone conversations would last for hours into the night.

our texting has been consistent, for the most part. this last week, it hasn’t been as much. last thursday, he mentioned that he was going to text me to let me know when we could talk, because he was going to be on the road and we could chat for awhile. i never heard from him, so i texted him later in the evening, to find out if everything was okay. no response.

i next heard from him when he texted me over the weekend, after he had had some to drink. i didn’t respond.

i called him on monday and we spoke for an hour or so. everything seemed fine, no red flags or anything. he explained that the reason why he didn’t contact me was because he had gotten locked out of his hotel room and it took him an hour to get back. by that time he was in a bad mood…i probably wouldn’t have wanted to talk to him. at the end of the conversation, he said he had to take care of something, so he said he’d call back. however, i didn’t expect him to, so when i didn’t hear from him, i didn’t think it was a big deal.

i texted him the next day, a playful/funny one. i haven’t heard back.

and, of course, things are complicated because he’s in a serious, committed relationship…even though he’s made it clear that he wishes he could be with me.

so my question is – is there really nothing going on, or should i just move on? i know he’s been stressed out lately with his job, etc. but wondering if there’s more to it than this.

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5 Mike Masters June 30, 2009 at 12:49 pm

Very simple answer to this one and I kinda talk about it here http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2009/06/22/the-cheating-gene-who-does-it-and-why/
You are the other woman, nothing ever works out for the other woman. EVER…! Enjoy your flirt but don’t have any expectations. There is not texting advice I can give the will get him back because he has another woman. His genitals want two woman but if he really wanted to be with you… he would be.
Only way to solve this is back off completely, tell him you can’t see him until he finishes up with his current relationship. Hopefully you will be able to handle the attention he throws back your way.

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6 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 4:54 pm

Perfect reply Mike. You know your stuff.

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7 RSS July 1, 2009 at 7:59 pm

so does this mean backing off completely and not contacting him at all until he contacts me? or does this mean giving him the ultimatum and then backing off?

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8 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 4:55 pm

This is just form me, not Mike, but I would agree with Mike, to just go dark. First let the guy know you’re interested, but signing off for now while he’s in a relationship.

Besides, you should be dating more than one guy anyway – esp since this dude is long-distance!

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9 sekhmet's warrior September 28, 2009 at 3:04 pm

Great website with some cool advice that you don’t have to pay $300 for like the rules website! ;-)
I have a question: I met the guy of my dreams in July on a scuba trip, we had a great time on holiday and it was a rules relationship – he made the first move, no sex etc. He lives in another country to me and since we’ve been back we’ve been texting constantly and we’ve visited each other twice. The texting has dropped off since I got back from seeing him last weekend and he has only texted me twice since then.
I emailed saying I’m super busy, got a lot on my plate, is he sticking to it or should i clear him off..with smileys of course. He emailed me to say he has enjoyed every moment and is still enjoying our time together but has a lot on HIS plate and doesn’t have time for a relationship and wants to be friends… despite having planned a trip away at christmas break and travelling to Eastern Europe together next summer??!? He’s at uni studying to be a pilot and he’s only 22. He also texted me today calling me beautiful, asking about my day and telling me he has no time and it’s stressing him out. He always ends his texts with kisses.
I haven’t replied…leaving it four days like he did which will kill me less than the agonising four days I had to wait for him strangely enough ;-P I hate playing these games but he’s special.
Is he giving me a super nice brush off or does he really need to ‘clear his head’ like he says? I have a flight booked to see him in two weeks but am not sure what to do now. Any advice?

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10 Janice T April 16, 2012 at 8:20 am

Bad news: Even without the sex, this was a fling, and now it’s a long distance friendship.

If the guy doesn’t move to your city, it’s over as a relationship.
Meet someone local. if your dream guy ends up moving to your town, great. Until then, he’s a fantasy.

