What is the attraction of a married man? Is it security, forbidden fruit?
This video is a question from luvemorleavem.com
Are single women more attracted to men that are in relationships?
- Cheating and death
- Sleeping with your best friends husband
- Moral fiber and your digestion
- Age and the thinning of the herd
- Are all the good ones married or gay??
- New nookie daily
- Sex with bacon
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I think you’re looking at it from the wrong point of view: if a single woman sleeps with a married man, she’s not doing anything wrong because she’s NOT the one who is MARRIED. She didn’t chose to make any commitment to anyone, and she certainly has no obligations to the wife (unless the wife is her friend, in which case that’s wrong, but less wrong than the husband…), so why shouldn’t she sleep with whomever she wants to sleep with? If the guy is married, he chose to make that commitment, he’s the one who has to say no, and he’s the only one to blame if he doesn’t.
So why does the ‘other woman’ get blamed?!
I wouldn’t sleep with a married man, not because I respect some other people’s fictional boundaries, but because it’s not really in my best interest. What would I get out of it? You know he’s just going to go back to the wife.
PS – props for the Canada reference!
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I agree to a certain degree but since this post was really for entertainment only…
There is something called Karma and whether you want to believe in it or not is up to you. Personally, I think life is too complicated to predict and following by a few simple “do the right thing” rules are very beneficial in the long run.
Yes and it was very entertaining – In fact, if you turn the sound off, it looks like you’re hosting a really bad cooking show haha!
It just got me thinking about what a friend and I were talking about the other day – why women will often forgive the husband for cheating, but they seem to NEVER forgive the other woman. What’s up with that?
Karma is complicated – bad things happen to good people all the time… and good things happen to people who don’t deserve them. I just think Karma is what we tell ourselves to keep from strangling certain people…
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That’s an interesting point… Do you think it is because the woman HAS to forgive her husband but she never really has to forgive the other woman?
I am not saying that bad things don’t happen to good people. I am only saying that if you follow karma and something “bad” happens you have even more right to bitch and moan!! more fun that way…
I haven’t slept with a married man, but I definitely had a crush on one. Took a good hard look at myself and decided that I was not that person, but I can see how it could happen. In my case it was because here’s this really great person whose paying attention to me, being all flirty, etc and yet there’s no hope of a ‘relationship’ with them. Which at that point in my life was perfectly fine with me.
I think you’re right though that Karma is a bitch. Golden rule and all that.
Princess T is also right though that this is not just about the woman. There may be women out there who will sleep with a married man, but it takes two to tango.
p.s. Lose the hat
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One more time! This post was really about humor only.
It had nothing to do with women or men. Just me having fun.
Don’t like the hat? I just finished running in th rain and the hat makes me feel tough!
Scintillating topic though
Go on with your bad self. Next time a Fedora?
Now I want bacon.
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I know…
the bacon really got me hot!
fedora? not a bad idea.
Maybe I will do shots of tequila while filming the next one
Thank God for that sudden burst of flames or you would’ve totally picked your nose!
I was so distracted by your hilarity that I don’t even know what this video is about besides bacon, wanting to tell you to take off the hat and more bacon.
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I really have no idea what it was about either. I think Nando’s vlog was much better at answering the question.
Not sure if I am on the right track with humor rather than seriousness…
Eggs in bacon grease is the best! Or maybe the recipe for fertility… Anyhow… What happened to raw???
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I swing back and forth.
Sometimes I am very healthy, sometimes I smoke drink and do drugs like I live in Amsterdam.
The pendulum might be due to swing the other way soon!
Everything in moderation right? Pendulum swings to both extremes average out to “moderate” after all…
And besides, so much discipline has got to be bad for digestion–too much moral fiber and all that.
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Certain parts of this video were funny – however, I liked the first video the best. It was sincere, direct and real. Do you know that bacon is made from the stomach (intestines) of a pig?
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Jeeze!! Bacon is not intestine, it is cut from the abdominal muscles of the pig. However, I have eaten pig intestine many times in Asia and I rather like it.
You sure keep the video interesting.
All the points you mentioned I agree with, but it basically comes down to the fact that once a woman sees that you already have what you want, it means 2 things.
1) you got something to offer, 2) you don’t care about wanting to get with her.
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silly. they do it because the men lie about their wives.
I think married men are gross for trying. I certainly don’t want to sleep with someone who lies and weasels out of commitments. I feel bad for the women that married them.
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ps BACON FTW
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I was talking about women that were well aware of his status and obviously there are a ton of bastards out there. I think most of them hang out online to try to snare a women.
Nasty creatures.
What does FTW mean?
Fort Wayne?
For The Win?
Fucking Truly Wonderful?
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I think it meant BTW??
P.S. BACON BTW??
for the win, dear. For the win.
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I am calling BULLSHIT that a girl who knowingly sleeps with a married man isn’t culpable for the inevitable disaster. It’s called personal responsibility. It’s called not holding yourself so cheaply that you’d give yourself to a philanderer.
Maybe in Europe they have a different sensibility about the subject, but in the US, you’re The Other Woman, and he’s a manwhore.
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Totally agree, in the US all the responsibility is piled on the man. I would like to see more women take very seriously the damage the create by allowing the excitement of the inappropriate catch them up.
I don’t think *all* of the blame falls on the man. “The Other Woman” is a pretty horrible thing to be–she gets ostracized and is called a home wrecker and all sorts of other horrible things. People whisper behind her back, stare, and point… She’s also usually painted as a whore, a gold-bricker, and a bitch–not warm, fuzzy, nice things at all. And God help her if she comes face to face with the man’s wife, her sister, her friends, or her mother. Not pretty. Maybe the blame seems less obvious to men, but it is very real among women. Very few women I know are very forgiving of “the other woman.”
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The other woman, usually remains anonymous.
There is far less risk for her.
My point is that socially she is relatively over looked because she is elusive. She might be called a home wrecking whore if discovered but I think the majority of the venom is directed towards the one that made the oath. (as it appears it should be)
The opposite? the other man, could very well be facing a gun, baseball bat or serious ass whooping and I assure you the husband would find out who he is.
but I see where you are coming from Sarah.
Also, I love bacon-fried eggs, too!
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I’ve had the opposite experience. It seems like the vast majority of men who hit on me/try to initiate something are married. These aren’t strangers either. I know their wives, they know my boyfriend, and we all hang out on fairly regular occassions. I’ve been in a relationship with my bf for over 5 years now, so why is that I seem to ooze “home-wrecking whore”?
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