Comments on: How to ask a guy out – what you don’t understand… http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-3301 LindseyLoo Sat, 12 Jun 2010 04:51:48 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-3301 hahaha, nice. Master dater rhymes with.... I like your posts! It's nice to see what a guy really thinks - other than boobs and beer. hahaha, nice. Master dater rhymes with….
I like your posts! It’s nice to see what a guy really thinks – other than boobs and beer.

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]]> By: Video blog! Why girls should never ask guys out http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-2119 Video blog! Why girls should never ask guys out Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:16:30 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-2119 [...] How to ask a guy out – what you don’t understand [...] [...] How to ask a guy out – what you don’t understand [...]

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]]> By: Do guys ask out the “girl next door” more than you? | MasterDater http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1895 Do guys ask out the “girl next door” more than you? | MasterDater Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:21:28 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1895 [...] is a question I got from a reader on my last post, How to ask a guy out – what you don’t understand… I also asked her to answer the question herself which she did so well I might not have an answer [...] [...] is a question I got from a reader on my last post, How to ask a guy out – what you don’t understand… I also asked her to answer the question herself which she did so well I might not have an answer [...]

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1875 Mike Masters Sun, 17 Jan 2010 20:54:52 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1875 I am totally with you Nat... I will speak my mind on this subject on Wed. Hope to have you stop by then! I am totally with you Nat… I will speak my mind on this subject on Wed.
Hope to have you stop by then!

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]]> By: Natalie http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1874 Natalie Sun, 17 Jan 2010 20:26:44 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1874 Hm, well, let's see what you have to say about this, Mike, but I would have to say that I feel like that phenomenon only exists in a smaller group of pretty insecure men. For the most part, I think that men are always interested in "dating up". (Actually, even though I in many ways don't believe in "leagues", it seems that, on some level, they do exist. That being said, few people want to date people that are "in their league"...) Additionally, because men feel like there is going to be more "competition" for someone "uber-sexy", they are willing to take a risk and ask her out "before someone else does". The risk is decreased for them in the fact that they consider that the "girl next door" or the "plain Jane" will probably "still be there" if the supermodel turns them down. "Or is that just a girl myth hot girls made up to explain why they are single?" That's MY guess... Hm, well, let’s see what you have to say about this, Mike, but I would have to say that I feel like that phenomenon only exists in a smaller group of pretty insecure men. For the most part, I think that men are always interested in “dating up”. (Actually, even though I in many ways don’t believe in “leagues”, it seems that, on some level, they do exist. That being said, few people want to date people that are “in their league”…) Additionally, because men feel like there is going to be more “competition” for someone “uber-sexy”, they are willing to take a risk and ask her out “before someone else does”. The risk is decreased for them in the fact that they consider that the “girl next door” or the “plain Jane” will probably “still be there” if the supermodel turns them down.

“Or is that just a girl myth hot girls made up to explain why they are single?” That’s MY guess…

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1873 Mike Masters Sun, 17 Jan 2010 20:13:11 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1873 Funny you asked about that, I am writing a post about it right now. I imagine it will come out on tuesday? Funny you asked about that, I am writing a post about it right now. I imagine it will come out on tuesday?

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]]> By: Jules http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1872 Jules Sun, 17 Jan 2010 19:51:20 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1872 After reading Princess T's comment/question about guys being intimidated by attractive women so they don't ask them out but ask out the girl next door. I am very interested in what you have to say about that one Mike. As you know, I've recently ventured back out in to the dating world (btw, haven't made up my mind about the online dating thing yet). The ones I'm really interested in (live people), I can't get them to ask me out. Some of my long-time male friends say that "I'm attactive & that I'm intimidating them", both of which I don't agree with. But what if...I'm very curious in what you have to say. After reading Princess T’s comment/question about guys being intimidated by attractive women so they don’t ask them out but ask out the girl next door. I am very interested in what you have to say about that one Mike. As you know, I’ve recently ventured back out in to the dating world (btw, haven’t made up my mind about the online dating thing yet). The ones I’m really interested in (live people), I can’t get them to ask me out. Some of my long-time male friends say that “I’m attactive & that I’m intimidating them”, both of which I don’t agree with. But what if…I’m very curious in what you have to say.