Best of luck! :)

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11 Maria July 12, 2011 at 7:14 pm

too busy for a relationship ??? Just wants to be friends..he said it all clearly and honestly. I am sorry but base on my EXTENSIVE experience, you don’t tell some one that you are really interested in that you want to be friends. Thats the F word that kills relationship expectations dead and if he wanted more…well, he would not say that and risk losing you while he “clears his head “(whatever that means). I am so sorry to be so blunt and I am hijacking Mike’ answers but I just had to answer as i have been through exactly this and have learned that if a guy wants to be in a relationship with you, well, he would be in a relationship with you. sounds like the distance cooled things down a bit, along with his age (young, does not want to get tied down to one girl), and maybe the serious turn the relationship was taking. Ask him if he still wants you to come and hang out with him( use very casual words) or is it best to just leave it (ie cancel the trip) for now..guage his answer and read between the lines if you have to get his real meaning. Good luck. I think you are handlling this whole thing beautifully.

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12 Tarryn July 13, 2011 at 12:53 pm

So I was reading that you mentioned to never send any cheeky sexual pics before the actual act. Which is something I’m wishing I read before I did send some pics to a guy I’m flirting with (were technically going out but keeping it under cover in terms of college and our age gap). Anyway, I’ve sent these pics which I felt comfortable doing, but I’ve just read don’t and I am worried the only reason he’s texting me is to get some more pics. How can I fall back into that “relationship status” rather than “sexual material” or is the damage done? Me and him are quite flirty people and make a lot of innuendoes, that’s why I didn’t really hesitate to the send the pics. Is this a mistake? And how can I fix the situation? Cheers

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13 Janice T April 16, 2012 at 8:31 am

Just back off. Don’t say anything – girls talk too much!

Stop sending him pics, and when he asks, just joke around about it (gosh, I’ve been so busy solving world problems, I can’t find a photographer – etc)

text/ call him less than he calls you – and do things on your own without him that you like, with friends.

No guy should be the center of you life, especially if he hasn’t put a ring on your finger!

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14 Elaine February 16, 2012 at 9:48 am

I have a question. I am an older woman, and single for the first time after 20 years of marriage. I met a guy on a dating website and after two months I finally responded to his request to text him on his phone. Prior to this, we had been communiticating a little every couple of days, sometimes daily, but mostly superficial. We’ve been texting almost daily and we are supposed to be going on a date in about a week. Unfortunately, I know nothing of rules with men since I have been married so long. We’ve sent sexual texts twice–two different days. No pictures, I would never do that, and compared to some, the content is probably not too bad, but bad enough. I don’t want this guy to see my as sex partner only, is it too late? Thanks!

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15 Janice T April 16, 2012 at 8:26 am

Just back off, text him less & slower than he texts you.

I find that funny innuendo works better in the lady’s case than full-on sexual texts – think like a comedienne. be a little sly, use emoticons in a funny way… That’s what I did when I was dating my husband. He wanted nothing but sexual texts & pics. I would just tease him with comedy, including the pics.

We got married after 6 weeks of dating, and we’re both older too.

Best of luck! :)

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16 Tatiana K. March 22, 2012 at 5:02 pm

Ok, my best friend is a guy, and he recently confessed his love for me… I told him how much I secretly wanted him too… The problem is he’s still stuck on his ex!!! Always texting me how much it hurt and how much he remembers!!! How can I get him to stop obsessing over her? It’s been 2 years since their break up!!!

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17 Janice T April 16, 2012 at 8:28 am

Date other people – this guy is not over her, and would go back in a second if she wanted him back.

Back off from this guy – he’s not eally available. Be nice, but don’t date him exclusively. Also, text him slower than he texts you, and less often.

It wouldn’t hurt to drop a hint that you (actually) went out with other guys now, too.

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18 Dani April 12, 2012 at 1:02 pm

I dated my ex for 9 months until he broke up with me. 3 months later he contacted me and we began to talk and hang out. Hanging out turned into visiting each other and spending time together(things got heated=messing around), we even spent xmas together. I left for 2 months and when I came back i didnt know where we stood to begin with, i got drunk and texted him, told him i actually did give a fcuk about him && that i wished him nothing but the best && happiness told him i was drunk but it was maybe the only way to tell him how i felt. After doing that im confused as to what he might be thinking. We texted the next day and i apologized for the text but we still didnt come to any conclusion and left it in the air. What should i do? or what is going through his head?

