We were on the Highway going from the domestic Tokyo airport to Narita international, through the bus windows massive buildings flitted by in the distance. “Do it,” she said with whiskey in her voice. Her eyes were half lidded with sexuality, almost comically so. I looked over to the 6 or so people in the [...]

I have wanted to write about Sexual Tension forever, and after reading Jack’s most recent post on creating excellent sex I decided it was time to dive into this war-pig of a topic.

Why do you want to fuck the bad boy? the bitch?
Why would a man be aroused (secretly?) by the thought of his wife [...]

Everyone does it…
Everyone I have ever met has experienced make up sex. You have a good fight, someone storms out the door in a rant. You both stay irritated until one or the other breaks the ice and you rush into bed for some really good sex! Suddenly everything is fine, the stress of the [...]

Radio interview
Just got the recently released radio interview of me with the Love Detour Guys and if I say so myself it turned out excellent.
Topics covered

About the theme and the tag-line “how to make a man your bitch”
Anger towards men and the masculinization of the western woman
On chasing guys and asking them [...]

The first time I encounter infidelity
I remember vividly the first time I was ever unfaithful (does that mean there was a second?). I had just met the girl of my dreams. We had similar views and we were both enrolled at Westmont, a Christian college in Santa Barbara. Everything was going perfectly… until I ran [...]

I talked to my friend Cheri about this just yesterday. We talked a bit about ethical fudging for friends along with girl code and guy code. She told me an interesting story about her friend Emily. Cheri said Emily was very much love with her fiancé and was the last person you would expect to [...]

Ever heard the saying people don’t change? Is that true? Is that fair? I am sure that you in your life you have changed often. Grown into a better person, become more patient and more accepting. Is it possible that he could have changed too? Is it possible that he will be the perfect man [...]

I got this question from a reader the other day and I liked it a lot so I wanted to share it with you. Simple question but difficult answer!
From Casey:
How soon is it too soon for a woman to sleep with a guy? Any chance she’ll get a relationship while holding out? Or is [...]

When I was younger I would look at women as an aloof untouchable race that HAD to be captured. They were such a strange prey! They didn’t know whether they liked being chased or not. After a hunt I would get together with my hunting buddies and talk about the conquest. The one that just [...]

We had sex, why do I feel like hating her?
I think I first heard this comment from a foreign guy in an email to David Deangelo the male dating guru. If I remember right David didn’t answer the question but had a good laugh as if everyone knew this feeling and thus knew the answer. [...]