We talked all night, it was 6 in the morning when we finally forced ourselves to bed. She was staying with us for a couple of days because her apartment was being refinished. I didn’t even know her, I think my roommate had a thing for her. Oops… good thing he was out of town.
It [...]

We were on the Highway going from the domestic Tokyo airport to Narita international, through the bus windows massive buildings flitted by in the distance. “Do it,” she said with whiskey in her voice. Her eyes were half lidded with sexuality, almost comically so. I looked over to the 6 or so people in the [...]

I have wanted to write about Sexual Tension forever, and after reading Jack’s most recent post on creating excellent sex I decided it was time to dive into this war-pig of a topic.

Why do you want to fuck the bad boy? the bitch?
Why would a man be aroused (secretly?) by the thought of his wife [...]

Guest post by Stephanie, This is in reaction to my blog last Friday in the chemical nature of love and why men run. Stephanie argued with me on twitter for about an hour until I said, “ENOUGH! I have to get stuff done, if you want to write a rebuttal I will publish it!” Well [...]

My friend Dating Diva recently emailed me this:
“I’m writing a blog post to see how men and women view “falling in love” versus “being in love” to coincide with the post I put up today. I mentioned that I think women blur that line (I know I do) and that men separate them. I’d love [...]

This is part of the rough draft from a book I am working on with Kim Hess, Divorce Guru
The book is “Getting back on the horse after a break up or divorce, a woman’s guide to getting back in the game” Hope you enjoy!
1. He is open to sharing the bad
He doesn’t appear to [...]

This is part of the rough draft from a book I am working on with Kim Hess, Divorce Guru
The book is “Getting back on the horse after a break up or divorce, a woman’s guide to getting back in the game” I am very excited to be working on a project with Kim and [...]

I love snowboarding, I mean I really really love it and I have gotten nearly every girl I have ever dated into it. A few years back, while taking a girl on a trip to lake Tahoe, I heard the the best line EVER…
I used to go to UC Davis and was a very proud [...]

What is the dig?
The dig is very simple, it is a challenge, a crossing of wits, a signal that the game is on. A place where the mind is the focus of attraction rather than the body.
What the dig is not
The dig is not abuse or cruelty, although it flirts with it. [...]

Last night I met some friends at a bar, I wasn’t in the best mood because I am tired of putting in 16 hours days. After 12 hours strait on the computer I was hungry and I needed a fucking beer.

I walked up to the bar, grabbed a laminated menu, and heard a girl’s [...]