Comments on: 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 1 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: shantel http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5992 shantel Tue, 05 Jul 2011 06:48:36 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5992 planation, went to d girl's family to commence marriage arrangement. The second girl finished her exams, went for PT and it was positive. She met d guy that same day to told him abt it and d guy was happy and asked d girl what she wants cos he's with her all thru in any decision she makes and that was when he started telling her what he's been up to. The girl being of the catholic foundation couldn't think of abortion and expected d guy to do d right thing by going to her parents but he freaked out and told d girl that he can't do that and will not be able to withdraw his intentions from d first girl's family. Now, they've gone to see d doctor and he advised them against abortion cos she was 8wks gone. She comes from a very good family and has all it takes but she's confused on what action to take towards justice. She needs our help cos d guy can't go scot free if he intends to ruin her future. planation, went to d girl’s family to commence marriage arrangement. The second girl finished her exams, went for PT and it was positive. She met d guy that same day to told him abt it and d guy was happy and asked d girl what she wants cos he’s with her all thru in any decision she makes and that was when he started telling her what he’s been up to. The girl being of the catholic foundation couldn’t think of abortion and expected d guy to do d right thing by going to her parents but he freaked out and told d girl that he can’t do that and will not be able to withdraw his intentions from d first girl’s family. Now, they’ve gone to see d doctor and he advised them against abortion cos she was 8wks gone. She comes from a very good family and has all it takes but she’s confused on what action to take towards justice. She needs our help cos d guy can’t go scot free if he intends to ruin her future.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5775 Mike Masters Sun, 06 Feb 2011 02:07:21 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5775 Go out and ask a few older women 35+ how much pornography plays a part in their husband/boyfriends (ex?) life. Now ask them if they think it hurts their marriage. Now ask them if they think they could ask him to remove this from his life. Ask a few older men now 35+ how much they look at pornography, when they started, and why. Now ask if they feel watching pornography has hurt their past and current relationships. If you really want to understand this, talk to people that have already learned this lesson. It is the best way to really understand. Go out and ask a few older women 35+ how much pornography plays a part in their husband/boyfriends (ex?) life. Now ask them if they think it hurts their marriage. Now ask them if they think they could ask him to remove this from his life.

Ask a few older men now 35+ how much they look at pornography, when they started, and why. Now ask if they feel watching pornography has hurt their past and current relationships.

If you really want to understand this, talk to people that have already learned this lesson. It is the best way to really understand.

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]]> By: What's "love" got to do with it? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5759 What's "love" got to do with it? Tue, 01 Feb 2011 19:23:22 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5759 I don't understand.......I am not trying to be a Bitch at all because he knows how I truly feel about him, but when he says he truly loves me with all his heart, mind, body, and soul, and then keeps pictures like that in his phone ,,,, I get confused as to what it means to him when he says those things and how committed is he really!!!!! I am asking because I am trying to understand that when a guy says he loves you like the way my boyfriend says it, how true is it - what about when he breaks my heart or disappoints me. It seems like I am always the one disappointing him, yet I'm not the one fascinated with other naked people when in my heart, mind, body, and soul, is only devoted to him. Help me understand more of what you mean that the problem is ME. Should I put my walls up again to protect myself from getting hurt over and over? I'm just trying to reach out here hoping for a new solution and maybe a new approach to things .... I don’t understand…….I am not trying to be a Bitch at all because he knows how I truly feel about him, but when he says he truly loves me with all his heart, mind, body, and soul, and then keeps pictures like that in his phone ,,,, I get confused as to what it means to him when he says those things and how committed is he really!!!!! I am asking because I am trying to understand that when a guy says he loves you like the way my boyfriend says it, how true is it – what about when he breaks my heart or disappoints me. It seems like I am always the one disappointing him, yet I’m not the one fascinated with other naked people when in my heart, mind, body, and soul, is only devoted to him.

Help me understand more of what you mean that the problem is ME. Should I put my walls up again to protect myself from getting hurt over and over? I’m just trying to reach out here hoping for a new solution and maybe a new approach to things ….

