Hi there…I’m stumped and need some advice. Short story-my boyfriend and I have been together 5 years. He’s 33, I’m 30-he has 2 daughters (two different women) that are almost 10. They already call me their ’step-mommy’ and love me to death. His family talks to me more than they talk to him. Him and [...]

I woke up a little late this morning and swore a nice big, “FUCK YOU” at the TV.
The Today Show was on, and “Guys Tell All” was on. The topic was “Why do men cheat.”
This is so freakin frustrating to see cheating in the lime light because of Tiger Woods. And to see the incredibly [...]

From my facebook mail folder
Carrie: I messaged you before about this guy. And I realize you’re busy, but I really need help understanding this. He’s been dating this girl for almost 6 years. He started cheating on her almost the second he got with her with the same girl for 2 years. Then there [...]

The first time I encounter infidelity
I remember vividly the first time I was ever unfaithful (does that mean there was a second?). I had just met the girl of my dreams. We had similar views and we were both enrolled at Westmont, a Christian college in Santa Barbara. Everything was going perfectly… until I ran [...]

I talked to my friend Cheri about this just yesterday. We talked a bit about ethical fudging for friends along with girl code and guy code. She told me an interesting story about her friend Emily. Cheri said Emily was very much love with her fiancé and was the last person you would expect to [...]

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I still remember the tension in his voice when he called me, sounding as if he had trouble with the police, “Dude, I need your help.” “Sure buddy, what’s up?” I said, “Hey man… you got to promise to keep [...]

5. Change in appearance, starts caring about his body
I think the heaviest and most out of shape I have ever been was when I was in a serious relationship and it was not just me. Both of us beef-caked up a good 20bls! I remember when we decided to go on a diet together and [...]

10. Large reduction in eye contact when asking about suspicious situations
Why is it that the little kid in us remains at every age? When my roommate’s 2 year old daughter lies it is pretty obvious. Although it might be hard for you to recognize since you may not want to see it! but it [...]

He is jealous of you (projects his guilt)
Affections can become very strong (based out of guilt or heightened sexuality)
Affections can become very weak  (his attractions are elsewhere, none left for you)
Change in appearance, starts caring about his body (trying be more attractive for “her”)
Starts seeing “friends” that you don’t know and can’t check on
Uses the [...]

Just recently while working for a friend of mine one of her girlfriends called up very very concerned about her fiancé. Well… more like she needed about 20 Prozac and a couple of joints to calm down. As she ranted, I couldn’t help but over hear the conversation while I was fixing something. I have [...]