Comments on: I still love him, why won’t he forgive me?

By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 23:58:35 +0000

it was a good idea!
i wonder how it will play out…
want the plugin name?

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By: QTMama

QTMama — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 23:27:32 +0000

I LIKED Rose’s comment. Dude. Did you totally just steal my idea.
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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 14:26:14 +0000

that’s a good idea! I might look for that button. Maybe get one installed on my forehead?

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By: QTMama

QTMama — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 14:06:59 +0000

If Mike had a “like” button here, as they do on FaceBook? I’d of officially “LIKED” your comment Rose!
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By: Rose

Rose — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:31:10 +0000

The guy I had this “misunderstanding” with me still stands and stares at me whenever I go into the bar where he sometimes works as a dj. A year or so later. After I’ve moved back to my homeland and am just visiting friends.
Part of me wonders, has he realised, is that why he is staring? He must be thinking something to keep staring. I could bite the bullet and start the conversation, but why give him the victory. He’s a weakling, not worthy of my time, never was.
Exactly as you say, QTMama, don’t give a man a chance to reject you twice.

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By: QTMama

QTMama — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:52:26 +0000

I’d say that sending the letter just gives him a chance to reject you … again. No, don’t send it. There’s someone out there (FOR YOU) who will take the time to see a ‘misunderstanding’ for what it really is!
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By: Rose

Rose — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 23:33:11 +0000

I had a similar situation once. I decided, if he is so weak as to be swayed by manipulative people (or rumours), then he is too weak for me. I want a strong man who knows his own mind and knows me as I really am. He is obviously too weak and psychologically unstable to be worth caring about.

Don’t send the letter, burn it. Forget him for the loser he is, his loss, your gain – you will find someone a lot better and not be burdened with the kind of guy you’d have to worry about reassuring every other week.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 17:12:49 +0000

Well from what she tells me, he never let her explain the side of the story. It was only rumor that became fact in his mind. (Apparently he has done this to other girls too)

So I agree he might have every right to bail, the problem lies in her not being able to let him bail.

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By: Jersey Brett

Jersey Brett — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 15:31:45 +0000

I don’t know. If, as you concede, it wasn’t a “misunderstanding” at all, then doesn’t he have every right to say “see ya, toots?”

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