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19 Janice T April 16, 2012 at 8:33 am

What’s going through his head is that he’s not that into you – if he were, he’s be calling & texting. Sorry, but true.

Date other guys – this guy is not really available for you.

And do other things that YOU like to do , with friends or just on your own.

Stop waiting for/ waiting on this guy – you’re pursuing him, and he’s fled.

Sorry – best of luck

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20 Angel April 18, 2012 at 11:22 pm

I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him back) since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him back) since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him back since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him acc since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him ab since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversation but things did not work out as expected. He knew i liked him but he wasn’t as interested in me. He liked my friend (who didn’t like him aaj since past few months. And wasn’t over her.I am new to this school and Here’s this guy liked like crazy 3 months ago. I tried texting him on fb and starting a conversa

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21 Angel April 18, 2012 at 11:36 pm

But now after 3 months when again i sent him a friend request and tried starting a conversation, he proposed me. He said- “i liked you for a short time though. And feelings change. Over all i really need a girl now.”

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22 Angie May 14, 2012 at 10:47 pm

So I got a question, and I’m really confused. I met this guy online 3 months ago, we haven’t talked on the phone or met. The thing is, I am interested in meeting him plus I really enjoy texting him, but it’s not like I legit like him, I gotta meet him first but he is attractive to me for the most part (from facebook pictures).
Its just, it doesn’t seem that this is going anywhere, I will say that about 90 percent of the time he will always be the one to text me first, even when I dont TEXT HIM BACK the night before, which I do on purpose. He has drunk texted me a few times, which makes me think he thought me while he was drunk, and one time the texts weren’t working, he actually told me he was worried that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore. I was worried for the SAME reason but he’s the one who said it, not me.
So this guy HAS to be interested right? I mean I’ve thought of moving on and stopped texting him but he doesnt stop sending me texts everyday when he gets out of work (same time everyday). Is it that he works alot and lives an hour away that he hasnt initiated anything? I dont get it, I really want to meet him and he seems like a great guy (we haven’t even texted anything sexual for the past 3 months) and even then he still decides to text me.
Please help me clear my confusion with this guy.

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23 Jenny August 12, 2012 at 2:49 am

Hi Angie…. I just wanted to say that I’m going through the same thing what started as a game became serious in just a couple of weeks. Everytime I try to get this texting thing out of my system it seems to never work but instead gets harder to leave … I never really expected to meet such a great guy but I know it’s an illusion and in my opinion anything that’s online isn’t real cuz I wasn’t truthful to him in a lot of things .. The sad thing in all this is that he’s been nothing but truthful to me or so I think….I think I even started to really imagine us being together even though I know in reality it’s a fantasy and not only that but the guy in reality isn’t my type but his personailty keeps me coming lol if that makes any sense? …. So what I’m trying to say is that just like u I’ve never really shared a phone call with him or even personal pics of me but only pics of places … Also I desperately want to end this but it’s so difficult cuz I think I’ve become addicted to texting him.. So I would love if someone had a simple but easy solution to this.

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24 Rosey August 17, 2012 at 4:20 pm

I have a question. I’ve been talking to this guy that I know from school and we’ve been talking for about to years. We basically talk non stop on the weekends and after school. I am not always the one to initiate the conversation, but I probably do 75% of the time. We know everything about each other and we had run out of things to talk about so he bout up the topic of sex and masturbation. I’m really open about that kinda stuff do it was fine but now he won’t get off that topic (at night). It’s getting boring for me. What should I do?? Ps. We are just really good friends.
Do you have any advice on how I should handle the situation??

