Danger! are you choosing the wrong guy?

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  1. Jersey Brett says:

    If one is a natural breeder, is there any hope for him to have a nice, normal family life some day?

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  2. Mike Masters says:

    If you have any desire for the nice normal family life I would imagine you are just a temporary breeder.

  3. Jersey Brett says:

    Probably. I’m at a point where nesting seems rather appealing to me.

    What if you’re a breeder, but your hair falls out and you get a huge beer gut, so that you can’t breed anymore?

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  4. Mike Masters says:

    I have always told my female friends that I will get married when and IF (big if) my sex drive disappears. In essence very similar to the bald fat guy you are referring too.
    Guys like that? they either make a lot of money and create a fantastic nest or they pay for hookers. They have lost the ability to be breeders due to age and beer. (something that horrifies me better start making some money)

  5. Jillian says:

    What a lovely gift to give your wife: lack of sex because you no longer crave it. Ugh.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Drinking and Driving =-.

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  6. Dating Diva says:

    I think the breeder finally settles down when he realizes there is that void in his life no matter how much he tries to fill it with meaningless sex, learning new languages, traveling the world…you know that vagabond type of guy. At some point he figures out what it is that makes the nester so happy. He may not realize it until it is almost too late (for the actual pro-creating part) but eventually he realizes it.

    Just sayin. Looked into my crystal ball. 😉
    .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..If He Lets His Friend Grope You, He’s Just Not That Into You =-.

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  7. Jillian says:

    OH OH! Do me next, DD! Do me!

    Um, not like that. Read my fortune!
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Drinking and Driving =-.

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  8. Nicole says:

    If I were a male, I’d probably be a breeder.. but, I suppose that’s impossible since I’m a female. Your genetics theory is probably correct, though.. I find myself not being able to settle down with the nesters because I get bored.. even though they all want my babies. I attribute that to eugenics and my superior genome :-)

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  9. Dating Diva says:

    haha Jillian–you know I am right about our so called breeder though! 😉
    .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..If He Lets His Friend Grope You, He’s Just Not That Into You =-.

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  10. Jillian says:

    I think that the heart is a funny thing…always doing things we never expected or thought we wanted. I want this breeder, in particular, to be incredibly happy, no matter what. And I think he will be. There is something to be said for protesting too much, isn’t there? 😉
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  11. nandoism says:

    wow, straight folks date so differently–at least the labels are the same.
    watch out mister–one day you just might meet someone who will make you re-evaluate your belief system. Two Words: Vince Vaughn.
    .-= nandoism´s last blog ..The Non-Date Date Illusion =-.

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  12. Mike Masters says:

    Wow, so cool to see the famous Nando on my blog.
    Re-evaluate my belief systems? That’s cute =)

  13. Jillian says:

    The cute ones are always gay. ALWAYS gay. Which is why my first 5 crushes were gay and I was totally oblivious. *sigh* Hi, nandoism.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  14. Jillian says:

    I should stop subscribing to these threads. I end up threadjacking.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  15. Mike Masters says:

    God… stop spamming my comments!!!
    and what? I am not cute enough to be gay?

  16. Jillian says:

    I know, right? Some lofty bitch coming into your house taking over. It’s like I think I live here or something.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  17. Mike Masters says:

    I agree but you still didn’t answer if I am cute enough to be gay.
    you lofty bitch

  18. Dating Diva says:

    Jillian I have met Nando in person and he is cuter than his picture shows.

    Mike I agree with Nando on what he said. But then again, I always agree with Nando.
    .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..The Third Date Rule: Sex =-.

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  19. Jillian says:

    Oh dear, DD. I might have a crush. I always do on the gay ones. :(

    @Mike I know I didn’t. Punk. 😉
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  20. Mike Masters says:

    Damn it!!!
    Enough about cute gay Nando! ONE TWO THREE MEEEE Hello! my blog!

  21. Jillian says:

    DD, any chance he might be bi instead of gay? 😀
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  22. Dating Diva says:

    Jillian, let’s keep talking about Nando. I like seeing Mike get all worked up. Fun times! And no, Nando is 100% about about the guys.
    .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..The Third Date Rule: Sex =-.

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  23. Mike Masters says:

    That’s it.
    I am going gay, maybe Nando will give me some attention

  24. nandoism says:

    Mike, sorry for taking over–it happens. haha.
    Listen, I wanna do a few cross-over blogs with you–what’cha think?

