The myth of Casual sex
When I was in college I was infamous for what I called “the disclaimer”. This was something I told all girls I was involved with; it went something like this… “I think you are very cool and I like you but I am not interested in a relationship right now. If [...]

Jealousy of a dude?
I came home from my buddy’s house happy as hell only to run smack into my wreck of a girlfriend. She looked like she had been crying for a couple of hours. She not only had eyes puffed closed but her mascara looked like linebacker paint. I had to grit my [...]

I have talked about social chameleons and satellites before here. These people are they way they are because they need another to rotate around, to follow, to tell them what is right. This is an inherent quality in many people and although I may not want to be this way personally I don’t fault it. [...]

It is 3 in the morning and my phone is ringing, I am still up because there is a party at my house in the process of winding down. I am a bit too happy because I lost at a card game and was forced to drink copious amounts of wine. I am DRUNK, I [...]

He met someone new (he starts to get distant, like he is working too much)
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Your body changed (hmm… gained weight?)
You are no longer in the honeymoon stage (love hormones wore off)
Money problems, you want too much from him (he is cheap?)
Unwanted pregnancy (ouch)
You Cheated (hope it was good)
He wants to cheat (you always know when [...]

My good friend Linda calls me a lot to ask about a guy she just started to date. She was initially really confused about this guy since he seemed so reluctant to ask her out. We sent some excellent text messages and dropped some REALLY big hints but he was oblivious. Unfortunately there were some [...]

When I was younger I would look at women as an aloof untouchable race that HAD to be captured. They were such a strange prey! They didn’t know whether they liked being chased or not. After a hunt I would get together with my hunting buddies and talk about the conquest. The one that just [...]

What the hell is going on? You ask yourself as your boyfriend gets wishy washy around your plans for Christmas. “You told me that you were able to go with me to my parents house?” he responds lamely about his dog needing to get spayed that day. You hang up the phone pissed and confused, [...]

Boys and Cars part 7
•    Good sales people create demand for a product by limiting the supply (previous post)
•    Good sales people realize that they can choose who they sell to.
When I managed a nutrition store there was a particular customer that was very difficult. She would come in argue with me about something, buy [...]

Part 4 of boys and sales
So I have a friend of mine that loves to disclose to guys her physical issues.
Yeah, I have strange shaped boobs (I see cross eyed boobs that bounce around like loose car headlights)
You will never see me without make up (craters like the surface of the moon under that? Holes [...]