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]]> By: Dating Diva http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1868 Dating Diva Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:20:39 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1868 I'm also a single mom and I agree with you---who has time to date more than one guy?! I can just about handle one and keeping all of their details straight. .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.talesfromaninternetdater.com/2010/01/dating-old-school-style.html" rel="nofollow">Dating Old School Style</a> =-. I’m also a single mom and I agree with you—who has time to date more than one guy?! I can just about handle one and keeping all of their details straight.
Dating Diva´s last blog ..Dating Old School Style My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: QTMama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1867 QTMama Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:09:16 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1867 If only I had the time to date more than one man at a time! :) Single mom, remember? I don't always fit into your ... guidelines because of this. And I'm not violent! I just think violently. ;) .-= QTMama´s last blog ..<a href="http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2010/01/14/strange-fascinations/" rel="nofollow">Strange Fascinations</a> =-. If only I had the time to date more than one man at a time! :) Single mom, remember? I don’t always fit into your … guidelines because of this.

And I’m not violent! I just think violently. ;)
QTMama´s last blog ..Strange Fascinations My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1865 Mike Masters Thu, 14 Jan 2010 22:26:13 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1865 I know what you mean... This post did feel a little juvenile to write. However, a LOT of the people that ask me about this topic are in their 30's. I think it is one of those issues that never goes away but we really think it should. I know what you mean… This post did feel a little juvenile to write. However, a LOT of the people that ask me about this topic are in their 30’s.

I think it is one of those issues that never goes away but we really think it should.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1864 Mike Masters Thu, 14 Jan 2010 22:24:40 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1864 I think my friend DD has the same problem. This is why I think it is very important to be involved (not necessarily sexually) with more than one guy when you are dating. And you're so violent! maybe that's why he is afraid to call you back? I think my friend DD has the same problem.
This is why I think it is very important to be involved (not necessarily sexually) with more than one guy when you are dating.

And you’re so violent! maybe that’s why he is afraid to call you back?

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]]> By: lifebeginsat30ty http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1863 lifebeginsat30ty Thu, 14 Jan 2010 20:45:36 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1863 "Don’t ask him out unless you have bigger balls than he does." He, now that's pretty funny! Although I kind of feel like were back in high school asking a guy if he would 'help us with our homework' *wink wink* .-= lifebeginsat30ty´s last blog ..<a href="http://lifebeginsat30ty.blogspot.com/2010/01/old-git-part-ii.html" rel="nofollow">Old Git, Part II</a> =-. “Don’t ask him out unless you have bigger balls than he does.”

He, now that’s pretty funny! Although I kind of feel like were back in high school asking a guy if he would ‘help us with our homework’ *wink wink*
lifebeginsat30ty´s last blog ..Old Git, Part II My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: QTMama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1862 QTMama Thu, 14 Jan 2010 17:53:38 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1862 I am all about never asking the man out, but I do get a LARGE case of the "impatient" going on, when (and if) I like him enough to WANT to be asked out again. Hmmm ... The sad part is, finding someone that I want to spend more than an hour with. *Thinking face* And not wanting to kick their ass. *Grin* Terrible, I know. But honest, as well. .-= QTMama´s last blog ..<a href="http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2010/01/13/the-water-pipe-vs-qt/" rel="nofollow">The Water Pipe vs QT</a> =-. I am all about never asking the man out, but I do get a LARGE case of the “impatient” going on, when (and if) I like him enough to WANT to be asked out again.

Hmmm … The sad part is, finding someone that I want to spend more than an hour with. *Thinking face* And not wanting to kick their ass. *Grin*

Terrible, I know. But honest, as well.
QTMama´s last blog ..The Water Pipe vs QT My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1861 Mike Masters Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:53:37 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1861 I noticed DD =) I noticed DD =)

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]]> By: Dating Diva http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1860 Dating Diva Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:02:55 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1860 I do think that sometimes a guy perceives a girl asking him out as strong and assertive without fear of rejection...and I think sometimes that will draw a guy to a girl like that. But like you said, the key is having the ability to pull back. That is the part that is hard as hell for me. .-= Dating Diva´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.talesfromaninternetdater.com/2010/01/i-vow-not-to-let-anyone-waste-my-time.html" rel="nofollow">I Vow Not to Let Anyone Waste My Time</a> =-. I do think that sometimes a guy perceives a girl asking him out as strong and assertive without fear of rejection…and I think sometimes that will draw a guy to a girl like that. But like you said, the key is having the ability to pull back. That is the part that is hard as hell for me.
Dating Diva´s last blog ..I Vow Not to Let Anyone Waste My Time My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/ask-guys-out/how-to-ask-a-guy-out-%e2%80%93-what-you-dont-understand/comment-page-1/#comment-1858 Mike Masters Thu, 14 Jan 2010 05:48:21 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1543#comment-1858 Thanks for backing up what I have to say. I really like your question! Lets talk about that... Thanks for backing up what I have to say.
I really like your question! Lets talk about that…

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