The first time I encounter infidelity
I remember vividly the first time I was ever unfaithful (does that mean there was a second?). I had just met the girl of my dreams. We had similar views and we were both enrolled at Westmont, a Christian college in Santa Barbara. Everything was going perfectly… until I ran [...]

We had sex, why do I feel like hating her?
I think I first heard this comment from a foreign guy in an email to David Deangelo the male dating guru. If I remember right David didn’t answer the question but had a good laugh as if everyone knew this feeling and thus knew the answer. [...]

Sometimes I find myself in the grocery store walking down the cleaning supplies isle wondering where the peanut butter is when it occurs to me that I was following a shapely bum I had seen earlier. I try to shake off my butt tracking stupor only to find it physically hard to drag myself over [...]