    I really respect your dating view points and love your writing style!

    let me know!

    And to Jillian and Dating Diva –wow, thanks….you both made this Mexican blush.
    .-= nandoism´s last blog ..The Non-Date Date Illusion =-.

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  25. Mike Masters says:

    Nando!
    I just was at your blog today
    I would very much like to do some cross-overs (is that like a reach-around?) with you and your blog.
    Ironically I am writing a post right now that I could use your help on.

    Also I really like your blog, you are funny as hell and honestly intimidate me with your wit.
    I will DM you soon. Trying to finish a post

  26. Mike Masters says:

    Jillian I really want to redo the blog…

  27. Jillian says:

    I’m sorry, DD. I had to go to the gym.

    Nando, Awww. The real question is are you open to cross overs with me and DD. ;D Not of the blogging sort.

    Mike, I have a couple of people in mind. I like Courtney at Judith Shakes and if you aren’t a fan, there is one other person I have in mind.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cold sensitivity =-.

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  28. Sarah says:

    Hey–you forgot a third option (which kinda relates to DD and Jillian’s comments about you finally settling down one day–perhaps ;)) and that is a guy somewhere in the middle of the breeder and the nester. My husband? NOT a nester, but somehow I had goods enough to convince him to marry. And has he settled down into a “safe” life style to protect me and provide? Really not. For the moment he has a normal job, but that doesn’t mean much. So far, he’s thrown away a normal job to run away to Spain with me for a year and we’re looking to do that again—or maybe start a vineyard, or some equally crazy and uncertain occupation that is creative and uncertain and a huge risk. Just see where we are one year from now–maybe in Spain and starting a vineyard and raising goats and selling cheese. Who knows? But he was a player like you, not wanting to marry until he was sixty and with a line of women out the door. Guess my goods were good enough to make him give all that up. That and I’m as adventuresome as he is–perhaps more so! So he didn’t have to give up so very much on the adventuring front, just the dating front. And for whatever crazy reason, he finds me well worth that sacrifice (I think he needs his head examined!). So there. There is a happy medium for you wanderlust types!

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  29. Mike Masters says:

    Once again you suck…

  30. Sarah says:

    I love you too, Mike. Besos!

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  31. Jillian says:

    OMG, if there was a run, tackle, hug option on here I would so do it! SARAH! <3 <3 <3
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Motivation =-.

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  32. Sarah says:

    Right back at you Jillian! You’re wonderful lady!

    (Sorry Mike and everyone else–a girly moment had to be shared!)
    .-= Sarah´s last blog ..War in The Congo: Consumer Technology & Human Rights =-.

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  33. Jillian says:

    Yes, it’s like bromance, except for girls. It’s giromance.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cactus: An unfortunate event =-.

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  34. Mike Masters says:

    Jillian is that G pronounced like the Greek sandwich?

  35. Sarah says:

    No–hard G like Girl! Maybe grrrromance is more appropriate?
    .-= Sarah´s last blog ..War in The Congo: Consumer Technology & Human Rights =-.

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  36. Jillian says:

    YES @ Sarah.

    And Mike, I’ve gained a pound. I’m about to throw a temper tantrum.

    I just got the Greek part. Slow on the uptake today. Gyromance. That was a really good one, honey. *rim shot*
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cactus: An unfortunate event =-.

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  37. Sarah says:

    Or Hero-mance, depending on how you pronounce gyro (I think there are three pronunciations, just to make things more complicated!). But I think we could totally be heroes, too! Or heroines, as the case may be…

    Mike, stop thinking about tights and capes!
    .-= Sarah´s last blog ..War in The Congo: Consumer Technology & Human Rights =-.

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  38. Mike Masters says:

    Lets talk on the phone tonight. I will explain a bit about the diet you are doing but by no means should you feel discouraged, this is very normal

    but maybe you have had one to many gyromances?

  39. Jillian says:

    Sarah, YES! With anti-cameltoe panties!

    @Mike You are a charmer. I can imagine you saying that with your dimples showing. I don’t even LIKE gyros. I know. I’ve been told I’m going to hell for that. I’m a farmgirl with simple tastes.
    .-= Jillian´s last blog ..Cactus: An unfortunate event =-.

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