Be Unbelievable in Bed! – 20 tips for Women Only – 1 of 2

by Mike Masters on November 9, 2009

I have been with a lot of ladies and I can assure you that there is a lot of little things that make a girl unbelievable in bed. Granted the guy is more of a limiting factor for good sex than a woman but there is no reason why you can’t get more out of him by making the situation as sexy as possible.

The way I built the list was to think of the best five lovers I have ever had and what set them apart. Almost all of them shared most of the traits below, to my surprise though three of the girls had very little experience, one average and only one was uber slutty. (still fantasize about her)

Masterdater Mike’s unexpected tips to being amazing in bed

  1. Adore sex – if a girl is not a fan of sex it pretty much kills the whole thing. The guy might get to a happy place but he might as well be masturbating. Adoring sex with him is not only incredible for you but will create a superglue like bond between the two of you and make you both better in bed.
  2. Be wild and spontaneous (have sex anywhere and everywhere) – Every girl that I remember being amazing in bed wanted to get down anywhere and everywhere. At times this was obnoxious and I had to explain to one girl that a packed movie theater was not the place for a hand job.
  3. Have a powerful orgasm – One of the biggest turn-ons for most men is to see a woman having an orgasm. I am not talking about a little hiccup of one that skips along every 5 minutes but a force five GALE of an orgasm that shakes the foundations of the house. If you are not having these, you need to seek out some help.
  4. Always be willing to make love – I have a rule, NEVER SAY NO. Well… to be fair it is more of a request than a demand. I have had times myself were I had to say no. However, the point is that if are close to following this you will be able to avoid a lot of pain based on sexual rejection, and I have found libido will catch up with increased activity.
  5. Become excellent at telling him what to do – You just gotta do this… not explaining what you like does both of you a huge disservice. Don’t be shy, if you like vegetables in bed then let him know! Also don’t forget to constantly probe him (not literally) for what he likes, often even guys are a little shy about sex.
  6. Wanting to please him as much as possible – This falls under the law of reciprocity. Please him and he will want to please you, of course if you feel it is getting too one sided let the selfish bastard know! I personally can’t stand a girl that does not reciprocate in bed.
  7. Screw him back – If you are too passive in bed he might as well buy a blow up doll. It may not seem like it but you could be doing a whole lot more in missionary. I have been amazed by what a little movement in the right way can do for sex. I once was with a girl that could take me over the edge nearly instantly while on top, something that no other girl was able to do. (she was in my top five)
  8. Proper dirty talk – If you are not having at least a little dirty pillow talk you are missing out! It is just plain sexy when girls talk dirty in bed, even sexier if there is a thick accent involved!
  9. Taking on a passive role – Sometimes it is pretty attractive to let him just take you. To let him use you aggressively just to get off. Let him be selfish every once in a while and let him know you like it.
  10. Taking on an aggressive role – I love it when a girl takes the male role and has her way with me. A girl I dated got off of work at two in the morning and would come over to my house and jump me while I was half asleep. It was wonderful…

Continue on to part 2 of how to be unbelievable in bed – for women only!

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1 Dating Diva November 9, 2009 at 4:48 pm

Wow, wish I knew a guy who could never say no…but if I remember correctly you pretended to fall asleep so that you wouldn’t have to have sex with IUD girl? Hmm. I think you threw this principle out the window then. ;)

As for the powerful orgasm part–if a guy sucks in bed there is no way this can happen. Not even faking it.
.-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..Dating Advice: How Do I Know if He is Over His Ex? =-.

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2 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 7:46 am

@Dating Diva –

I disagree about the orgasm. I take an active part in getting myself off (using my hands, etc) as an organic part of overall sex play – I never just “leave it up to the guy”. Sometimes it is just him, sometimes it’s mostly me, with him as a willing accomplice. Most of the time, it’s somewhere in the middle. Sometimes I don’t get off and I don’t care.

Anyway, they usually know I came pretty hard when I start giggling , I won’t let them touch me, and I try to throw them off the bed. No one has dared try to hold me down then – I get really strong!