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5758 Mike Masters Tue, 01 Feb 2011 05:06:59 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5758 You are... You are…

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]]> By: What's "love" got to do with it? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5757 What's "love" got to do with it? Tue, 01 Feb 2011 04:53:00 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5757 Well - - this surely makes me want to say "fuck him, then" and make his life a living bitch hell and just play him! Men are pigs, right? This is why I was happier single!!!!! Then answer for me this question: He say's he's "committed" to ME, to "US" and wants the whole nine-yards (marriage, kids, house, .....retirement), but he still hangs on to photos of other womens vagina on his phone as well as boobs and his porn collection!!!! Now, he is an electrician, I am a Certified Paralegal. We live with his parents - MY WORST NIGHTMARE, but I'm putting up with it EVERYDAY and doing house work and cooking - playing his little 'house-wifey,' I'm 24, he's 36. We have been dating for 3 years - what the hell is the problem here? Well – - this surely makes me want to say “fuck him, then” and make his life a living bitch hell and just play him! Men are pigs, right? This is why I was happier single!!!!!
Then answer for me this question: He say’s he’s “committed” to ME, to “US” and wants the whole nine-yards (marriage, kids, house, …..retirement), but he still hangs on to photos of other womens vagina on his phone as well as boobs and his porn collection!!!! Now, he is an electrician, I am a Certified Paralegal. We live with his parents – MY WORST NIGHTMARE, but I’m putting up with it EVERYDAY and doing house work and cooking – playing his little ‘house-wifey,’ I’m 24, he’s 36. We have been dating for 3 years – what the hell is the problem here?

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]]> By: Amy http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-5589 Amy Wed, 27 Oct 2010 15:36:07 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-5589 I understand this is supposed to be humourous but the sad thing is it is all too true. I'm not desperate but I don't understand why men are so afraid of getting married. I mean is it really that unappealing to live and make a life and family with somebody. I beleive love is just being able to care about someone and help them through their life. Girls don't do the place card thing they just stick boys in the friend zone which in my oppinion is much better because at least it dosen't lead the boy on to really fall in love and want a life with somebody. All I want is a man who will stand by me who I can stand by. I know there are no bells and whistles and cinderella stories the fact is one person will always like the other one more. So I prefer to date boys who I'm not awe struck by because I don't want to be disapointed by who they end up to really be. But even boys who I pick because they seem safe still are rediculousy scared of commitment. I guess I will just have to start a family on my own. How sad men. I understand this is supposed to be humourous but the sad thing is it is all too true. I’m not desperate but I don’t understand why men are so afraid of getting married. I mean is it really that unappealing to live and make a life and family with somebody. I beleive love is just being able to care about someone and help them through their life. Girls don’t do the place card thing they just stick boys in the friend zone which in my oppinion is much better because at least it dosen’t lead the boy on to really fall in love and want a life with somebody. All I want is a man who will stand by me who I can stand by. I know there are no bells and whistles and cinderella stories the fact is one person will always like the other one more. So I prefer to date boys who I’m not awe struck by because I don’t want to be disapointed by who they end up to really be. But even boys who I pick because they seem safe still are rediculousy scared of commitment. I guess I will just have to start a family on my own. How sad men.

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]]> By: The Waiting Game: How long is too long? « *wink* *wink* *wink* http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-3178 The Waiting Game: How long is too long? « *wink* *wink* *wink* Sat, 15 May 2010 16:45:04 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-3178 [...] this one dilemma (see Mike the Master Dater‘s funny two-part take on this Waiting Game here: Part 1 and Part [...] [...] this one dilemma (see Mike the Master Dater‘s funny two-part take on this Waiting Game here: Part 1 and Part [...]

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2077 Mike Masters Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:42:17 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2077 I think so too! I think so too!

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]]> By: Mike masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2074 Mike masters Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:31:40 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2074 I have as much interest in raising anothers child as getting married. You take offense to this because?? I have as much interest in raising anothers child as getting married.
You take offense to this because??

