Comments on: The rules for texting guys – Don’t make these mistakes!

By: Jen

Jen — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 06:04:40 +0000

I am texting guy guy as a write this, I do believe that you have just saved me.

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By: natalie

natalie — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 18:50:25 +0000

What if a guy texts you mostly but calls you too?

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By: Nikita

Nikita — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:00:18 +0000

I luv a guy who live in different state . We were in relationship for a month and now he says he want break- up but I can’t live without him help me to get him back and the most important thing is we always used to talk on phone for half hour . He says he want k

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By: Nikita

Nikita — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 15:54:25 +0000

I luv a guy who live in different state . We were in relationship for a month and now he says he want break- up but I can’t live without him help me to get him back

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By: Annie

Annie — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 03:22:35 +0000

Well this guy and i have been texting over a year, it all started really well. We texted daily and for such a long time mostly by him and him calling me princess giving me few hints. I asked him after a while what do u mean to him? his reply was youll know everything soon. and i had to wait but continued it texted normally. His dad knew about me and when i asked him what does he knew his reply was i cant tell no. Then i asked him what did your dad say then, and all he said is that he smiled and huged me. We never talked on the phone though. and after a long while after all these texts i heard that hes dating and when everyone asks him he keeps denying it so im not really sure. He used to start texts and checks on me. However lately he hasn’ t and its been me hows doing all the texts here, i try to stay for weeks not to text but after few days i do and when i do he treats me very well, but sometime i keep missing him so much that it shows that im very needy to him, Which is a big mistake huh? But now i really dont know how to fix beeing needy to him and get him attracted to my texts, how can I? Ill feel good and more confident if i fixed the way i look needy infront of him i guess. yet i dont want to stop texting but i can keep it once or so a week. By the way since we havent been texting these days much coz im the one who starts we keep it short “2-3 texts a day in a week” please help with adcive here. Thank you
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By: Carla

Carla — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 02:21:53 +0000

Ok, so i WAS texting this guy that i have never met before (you see my friend set us up, but he doesn’t live down here so we can’t see each other…i know it’s a bit weird), but anyway we used to text all of the time and although he is 2 years older than me, he was saying some really nice stuff about me. And he was always calling me cute and telling me that he wanted to kiss me and everything. However, i later found out that he has this huge crush on this girl, and that he has had this crush for quite some time now!
And then all of a sudden out of the blue he just stops texting me, like full stop. I tried to get him to start texting me again by like texting him first and asking question and shit, but nothing was working as he would just reply with one word answers.
And then the other day my friend (the one who set us up) told me that he was talking to her on facebook about me, and saying that he missed talking to me and how he feels like such a prick because he hasn’t been texting me because his phone broke. So i was like, oh yeah, so i text him, and he sent me back a one word answer.

So do you think my friend lied to me? or do you think that he was just stringing along in the first place, with no actual interest?… he is coming down this month and we were supposed to catch up but i don’t know if we should anymore…what do you think?

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By: Robinincarolina

Robinincarolina — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 20:55:29 +0000

emily,

You are doing all the work in this. You are texting, asking him out, adding him on facebook, etc…., stop! Now he is on drugs, been in rehab. Boy he sounds like a real winner. Sorry to be so blunt, but I think he may have lied about the missing you or being devastated. If this was the case he would not only answer your texts, but initiate some of his own.
Robinincarolina´s last blog ..The Real Truth Why Men Disappear updated Sun Oct 2 2011 11:39 am CDT

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By: emily

emily — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 21:41:37 +0000

I have a question.. I met this juggalo named Jordan at this party about 6 months ago now and I got his number a month after I met him texted him and told him its the girl from the party well first I added him on Facebook n told him who I was then he gave me his number. We talked for a couple of months and the first time we hung out at his apartment he asked me out then I was going to move but I changed my mind so I gave it some time and told him I want him back but it took quite awhile. Since I’ve met him we nearly texted he’s was on some drugs but we still kept in contact and hung out. All we would do is kiss and cuddle and waited for sex well eventually we went out again but I asked him out and he said yes but he put himself in rehab so I waited a month visited him every week and we wrote letters to eachother he was saying he loved me and he’d be devestated if he lost me the day he gets back he only texted me at night and didn’t even give me attention…then I got drunk and confronted him and I never talked to him since he never texts back anymore. What should I do I really like this Guy.

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By: beth

beth — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 06:39:04 +0000

I really like your website. You share your knowledge about dating topics freely. Unlike other sites where they keep making you read on and on waiting to get to the real point and in the end, they tell you to sign up and pay… I won’t mind paying buy why keep me reading on and on and creating suspense and wasting my time? Nkt!
Thanks. very informative and very sober site.
beth

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 01:05:20 +0000

I never argue over text. I just stop texting. It’s more powerful, overall.

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 01:03:31 +0000

Just keep it light, reply back with something like: Poor sweetie! Well, when your problems are over, let me know – I’d love to cheer you up!

Something like that. Then STOP texting unless he texts. Keep it all cheerful, light, and LESS than his.

And date someone else in the meantime!

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 00:59:12 +0000

When Caleb said, “I am not going to respond to lame, whiny texts that are mostly designed to show her neediness”, I agree he shouldn’t bother answering, but for different reasons.

Most women just aren’t conscious that they’re being whiny – they think they’re sharing, or communicating. Trust me, girls do NOT want to advertise their neediness! When they advertise it, it’s just by mistake – but men are right to flag it.

So Caleb’s right not to answer, because that just rewards whiny texting. And funny texts are good too. So right on, Caleb!

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 18:21:22 +0000

I agree Robin. Between Mike’s e-book,”The “Rules” book, and AskMen.com, I stopped making stupid mistakes.

Mike’s e-book is great for putting the reins on girls being too chatty, and swamping the guy with too much information.

“The Rules” basically says the same thing, but it didn’t have any info on texting, which is the real intro to getting to know people these days.

And AskMen.com pretty much clues in the clueless as to how men think.

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 18:16:34 +0000

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By: K.E.

K.E. — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 18:07:38 +0000

Yes. Get over it and save your energy for someone who digs you.

PS – eventually, YOU will dump someone by text too. Trust me.

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By: Robinincarolina

Robinincarolina — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 17:33:35 +0000

Hey Newbie,
He offered up an explanation more than likely because he figured you like most women expect one. Sad but true. Men are often conditioned this way because of the drama mamas in their past. No need to even worry about that, just over look the explanation.

It’s very soon in your dating and at the moment that is all it is, dating. Just send back a smiley or a one liner acknowledging his text.
My reply by the way on the night of the date would have just been a smiley, nothing more, nothing less. Hold back something, be a bit mysterious, it’s what draws them and compels them to want to know more, hence getting you that second date.
Robinincarolina´s last blog ..The Real Truth Why Men Disappear updated Mon Jun 13 2011 1-08 pm CDT

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