We were on the Highway going from the domestic Tokyo airport to Narita international, through the bus windows massive buildings flitted by in the distance. “Do it,” she said with whiskey in her voice. Her eyes were half lidded with sexuality, almost comically so. I looked over to the 6 or so people in the [...]

The six keys to finding and keeping your soul mate. Today we will address the foundation of it all – Power Balance

Power balance
Feminine vs masculine
Logical vs creative
The archetypes
Compensating for power shifts
Mental stability and unhealthy attraction

I have talked about power balance many times but I doubt my readers understand how crucial this is for finding [...]

I feel like a slut now!
I just got a question from my friend Missaup over at sharp and fabulous
She asked,”When it comes to sex partners, how many is too many before a guy gets turned off? He’s in his mid 20’s”
Mike:
“Well that really depends on the guy but generally I would lie my ass [...]

Everyone does it…
Everyone I have ever met has experienced make up sex. You have a good fight, someone storms out the door in a rant. You both stay irritated until one or the other breaks the ice and you rush into bed for some really good sex! Suddenly everything is fine, the stress of the [...]

Here I am sitting in the coffee bean writing on my blog and a petit Japanese girl walks up to me holding a small clipboard. “excuse me, ummm… I am collecting donations for the… blah… blah… Christian blah… would you like to donate?” I immediately broke into Japanese (used to live there if you didn’t [...]

This is a continuation of a previous post please read this first – Part 1 of I think my fiance is going to cheat on me!

First let’s address the pornography

Have you ever seen a nature show on lions? Inevitably they have a scene where the lions are all clustered around the base of [...]

Ever heard the saying people don’t change? Is that true? Is that fair? I am sure that you in your life you have changed often. Grown into a better person, become more patient and more accepting. Is it possible that he could have changed too? Is it possible that he will be the perfect man [...]

I got this question from a reader the other day and I liked it a lot so I wanted to share it with you. Simple question but difficult answer!
From Casey:
How soon is it too soon for a woman to sleep with a guy? Any chance she’ll get a relationship while holding out? Or is [...]

Getting Playdoh out of your crack
One of the many reasons I left America was because I was so frustrated with awful western women! I could never do anything right, I tried so hard, I was so kind, sooo understanding. I spent hours working things out with girls, patiently understanding all the things they didn’t like [...]

We had sex, why do I feel like hating her?
I think I first heard this comment from a foreign guy in an email to David Deangelo the male dating guru. If I remember right David didn’t answer the question but had a good laugh as if everyone knew this feeling and thus knew the answer. [...]