I got a question the other day from a reader on Girls Ask Guys. He is 18, from So Cal and in a lot of pain. Didn’t have to edit his letter, bright guy.
I read your article My Heart Is Broke, How Do I Fall Out of Love?, I loved it but I need some [...]

This is a continuation click here for part one of how do I fall out of love

3. Moving on
Eventually you are going to move on and that memory that used to send you into crying fits will make you smile at your past weakness. This happens to anyone given the right amount of time but [...]

Email from a reader
So, maybe, my question is, how can I turn off this love? How can I do it, if I loved him, flaws and all? He was sweet and generous with me when we were together and I only have good memories.
I was strong (Afraid and stubborn might be more correct – [...]

Email from one of my readers
On Sep 2, 2009, Danielle M. wrote
I was with this guy for a year. I broke up with him a month ago because we didn’t want the same things in our future. I wanted children and possibly marriage. Recently I explained to him it we didn’t have to get [...]

Everyone does it…
Everyone I have ever met has experienced make up sex. You have a good fight, someone storms out the door in a rant. You both stay irritated until one or the other breaks the ice and you rush into bed for some really good sex! Suddenly everything is fine, the stress of the [...]

I remember telling a friend that I just couldn’t do it. There was no way I could ever get married in Japan and stay married. If I married the same girl in the States, no problem but Japan?? Impossible…
Amy and Jordan
They were the sweetest engaged couple. Jackie was fiery and fun, Jordan quiet and [...]

A new girl just moved into my house. Lately I feel like I am the mascot to a sorority. There are now 4 girls living upstairs, granted one of them is only three but I think she has the hots for me. I wish the new girl did, she is absolutely adorable. Why did she [...]

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10. Bad sex
Have you ever heard the expression you don’t know what you don’t know? I don’t think Sarah had any idea that her teeth were filleting my wiener and her hands were stress balling [...]

This is part 3 in the perfect partner series. In the first two posts we talked a bit about what is good for you in a partner. This should allow you to pull together a blurry amorphous picture of the perfect guy. It is still a bit cloudy but today I would like to start [...]

A few years back I was dating someone older than me. I was 25 at the time and she was 30. Not that big a difference… but for some reason I felt self conscious about it, even though we looked the same age. Actually I felt crappy about everything. I didn’t like my behavior with [...]