Just recently while working for a friend of mine one of her girlfriends called up very very concerned about her fiancé. Well… more like she needed about 20 Prozac and a couple of joints to calm down. As she ranted, I couldn’t help but over hear the conversation while I was fixing something. I have my hands immersed into a muddy sprinkler system like a surgeon digging around for a spleen. My friend breaks in and tells her that she has a “relationship expert” with her at the moment. I felt a swell of arrogant pride only to be squashed a bit by her telling her I am her handyman and am covered in mud and can’t hold the phone (I am the most highly educated handyman I know… go figure). While I salvage my pride, I muster up the confidence necessary to break through her raving to get a better explanation. She tells me the situation and why she is very very anxious about her future with her fiancé. As we hammered out the story some details became clear. Let me run through some of them.
- She looked through the history folder on his computer and found daily visits to pornography sites, even though he swears he does not masturbate (ah, really?? You didn’t inhale Mr. President?)
- He has told her in the past that he won’t look at porn anymore and she thinks it might be a precursor to cheating
- He was married before and admitted to cheating on his previous wife
- He confessed to her that she is finally the one to tame him that he was ready to settle down
- He is over the age of 30 and has been living a wild lifestyle a long time
- He has pretty wild friends that his fiancé does not like
- She is a 6’ tall fitness model (Do you know why this is important?)
- He says he is reformed and has cut out a lot of his older life
- They have only been in a relationship 6 months and are already engaged with a wedding date planned
Hmmm… What does this tell you?
But first…
Why do we talk about others? I think it is to understand ourselves better but of course usually there is a self serving piety involved! But I really like to think that most people want to learn about their own life and make better choices by watching others. So lets observe her…
What is going on here?
First of all SHAME ON HER!!! What he does on his computer is his business and this includes his cell phone ladies!
Okay now that we got that out of the way…
Let’s address the pornography
Continued tomorrow!!!
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Well if you ask me, he watches porn because he is not satisfied with the relationship. He may want to experiment what they do in these movies with the wife but is in fear of bringing it up.
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Maybe, but this couple is both over 30 and they already watch porn together. I do think a lot of guys do that though, so ladies take notes if a guy shows you a porno oral sex.