Hi there…I’m stumped and need some advice. Short story-my boyfriend and I have been together 5 years. He’s 33, I’m 30-he has 2 daughters (two different women) that are almost 10. They already call me their ’step-mommy’ and love me to death. His family talks to me more than they talk to him. Him and [...]

After writing a recent post The 25 reasons he WONT ask you to marry him one of my readers said, “Have you heard of the book A little bit Married by Hannah Seligson? It reminds me of this post!”
I am not sure how, possibly because of Google Alerts, but Hannah found her book mentioned on [...]

Hey ladies! My name is Robert Belland and today I’m making a “guest appearance” here on Mike’s blog. I’ve always found Mike’s female dating advice to be honest, sincere, and powerful which is why I was so pleased to write something here.
Normally I write for guys on my own blog ( FullofHateAndReadyToDate.com ) but I [...]

How many times have you heard a variation of:

she doesn’t put up with my bullshit
He calls me on my shit
She doesn’t let me get away with things
He keeps me in check

Usually, when we hear a statement like this we nod sagely fondly thinking back to a partner that did the same for us but do [...]

1.    LITTLE MISS IMPATIENT – Asking him out – I know, I know… We are no longer in the 50’s and women can ask a man out now. However just because you can does not make it a good idea. You are the gatekeeper to the vagina, if you ask him out you’re a essentially [...]

My friend Dating Diva over at talesfromaninternetdater just wrote an excellent article about a guy who demanded a minimum of third date sex. This moron inspired me to write a short post on why men care about sex so much and how you should react to it.
Lessons from friends
I was 24 and working as a [...]

The six keys to finding and keeping your soul mate. Today we will address the foundation of it all – Power Balance

Power balance
Feminine vs masculine
Logical vs creative
The archetypes
Compensating for power shifts
Mental stability and unhealthy attraction

I have talked about power balance many times but I doubt my readers understand how crucial this is for finding [...]

There are a few things I know a ton about, one is nutrition and the other is dating. It does not happen very often that something actually changes the way I perceive either subject.
A few years ago I learned about Carl Jung’s 4 relationship types and how understanding them can lead you to your soulmate. [...]

A reader recently asked me “Why am I addicted to the unavailable guy?”
“I have an excellent friend named Chris. He is an incredibly friendly good looking guy that is adored by more girls than a fat American by McDonalds. Chris only has one problem, he is addicted to the unavailable girl. He first showed me [...]

So a friend and a reader just wrote me an email saying she is dating a guy ten years older than her. She thought it might be a good topic to address and I agree since I have rarely dated women my same age.
13 years younger than me!
I remember when I realized for the [...]