Soulmate, the secret to finding your perfect match – The Archetypes

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  1. Shannon says:

    Ok, you know me, so I need you to tell me which I am and who I need to look for so that I stop chasing my tail.
    .-= Shannon´s last blog ..Men’s Product Review: Joe Grooming Scrub, Shave and Moisturizer =-.

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    • Mike Masters says:

      You are a magician babe.
      What is your opposite? The King! I know you don’t think you get along with a king but I am sure you can find some examples in life, where you had a strong connection with a king.
      Don’t like receive orders? I am guessing that you were with a dysfunctional king in the past and now you have negative associations with it.

  2. PrincessT82 says:

    Love the blog, but I can’t understand your graph there with the 4 archetypes, along with the feminine/masculine, logical/creative. I seem to be all over the shop. When I read your descriptions, I would classify myself as a mix of Queen and Magician, but then I look at the chart and they’re basically on opposite ends of the spectrum. It’s all very confusing… and yet intriguing! So what would the opposite of Queen/Magician be – Warrior/Lover? That sounds hot, and yet completely impossible at the same time. This explains a lot…
    .-= PrincessT82´s last blog ..Long Distance =-.

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  3. Mike Masters says:

    All you have to do is this,
    Am I more passive or assertive?
    am I more creative or logical?
    Which category is that?
    If you are still confused I imagine that you have learned the behaviors of other archetypes.
    Your true nature is what you were born with and often get glazed over with time and baggage.
    Does this help at all?

    • PrincessT82 says:

      Ya I see what you mean… I guess I’m more passive, but I tend to be a bit balanced in the creative/logical spectrum, but probably slightly more logical. So Queen with a bit of Lover…? I guess makes sense. And we all have a little bit of each category really, since we’re most complex than a flow chart.

      Thanks, it’s very interest :)
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  4. Elle says:

    I’m definitely a warrior with a little bit of the magician thrown in. My only thing is I’m so used to being in charge and bossing people around and having to make the decisions and busting my ass, that when i get into a relationship- I don’t want to do any of that. I just want someone just to make the decision for me, so that i don’t have to think for once.
    .-= Elle´s last blog ..Open Letter: Please stop calling =-.

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  5. Mike Masters says:

    That is the problem with a warrior, they are often so strong they take on the kings role and bulldoze their match the lover. What a warrior needs to do if turn down the volume a bit and try to find a strong, intelligent, powerful Lover. (someone like me!)
    The strong lover is able to set boundaries and keep the strong warrior/magician in check.
    The other option is to train a lover how to deal with you and make your expectations very clear. Be very cautious with this though, if you are too strong the lover will run. (I ran all the way to Japan, I was so frustrated with American warrior women)

  6. Shannon says:

    You know why I am a magician? You know what is magical about me? LOL.

    Anyway, I agree with you. I am chaotic and I need to be with someone orderly. Yes, bad associations with a King type (except the person wasn’t so nurturing.) I also realize that I dated one this year and now I understand why we got along so well.
    .-= Shannon´s last blog ..Create Your Own Makeup at Kolmar PAINT Party =-.

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  7. Mike Masters says:

    Pretty soon I will talk about the dysfunctional attraction to our opposite. I used to love fucked up warriors and I created a negative bond more times than I can count. Soon after, I met a healthy lover/queen and although the relationship was dull, she taught me the wonder of a healthy person. Now I am searching for a functional warrior/queen!
    Don’t let the negative block your happiness.

  8. Brittany says:

    Wow! This really changed my outlook on dating and made me realize that I was falling for guys that were totally wrong for me. It makes so much sense to find someone who can make up in areas where you lack because dating really is about teamwork. How can a relationship work out when you have two people with the same strengths and weaknesses?
    .-= Brittany´s last blog ..Yay Salisbury! =-.

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  9. Liza says:

    Interesting theory, I agree with most but…I find myself falling into the Warrior/King rold but I find that I can’t respect guys who are wiffy/waffy. I’d like a guy who is stronger than me and can defend me if necessary.
    Maybe what I am saying is I like a guy who is strong outside of home (warrior/King like me) and who is a Lover/Magician with me. Does that make sense?

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  10. Dana says:

    Awesome, awesome stuff! Very easy to pick myself out of the group and obviously, I am anxious to read about why I have a dysfunctional attraction to fucked-up warriors as well:) Good stuff.

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  11. Mrs. Birdman says:

    This post was amazing. I am a lover/magician with a warrior/king! That makes so much sense. I also grinned with joy when I realized I had 2 daughters, one king/lover and one magician/warrior. No wonder why I butt heads with them for different reasons. :). Such a terrific post!

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