Comments on: Are you always looking for someone better? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/attraction/are-you-always-looking-for-someone-better/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: thomas http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/attraction/are-you-always-looking-for-someone-better/comment-page-1/#comment-1738 thomas Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:01:47 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1494#comment-1738 I think as with anything in life, as we go through various experiences, we get hurt, learn and become stronger, hence why we always seek out someone or something better. The answer varies to each person in terms of what is better. .-= thomas´s last blog ..<a href="http://tomaszgorecki.com/blog/2009/12/29/not-paying-back-loans-considered-theft/" rel="nofollow">Not paying back loans considered theft</a> =-. I think as with anything in life, as we go through various experiences, we get hurt, learn and become stronger, hence why we always seek out someone or something better.

The answer varies to each person in terms of what is better.
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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/attraction/are-you-always-looking-for-someone-better/comment-page-1/#comment-1736 Mike Masters Wed, 30 Dec 2009 22:12:47 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1494#comment-1736 Me settle down??? Naw... I just don't have that constant itch to try to sleep with every girl I lay eyes on. Thank god that finally left. Now I can finally get stuff done! Me settle down???
Naw… I just don’t have that constant itch to try to sleep with every girl I lay eyes on.
Thank god that finally left. Now I can finally get stuff done!

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]]> By: Christina Preciado http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/attraction/are-you-always-looking-for-someone-better/comment-page-1/#comment-1734 Christina Preciado Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:16:18 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1494#comment-1734 Are you saying you might be finally settling down?? This is an interesting post, I do see it happening now more then ever in the US (the leveling up). I think it might be important for both boys and girls as it helps determine and find what you want in a long term mate. But on the other hand there is possibly a fine line with this tactic, the down fall of STD's and never stopping this leveling up process which may lead others to think this to be psychotic behavior. Are you saying you might be finally settling down??
This is an interesting post, I do see it happening now more then ever in the US (the leveling up). I think it might be important for both boys and girls as it helps determine and find what you want in a long term mate. But on the other hand there is possibly a fine line with this tactic, the down fall of STD’s and never stopping this leveling up process which may lead others to think this to be psychotic behavior.

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]]> By: AV Flox http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/attraction/are-you-always-looking-for-someone-better/comment-page-1/#comment-1733 AV Flox Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:44:08 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1494#comment-1733 I grew up in a Pacific island near Japan and the situation was a little different, but equally complex. Due to the large non-resident workforce, which was largely composed of women, here were far, far more women than there were men--to the extent that a while the island had the most insane female to male ratio in the world, according to the CIA Factbook. As a result of the variety and the fact that many women were foreign workers desirous of a green card, men had their pick and could get anything they wanted. To stay in the game, the rest of the women on island became incredibly promiscuous, far more aggressive and likely to engage in acts that their counterparts back in the U.S. would hesitate to undertake. I'll put it this way: there's a damn good reason they call them the Sex Islands. There is a passage in John Bowe's book Nobodies about it that I'll never forget: <blockquote>Three or four blowjobs into Saipan, most white men’s reactions to the island evolve from, ‘Gee, this is wrong’ to ‘Well, it’s complicated.’ I sat in on countless and endless conversations comparing the sexual merits of Thais versus Filipinas, Russians versus Chinese, replete with body parts and the likening of women to various breeds of dog and sex acts to animal behavior. Were people so bored by the smallness of island life that they had nothing else to talk about or do? I asked a friend of mine—a white guy from the mainland whom I’ll call Fred—about this…. He laughed at my confusion. What was it about Saipan that made everyone, particularly the men, obsess, dream, and talk about sex all the time? He grinned and barked like an old man, ‘It’s kulcha!’ It took me a year to get what he was talking about. During that time, I met a Bangladeshi who, in his own words, spelled out the same patently obvious thing: Saipan’s primary appeal wasn’t that you could exploit poor Asians. It was that you could fuck them. What was wrong with Saipan if not a sort of ravenous celebration of enhanced sexual power? Did I see it now? The Bangladeshi asked. ‘It’s not really about dollarland. It’s all about sexland.’</blockquote> It wasn't so much about trading up in this case as it was about gorging on an ever-changing, always available menu. Needless to say, it's taken me a while understand that relationships are not about securing terrain in a perpetual war against the insurgent wiles of other women and that many men much prefer playing the aggressor in entanglements. Having said that... I do rather appreciate the abilities this course in survival of the most pleasurable has bestowed. Now a question for you: I want to review your texting book for my site. Can you contact me in regard to attaining a press copy? I'd really appreciate it. .-= AV Flox´s last blog ..<a href="http://sexandthe405.com/failed-bomber-was-plagued-by-desire/" rel="nofollow">Failed Bomber Was Plagued by Desire</a> =-. I grew up in a Pacific island near Japan and the situation was a little different, but equally complex. Due to the large non-resident workforce, which was largely composed of women, here were far, far more women than there were men–to the extent that a while the island had the most insane female to male ratio in the world, according to the CIA Factbook.

As a result of the variety and the fact that many women were foreign workers desirous of a green card, men had their pick and could get anything they wanted. To stay in the game, the rest of the women on island became incredibly promiscuous, far more aggressive and likely to engage in acts that their counterparts back in the U.S. would hesitate to undertake.

I’ll put it this way: there’s a damn good reason they call them the Sex Islands.

There is a passage in John Bowe’s book Nobodies about it that I’ll never forget:

Three or four blowjobs into Saipan, most white men’s reactions to the island evolve from, ‘Gee, this is wrong’ to ‘Well, it’s complicated.’ I sat in on countless and endless conversations comparing the sexual merits of Thais versus Filipinas, Russians versus Chinese, replete with body parts and the likening of women to various breeds of dog and sex acts to animal behavior. Were people so bored by the smallness of island life that they had nothing else to talk about or do? I asked a friend of mine—a white guy from the mainland whom I’ll call Fred—about this…. He laughed at my confusion. What was it about Saipan that made everyone, particularly the men, obsess, dream, and talk about sex all the time? He grinned and barked like an old man, ‘It’s kulcha!’ It took me a year to get what he was talking about. During that time, I met a Bangladeshi who, in his own words, spelled out the same patently obvious thing: Saipan’s primary appeal wasn’t that you could exploit poor Asians. It was that you could fuck them. What was wrong with Saipan if not a sort of ravenous celebration of enhanced sexual power? Did I see it now? The Bangladeshi asked. ‘It’s not really about dollarland. It’s all about sexland.’

It wasn’t so much about trading up in this case as it was about gorging on an ever-changing, always available menu. Needless to say, it’s taken me a while understand that relationships are not about securing terrain in a perpetual war against the insurgent wiles of other women and that many men much prefer playing the aggressor in entanglements.

Having said that… I do rather appreciate the abilities this course in survival of the most pleasurable has bestowed.

Now a question for you: I want to review your texting book for my site. Can you contact me in regard to attaining a press copy? I’d really appreciate it.
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