The first time I stumbled upon this question was on the youthfully obnoxious website, girlaskguys.com or what I call GAG for short. That particular post is here, What’s wrong with girls asking guys out? If you care to read this incredibly adolescent post go ahead… or I can tell you what I learned from it. [...]

The last few days I emailed, Facebooked, Twittered and personally interviewed everyone I could find to answer one simple question:
Should girls ask a guy out and if so how do you do it???
Most of you that read my site know that I am very against blatantly asking a guy out. However, I could be wrong… [...]

How many times have you heard a variation of:

she doesn’t put up with my bullshit
He calls me on my shit
She doesn’t let me get away with things
He keeps me in check

Usually, when we hear a statement like this we nod sagely fondly thinking back to a partner that did the same for us but do [...]

When I was an English teacher in Japan (yeah I know a lot of my posts start off this way) I taught all levels of ability. Some students were so low that, “Hello… my name Keisuke, you cool guy!” was the max I could get out of them. To encourage students, most teaching programs had [...]

My girlfriends and I have a running debate over which super power would be the best. Currently, teleportation has taken the lead. Most of my friends are working mothers who juggle three dozen errands, board room schedules and manage to shave their legs before crawling into bed.  Being able to scream, “Beam me up, Scottie!” [...]

I woke up a little late this morning and swore a nice big, “FUCK YOU” at the TV.
The Today Show was on, and “Guys Tell All” was on. The topic was “Why do men cheat.”
This is so freakin frustrating to see cheating in the lime light because of Tiger Woods. And to see the incredibly [...]

1.    He made the first move – asking for a number or simply talking to you first, if he is a Mormon or network marketer you might want to disregard this.
2.    He has asked a friend about you in the lame hopes they will tell you about it – if he does this you have [...]

Setting you up

This one makes me laugh when it happens to me. The person into me all of a sudden gets very interested in setting me up with their friends. This is because the interested person is either in a relationship or is too nervous to go for it.
One of the most memorable times for [...]

Descending from easy to spot to downright… WTF?
Slightly too long of eye contact
Easy one but it amazes me how many people don’t get this! Unless you have a pimple like Mt. Fuji or had a little mishap while blowing your nose, he is interested in you. If you feel the same and are [...]

Grrrr…

I read He is just not that into you when it first came out. My initial reaction after the first few chapters was. Okay, yeah that’s not too bad but I kept waiting for solutions to problems but they never came. The next chapter had another pathetic story, with the author arrogantly ripping into the [...]