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25 Jennifer October 17, 2012 at 2:16 pm

Hi, so I just bought your book and am excited to read it. However, I’m not sure I really need it. I have been dating this guy for about 3 weeks, we just recently slept together but have been texting every day since our first date. Since we spelt together I feel like the conversations are not as long or complex as they used to be, maybe he’s cooling?

Sometimes I initiate the text, sometimes he does, it’s almost equal. I only do it because I don’t want a day to go by where he doesn’t text. But if I didn’t text, and a day did go by, would that be a bad thing? Seems like the end of the world to me….

Ugh… I’m so confused! lol

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26 ladyindilemma November 2, 2012 at 2:54 am

I was friends with benefits with this guy when he was attached. We cuddled but things never got sexual.
But i decided that i couldn’t bear with being second fiddle so i proposed “breaking” up. At the same time he broke up with his gf (she found someone new i heard) and he said he wants to be just friends. Prior to this we were good friends who were attracted. I was on timeout with the BF but we have recently decided to start mending things, my ex-fwb said that he is happy for me.

However, i still have a soft spot for my ex-FWB. I’m not sure if i am harbouring hopes that he might see me differently because he taught me alot of things..it’s a emotional reliance for me.

For a while after we reverted back to friends..he helped me with my work..cooked for me etc. He never used to reply to my messages all the time but he was more avid when we were FWB. He would also initaite contact. Now it’s mostly me initating, though he sometimes still reply and appear cordial.

He used to pass me stuff so that he an see me, but now he just hang things outside my door without saying hi. He taught me driving on Monday but that night he never respond to my message ( it was just a comment about birdshit on my car though). He also took hours to reply my messages sometimes…though sometimes he’s fast.When i asked him to meet up once he say “next time”, but that night he dropped a hint to ask if i wanted to watch a movie in his room but i was busy.
But yet when i asked if he can help me with my presentation, he came over to my room and we chatted about random stuff for 3 hours….then i asked about the movie he watched and told him that he can ask me again next time, he did not look at me in the eye and he said ,” oh i watch at random timings”. I take this reply as he did not want to invite me? I feel like i am getting mixed signals….. Is he avoiding me or what? If he wants to avoid me, why chat with me?

He brought up archery and asked if i was interested but he didn;t follow up. I was keen though and i don;t mind hanging out as friends since i cant find anyone else who wants to do this. So i messaged him a link today about this archery club and tell him to let me know if he is still keen. The message was sent though whatsapp so i knew that he signed in a few time and probably saw my message..it’s has been a few hours but he didn’t reply. Do you think it is because he is not interested and he did not know how to reject? or is he just ignoring me?

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27 Amelia January 14, 2013 at 5:42 pm

Well… How do i start?.. I met this guy months ago & we got along straight away making each other laugh etc… We started hanging out a while after & going out drinking together (not much).. Then as much as i tried to deny it i had to admit to myself that somewhere along the line i really fell for this guy, it was hard because the situation between us is very complicated (i cant state why).. & i knew he could never feel the same way about me but altho i knew this sometimes he would suprise me :) …. So i sort of clung on to the hope that ONE day he might see me in the same light as i see him… Anyway i started drunk txting him quite a bit lol each time i apologised & he said it was
okay… He’s single & has loads of ‘FwB’ & although he secretly wants someone to love
again he just cant bring himself to get hurt as bad again… Some where along the line we went from hanging out every week & txting each other every day / second day to not seeing each other for a month or 2 & then going weeks without txting me… I think the drunk txting combined with me so upset in him (as far as i know) never being able to feel the same way pushed him away or maybe i was looking for something that for him just wasnt there…. Oh i dont know! Lol all im sure of is: i love him, he doesnt love me, somewhere along the line i lost myself & although i need to get over him i would rather have him in my life as a friend than have messed it up between us & possibly never see him again… But him only txting me back a little then sometimes replying
DAYS later! Is seriously annoying me… So how do i get him to txt me bk more often & preferbly on the same day & still get back that piece of myself over txt that i lost?… & how do i get over this guy!? Lol i know i probs dont make any sence but i think u can catch the jist of what im trying to say :)

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28 leslie l January 18, 2013 at 11:33 am

Help!! I need a guy’s advice or girl if you know. I drunk texted the guy that id been dating for a few months, on and off. We were off at the time and he wasnt responding to my texts. I did it a couple times about a week apart. They were pretty bad. Stuff like you’ll never get someone better than me. I hate you. I love you. pretty lame stuff. If i leave him alone for a month or two will he get over it? and maybe want me again?

