Sexual Tension, why he isn’t into you – Soulmate 5 of 6

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  1. Dating Diva says:

    Alas, this is what happens to me time and again. I am always so strong in the beginning, but once I like a guy, I am complete mush. My logical brain decides to hibernate because I get too worried that a guy will tire of my strength, or worse soon become intimidated just like what happened to you. So I recoil, probably sooner than I should, and it sabotages the potential relationship. I need to figure out how to stop doing that or I am going to die an old maid.
    .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..Online Dating: Showing Some Skin =-.

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  2. Robby says:

    Great post Mike, I really like how you compared these two concepts: tension and power. I’ve had to lose some amazing women in my past before I started to really appreciate these ideas. I continue to enjoy your blog,
    ~ Robby
    .-= Robby´s last blog ..Help!? I’m always ending up in the Friend-Zone!? =-.

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  3. Mike Masters says:

    Hey Robby!
    Sorry I didn’t give you credit back there. I didn’t even think about it. Let me fix that now.
    Thanks for the thumbs up on this post. I think sometimes posts are a little too brainy for people to comment on. I have to hit on earthier topics.
    “OMG he totally farted during sex!! what do I do!!???”

  4. Dating Dufus says:

    Hi Mike, I love this soulmate series. It is very helpful and a great model to analyze the dynamics we are in. Just wondering if you wrote part 6 yet? No rush, just looking forward to reading it!

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    • Mike Masters says:

      I would have continued it if it were more popular!
      It seems only I really liked that series. I believe it was one of the most important post series I have ever written! and the graphics I made in photo shop.
      Nope… there is no six and probably never will be.
      I think I might have just confused people with that post. They seem to only like things like 25 reasons why he just ejaculated!!

      • Dating Dufus says:

        Oh no! I just checked back again wondering if you have a part 6 and finally saw your response. Huh? I don’t understand why you think people didn’t appreciate it. This is one of your most important series for sure!!! The charts are great and I love that you are breaking down so many different dynamics that are part of the general “power dynamic.” I think this series is GREAT! Thanks!

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      • Dana says:

        No, not true. Write a book on this…

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  5. Kai says:

    I have, what I call, the “Harley Syndrome.” This is in reference to Harley Quinn from Batman. She was once sane and had her shit together. Then, after meeting Joker, she loses it all. She gives him all the power, will do anything for him. For a long time, I just told myself that I am just a person who cares a lot, who is willing to give anything to the man I love… that I was just LOYAL. I am pretty damn good looking’. I always thought being sexy, confident, highly intelligent and loyal meant that any guy should feel lucky to be with me, but i’ve had some the unsexiest guys go running. Could it really all boil down to a simple balance of power???? Wow.

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  6. Lilly says:

    I stumbled upon your blog and have read quite a bit on here in the last couple of days and I have to say, this series is the meat of your blog and I found it very helpful, insightful and easy to comprehend. Great work! I hope you do reconsider posting Part 6. Isn’t it worth it even if helps only one person? That’s a big reason (among others) why I blog. 😉

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  7. Zammy says:

    Mike, you have to write Part 6! Its clear that you have put a lot of thought into this, and it is a very intelligent post. And like Lilly mentioned, isnt it worth even if it helps just 1 person? :)

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  8. Mrs.Birdman says:

    Yes. Part six, dammit!

    Please. :)

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  9. lija says:

    Oh my goodness. The shallow, shallow Madonna ridden world isn’t interested… I believe it. But, Mike! There is also me! and the seven other people who cared enough to comment… even if you don’t write number six, I loved this series.

    …but it would be so nice to have number six. it’s like your favorite tele series finally has a character relationship you can totally relate to – then they’re written out of the show right before they can really *be* anybody on the show. It’s awful. >.<


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