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]]> By: QTMama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2071 QTMama Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:21:08 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2071 PS - Just like YOUR stepfather was the lucky one. .-= QTMama´s last blog ..<a href="http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2010/02/04/stuff-mortification-kissing/" rel="nofollow">Stuff. Mortification. Kissing.</a> =-. PS – Just like YOUR stepfather was the lucky one.
QTMama´s last blog ..Stuff. Mortification. Kissing. My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: QTMama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2070 QTMama Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:19:56 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2070 12. Terrified of the whole “kid” thing – Now this is something that I do see as being pretty valid. I was lucky that my mom found a great guy that was willing to be my stepfather when I was only 5 years old. I think this is a challenge to a man who has never been a father. Personally, I would rather raise money for Bill Gates than raise someone else’s child. Wow. Your world must be a small one. I was, as a single mom, pretty damn offended by this, "Personally, I would rather raise money for Bill Gates than raise someone else’s child." Dude. You'd be LUCKY if I let you INTO my child's life. .-= QTMama´s last blog ..<a href="http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2010/02/04/stuff-mortification-kissing/" rel="nofollow">Stuff. Mortification. Kissing.</a> =-. 12. Terrified of the whole “kid” thing – Now this is something that I do see as being pretty valid. I was lucky that my mom found a great guy that was willing to be my stepfather when I was only 5 years old. I think this is a challenge to a man who has never been a father. Personally, I would rather raise money for Bill Gates than raise someone else’s child.

Wow.

Your world must be a small one. I was, as a single mom, pretty damn offended by this, “Personally, I would rather raise money for Bill Gates than raise someone else’s child.”

Dude. You’d be LUCKY if I let you INTO my child’s life.
QTMama´s last blog ..Stuff. Mortification. Kissing. My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Dating Dufus http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2069 Dating Dufus Thu, 04 Feb 2010 07:20:07 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2069 #5 - "I realized I could never marry a woman that wouldn’t allow doggy style because, “I feel like an animal when I have sex like that.” Ummm… Yeah?" DUDE... Two years is long enough, you made the right decision! #5 – “I realized I could never marry a woman that wouldn’t allow doggy style because, “I feel like an animal when I have sex like that.” Ummm… Yeah?”

DUDE… Two years is long enough, you made the right decision!

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]]> By: 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2058 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2 Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:31:44 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2058 [...] Continued from part one 25 reason why he is not going to ask you to marry him [...] [...] Continued from part one 25 reason why he is not going to ask you to marry him [...]

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2045 Mike Masters Wed, 03 Feb 2010 06:06:01 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2045 Tina... Nice to have a celeb here! The divorce part is very real for me. I have seen so much of it that I have been very conditioned to associate it with pain. Probably because of that, I find so many issues with it. However, I still dream of finding a partner wonderful enough to marry. (with a 5 year renewable contract of course) Tina…
Nice to have a celeb here!
The divorce part is very real for me. I have seen so much of it that I have been very conditioned to associate it with pain.
Probably because of that, I find so many issues with it. However, I still dream of finding a partner wonderful enough to marry. (with a 5 year renewable contract of course)

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]]> By: Tina t http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2043 Tina t Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:24:09 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2043 You have a lot of humor in this post, but oh so much truth. The few single women that I still know are in the pseudo marriage trap, but I've known quite a few women who were place holders until they wised up. The part about seeing too much divorce really made me think. I hope that people don't start shying away from marriage because of this. I can't wait to read part 2. .-= Tina t´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2010/02/02/why-wont-he-marry-me/" rel="nofollow">Why Won’t He Marry Me?</a> =-. You have a lot of humor in this post, but oh so much truth. The few single women that I still know are in the pseudo marriage trap, but I’ve known quite a few women who were place holders until they wised up. The part about seeing too much divorce really made me think. I hope that people don’t start shying away from marriage because of this.

I can’t wait to read part 2.
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]]> By: Why Won’t He Marry Me? « LuvemOrLeavem Relationships – Love Relationship Advice http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/top-10-lists/25-reasons-why-wont-he-marry-me-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2042 Why Won’t He Marry Me? « LuvemOrLeavem Relationships – Love Relationship Advice Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:06:22 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1651#comment-2042 [...] a humorous look at men who won’t tie the knot visit 25 Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You by Mike The Master [...] [...] a humorous look at men who won’t tie the knot visit 25 Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You by Mike The Master [...]

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