Comments on: How a small change in appearance and attitude can make you more attractive to men, Part 5 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: jerees http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/comment-page-1/#comment-420 jerees Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:39:29 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=73#comment-420 Unhappy! Yeah that's what I was curious about, was why the breakup happened to start with. I assume she had been looking sexy but unhappy though too, so maybe if she'd been a happy person and upbeat, a pair of torn old sweats wouldn't have mattered as much? Unhappy! Yeah that’s what I was curious about, was why the breakup happened to start with.

I assume she had been looking sexy but unhappy though too, so maybe if she’d been a happy person and upbeat, a pair of torn old sweats wouldn’t have mattered as much?

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/comment-page-1/#comment-411 Mike Masters Thu, 23 Apr 2009 05:09:45 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=73#comment-411 I broke up with her because she was such an unhappy person. Is anyone sexy before being dumped!? no of course not but this is chicken and egg... If she managed to become sexy, she would have been back in my life I broke up with her because she was such an unhappy person.
Is anyone sexy before being dumped!? no of course not but this is chicken and egg… If she managed to become sexy, she would have been back in my life

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]]> By: jerees http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/comment-page-1/#comment-407 jerees Thu, 23 Apr 2009 03:55:00 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=73#comment-407 I'm really curious, why did you break up with her, and why did she let her appearance go (before the breakup, I don't think anyone is "hot" when they're being dumped, lol) I’m really curious, why did you break up with her, and why did she let her appearance go (before the breakup, I don’t think anyone is “hot” when they’re being dumped, lol)

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/comment-page-1/#comment-337 Mike Masters Wed, 15 Apr 2009 04:23:19 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=73#comment-337 @LMN thanks for that! it is true that looks are not all that important! @LMN thanks for that! it is true that looks are not all that important!

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]]> By: LMN http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/dating-advice/a-small-change-in-appearance-and-attitude-can-make-all-the-difference/comment-page-1/#comment-334 LMN Wed, 15 Apr 2009 00:44:36 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=73#comment-334 Super post, Mike! Bottom line: I believe that beauty is something that permeates from within. Period! I have known MANY good looking women, and men, too. They have graced the covers of some of the most prized magazines in the world, but they are quite often the biggest train wrecks I've ever met! What did they lack? INSECURITY. How is this possible?! Well, just as you said, the answer is quite simple. They are missing that one, critical and key ingredient: SELF-CONFIDENCE. I once dated a gorgeous model guy (one of many shallow ones I've bumped into over the course of my dating past, but that's a whole 'nother post in itself!) that couldn't get through a meal without talking about how much more defined his abs COULD be, which modeling jobs he SHOULD have had, and how famous he WOULD be, if only he had booked that job from last week. Wow. Dinner with him was like a final snack before The Last Supper! ENOUGH, already! Even though there was nothing more physically attractive than those icy, baby blues gazing across the table at me, I couldn't stomach word after pathetic word that oozed out of those perfectly plump lips. I was D-O-N-E. After an earful of this nonsense, I never, ever called him back again. As a matter of fact, the next guy I dated was quite average, in just about every way, with the exception of who he was on the INSIDE. A stellar individual! Intelligent. Classy. Confident....more confident than a dozen of those runway-walking, ab-crunching, ego-maniacs I had ever-so-stupidly drooled over in all the years past, combined. Finally, I GOT IT! Thank you for keepin' it real, Mike! Super post, Mike!

Bottom line: I believe that beauty is something that permeates from within. Period!

I have known MANY good looking women, and men, too. They have graced the covers of some of the most prized magazines in the world, but they are quite often the biggest train wrecks I’ve ever met! What did they lack? INSECURITY. How is this possible?! Well, just as you said, the answer is quite simple. They are missing that one, critical and key ingredient: SELF-CONFIDENCE.

I once dated a gorgeous model guy (one of many shallow ones I’ve bumped into over the course of my dating past, but that’s a whole ‘nother post in itself!) that couldn’t get through a meal without talking about how much more defined his abs COULD be, which modeling jobs he SHOULD have had, and how famous he WOULD be, if only he had booked that job from last week. Wow. Dinner with him was like a final snack before The Last Supper! ENOUGH, already! Even though there was nothing more physically attractive than those icy, baby blues gazing across the table at me, I couldn’t stomach word after pathetic word that oozed out of those perfectly plump lips. I was D-O-N-E. After an earful of this nonsense, I never, ever called him back again. As a matter of fact, the next guy I dated was quite average, in just about every way, with the exception of who he was on the INSIDE. A stellar individual! Intelligent. Classy. Confident….more confident than a dozen of those runway-walking, ab-crunching, ego-maniacs I had ever-so-stupidly drooled over in all the years past, combined. Finally, I GOT IT!

Thank you for keepin’ it real, Mike!

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