Comments on: Marrige and death, a married man’s view point

By: 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2

25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:35:06 +0000

[...] to his wife for almost three years, likens his marriage to Jail. He wrote a post for me here, Marrige and death, a married man’s point of view. He hates marriage so much that he verbally and emotionally tortures his wife, he is so abusive [...]

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By: Sha

Sha — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 18:07:32 +0000

great post.

That freedom, in essence means that you can no longer just live for you. The fact that you can no longer live selfishly is scary…its a high risk. Can it be done? Is it possible that there are other forces that enable us to survive selflessly in a marriage (at least some of the time) that us singles may not completely grasp. I think many have not been able to tap into that force. But it sounds like to me that your buddy Casey has some concept of using that force to work through the “in between”.

I am interested in hearing more about the “so much more” that Casey noted as an exchange for freedom

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By: On the Money

On the Money — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 23:19:03 +0000

Sounds good! I might try it on my new friend Dotty (see http://russellcavanagh.com/2/?p=197)

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By: tom

tom — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 14:58:39 +0000

Great article and thanks for mentioning me in it.
I too, have been wondering recently about marriage. I’ve read a bit about history and there really isn’t any clear indication, except as a form of increasing wealth.
And yes divorce does prove a point, hence why common law partners are so common.
Or its just people wanting to get out of their comfort zone and experiment, imagine an all you can eat restaurant.

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