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3 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 8:01 am

Oh yeah, and the visuals. Sometimes I get these psychedelic visuals right before or at orgasm, and I’m totally straight. I thought this happened to everyone, until I found out it didn’t.

I asked a noted neurologist about this one time, and he thought I was coming on to him, even as he explained I was only the second woman he’d ever heard tell of this. He said he didn’t believe the first one, until he heard the same story from me.

Then he tried to hit on me for months. Shmuck.

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4 Mike Masters November 9, 2009 at 5:10 pm

That rule is only for someone you are dating!
I am not bound to the neighbor girl or the girl that DMs me on twitter all day long. Geez…

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5 Dating Diva November 9, 2009 at 5:53 pm

Oh you are in trouble now mister!

#8…I wish guys would do this.
.-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..Dating Advice: How Do I Know if He is Over His Ex? =-.

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6 Jillian November 9, 2009 at 8:00 pm

I’m the girl he DMs on twitter all day. Punk.
.-= Jillian´s last blog ..Car trouble, why do you plague me? =-.

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7 Jillian November 9, 2009 at 8:01 pm

And I don’t think you have to worry about that rule with me. :p
.-= Jillian´s last blog ..Car trouble, why do you plague me? =-.

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8 Jillian November 9, 2009 at 8:01 pm

Is that statue kissing a child statue? WTH?
.-= Jillian´s last blog ..Car trouble, why do you plague me? =-.

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9 Kitty Litter November 10, 2009 at 9:34 am

I don’t know why I’m still single…

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10 Mike Masters November 10, 2009 at 9:36 am

Why do you meet most of these?
Don’t worry I have been asking myself the same question! Sucks…
but I am in the middle of BF nowhere

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11 Kitty Litter November 10, 2009 at 1:18 pm

Answering your question… yep, pretty much. Anyways, I guess I’m single for other reasons… whatever!

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12 Dallas!! November 14, 2009 at 4:29 pm

#8 ooooooooh. if only there were more of thoseeee around

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13 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 7:52 am

@#8: I don’t know what”s so hard about this one. It’s so fun, and it’ easy. And this coming from a little Catholic girl! ;)

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14 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 7:51 am

@#2:

I think the guy subtly doing the girl can work in the back row of a movie though. Worked for me. He was Brazilian though, of course.

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15 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 7:56 am

I remember my boyfriend had a scar on his tailbone for a really long time after we boinked on the beach one night on Kalalau beach on Kauai. haha!

And the same guy got some cactus bits in him from doing the nasty with me in the park underneath the Flatirons (a mountain landmark) in Boulder.

haha – ladies, if the terrain is treacherous, stay on top! ;)

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16 Janice T August 11, 2010 at 2:26 pm

@ Mike: would you please post about how to date a guy who legitimately using Viagra, and also, alternatives to Viagra?

This is a new situation for me, and the guy is cool. I don’t really see anything smart about this on the net anywhere, and I really want a guy’s perspective.

thanks!

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17 Aplus September 27, 2010 at 12:21 am

Wow! if only everybody thought like that or did like that…but you do know it cuts both ways.

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18 The Blue Lotus August 22, 2011 at 12:29 am

I have to totally disagree with #4. This might work for guys, but I dated someone with that rule… He also expected it to be my rule. All that did was make me bitter and repulsed. He would expect to get down even when he was being an a-hole or too drunk or whatever. Plus, I think that gets a guy to start looking at it like a right, and not a pleasure or a treat. Both partners should see sexy time as a privelage, and appreciate it.

Now, don’t get me wrong, Mike. I am certainly no prude. I’m adventurous and have a very energetic sex drive… but I HATED stupid the never say no thing.

He and I have managed to remain friends after our break-up, but I guarentee he’ll NEVER get sex with the ex out of me…. mostly thanks to little rule #4.
The Blue Lotus´s last blog post ..Why So Many Dating Levels???

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19 Anonymous April 25, 2013 at 4:47 pm

I disagree. I can’t stand girls talking dirty or being aggressive. Telling me what to do in sex!? Can’t stad that. Tat would mean dumped.

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