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29 Ala May 1, 2013 at 2:52 pm

Hello, I just met a guy at the restaurant and he gave me his phone number. When should I text him and what should I text him

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30 Sophia May 2, 2013 at 2:55 am

He told me to stay calm and let the spell do it’s work, which indeed it did. Not even 3-4 days later, Anthony called me and asked me out for a drink. He apologized to me and sincerely begged me for forgiveness and to give him another chance. I loved this man so much, I could not say no. He now treats me like a princess better than before if I may add. Dr. Abu made a believer out of me. I wrote to him and apologized for my rudeness and lack of trust and patience. He also explained to me that magic is not like a push-button kind of thing. It sometimes takes longer than anticipated but it always works and he was right. You may also need help in your love life and i recommend him as he is a great spell caster. Contact him via:
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31 janette May 12, 2013 at 1:50 pm

this is a really nice website haha

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32 Anjean August 25, 2013 at 11:08 pm

Great advice, wish I had read it earlier, lol…
So I was on a date with this guy I really like. I haven’t been on a date for years… and didn’t know how to behave. At first I was really cool but then we sat very close to each other and I couldn’t breath properly. I was very nervous but also talkative and tried to keep myself calm. He told me that I look much younger than my age and I have perfect legs and skin (I’m 4 years older than him btw). We talked a lot and laughed and hugged sitting, we also hugged very strong at the end, but didn’t kiss. Actually I was so confused that I wanted to kiss him (mistake:( but he said he has a bad throat from drinking cold water and didn’t want to infect me (not sure about it). He told me that if he was in UK (he lives there, he’s visiting his mum here) he wouldn’t go home alone tonight… At the end we kissed on the cheeks but he kind of moved his mouth towards mine but I moved away fast. He said, call me and I said you too, he said I’ll text you. Anyways, I did this stupid thing to text him that it was awesome and I send him kisses, he said he agrees and kissed me back and send a smile. Next day I was stupid enough to text him that I miss him:((( He didn’t answer until 5 hours later to say “that’s so sweet, I miss you too(((” and that he was sleeping and his battery died. The next day as I thought he wasn’t very talkative I should tell him to meet up myslef (stupid, stupid, stupid me((( and he said “nooo I can’t today cause I gotta wake up really early tomorrow for my work” and I said ok, good luck. He hasn’t texted me ever since. I know I did some stupid things only cause I wanted to show him I cared. I’m not obsessed with him, but I think that’s the impression I gave him:((( he’s extremely handsome and manly and I’m very very attracted to him, going crazy waiting for a call from him. Anyways, I don’t know what to do cause I want to see him so much and fix all the stupid things I’ve done, but I’m not going to text him again, ever, and probably he won’t either…:((( Is there any chance that he will text me though?

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33 diane October 31, 2013 at 4:17 am

Wow, my approach to finding/getting /keeping a man is so different! I look for a man that likes me, wants to do things with me, and wants to introduce me to his friends.
If I feel like, If he’s not feeling me….(I don’t like that) and I’m not going to stick around and try to get him to feel me.
Keep looking for a man who you like and likes you back. Its awesome to be in love and have that feeling returned. If you ever get a man to fall for you. You would never settle for chasing after one and making him date you.
Why do some women try to do this? the man that’s not returning your call is a good guy. I see men that ate women and I can tell they are not in love. They are with the woman for sex and other things, not love.
Its horrible to see. The girl is always sad and cant figure out that he doesn’t and never is going to treat her like she wants, for god sakes girl fins a willing man!

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