This is part 5 of the soulmate series – understanding how it can start so good and end so bad.

Power balance
Feminine vs masculine
Logical vs creative
The Archetypes
Compensating for power shifts and maintaining tension
Mental stability and unhealthy attraction

Tension, why we are attracted to each other
A friend of mine from fullofhateandreadytodate.com let me read his book recently [...]

The six keys to finding and keeping your soul mate. Today we will address the foundation of it all – Power Balance

Power balance
Feminine vs masculine
Logical vs creative
The archetypes
Compensating for power shifts
Mental stability and unhealthy attraction

I have talked about power balance many times but I doubt my readers understand how crucial this is for finding [...]

Giggles story
Last night I stayed at a friend’s house on my bicycle ride across Canada. This friend I met in Japan six years ago and being able to connect again really kicks ass!
This is not the point of course. The point is about when girls (or sometimes guys) CLING. This popped into my brain last [...]

Relaxed interview with Kim Hess the Divorce Guru
Here are a couple of topics we covered:

Dating after divorce
Too small or too big, which is preferable?
Misplaced anger and projection after divorce
Single mom anger
Attraction vs. who is good for you
Dominatrix and the successful guy
You ex’s are your teachers
The Art of Texting Ebook
Power balance and relationships
The game why [...]

I have talked about social chameleons and satellites before here. These people are they way they are because they need another to rotate around, to follow, to tell them what is right. This is an inherent quality in many people and although I may not want to be this way personally I don’t fault it. [...]

I got this letter a few days ago and I wanted to share it with you. Jim said he might stop by and look at the comment section so please give him the wonderful advice you have given in the past. – Mike
Mike,
I’ve always had this feeling that there is a balance in a [...]

Got a question off of twitter and I asked the person to email me, her name is Jeanette and she an Aussie girl. So make sure you add your own two cents!
Hi Mike,
I would be really interested in hearing the ‘master’s’ opinion on this topic. It’s just something that I’ve noticed recently and is starting [...]

I am not really sure if I should tell this story since it is very disturbing to me. However it is the greatest illustration of how I have been affected by the intensity of another. Please understand that I am extremely uncomfortable telling it…
Not surprisingly it is Halloween
I am out on the town in Japan [...]

There are two types of relationship balance that I constantly see. One where the couple is equally matched, they push and pull for balance but are generally happy. The second is where the man or the woman carries the majority of the power; most of us know this as he or she “wears the pants [...]

She wouldn’t let me break up!
Ai was clearly very angry, she had me cornered and was aggressively explaining things to me. At the time my Japanese was not so hot and my ears where nearly bleeding in the effort to understand. She dumbed it down even more and I finally started to get it. [...]