Comments on: Do guys ask out the “girl next door” more than you? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6098 Mike Masters Wed, 24 Aug 2011 06:10:57 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-6098 Lindsey! Stop! you are kicking a dead horse! and probably a really fat ugly one at that. Lindsey! Stop! you are kicking a dead horse! and probably a really fat ugly one at that.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6097 LindseyLoo Wed, 24 Aug 2011 06:03:37 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-6097 And the reap what you sew? What the hell did I sew? Attractie seeds? Damn you're stupid. And the reap what you sew? What the hell did I sew? Attractie seeds? Damn you’re stupid.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6096 LindseyLoo Wed, 24 Aug 2011 05:52:31 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-6096 And to clear things up.... you really suck. There's my educated opinion you hag. And to clear things up…. you really suck. There’s my educated opinion you hag.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6095 LindseyLoo Wed, 24 Aug 2011 05:49:32 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-6095 Alright, thanks to my crappy email I just got this post. Look Bella, or so-called Bella, this post is not directly posted towards you. I know you've fought the looks label and what not (because if you didn't, well then you wouldn't be posting this); however, this post is directed towards the troubles that attractive people face when they are dating. If you have a problem with this, then oh well. So, you're a surgeon? Okay, kudos for having as much or almost as much as school as I have had, but you are still not a 10, and if you are well then give some proof there. I could give a shit about your neighbor old man who is a millionaire who drives a taurus. The whole car analogy goes much deeper. Men will treat you much like you treat a car. You'd appreciate something much more if you cleaned it, cared for it, payed for it out of your pocket, etc; rather than something given to you. Just like dating, guys appreciate something more when they have to work for it. Some guys think they are only worthy of a rental- or an easy girl who everyone has had, and they do not set their standards high; wheareas, other guys who have good credit work for the top. Where I am going with this is that a lot of guys settle and do not see what they are capable of getting. And if that intimidates you, then you have a problem with your own self esteem. Accept that there are more attractive girls out there than yourself. And, quite frankly get over yourself. Yes, an attractive girl told a less attractive and more educated and more bitter girl to get over yourself. Go ahead and reply with some attractive anecdote or some old man that you know. No one cares. This post is for the difficulties that accompany dating while being far above average, and if I wrote the post I would have involved you or the bell next door in the conversation because it doesn't involve you . Alright, thanks to my crappy email I just got this post.

Look Bella, or so-called Bella, this post is not directly posted towards you. I know you’ve fought the looks label and what not (because if you didn’t, well then you wouldn’t be posting this); however, this post is directed towards the troubles that attractive people face when they are dating. If you have a problem with this, then oh well. So, you’re a surgeon? Okay, kudos for having as much or almost as much as school as I have had, but you are still not a 10, and if you are well then give some proof there. I could give a shit about your neighbor old man who is a millionaire who drives a taurus. The whole car analogy goes much deeper. Men will treat you much like you treat a car. You’d appreciate something much more if you cleaned it, cared for it, payed for it out of your pocket, etc; rather than something given to you. Just like dating, guys appreciate something more when they have to work for it. Some guys think they are only worthy of a rental- or an easy girl who everyone has had, and they do not set their standards high; wheareas, other guys who have good credit work for the top. Where I am going with this is that a lot of guys settle and do not see what they are capable of getting. And if that intimidates you, then you have a problem with your own self esteem. Accept that there are more attractive girls out there than yourself. And, quite frankly get over yourself. Yes, an attractive girl told a less attractive and more educated and more bitter girl to get over yourself. Go ahead and reply with some attractive anecdote or some old man that you know. No one cares. This post is for the difficulties that accompany dating while being far above average, and if I wrote the post I would have involved you or the bell next door in the conversation because it doesn’t involve you .

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]]> By: Bella http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5644 Bella Sat, 20 Nov 2010 14:22:21 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5644 Ok well i don't know if this will garner a response or the post is dead, but i will as a casual passerby put in my two cents about the last rant of Sept/2010 ignited by the comments of "Plain Jane". People are not cars. Cars are not people. A hefty price tag on an automobile may ensure a bit more reliability or quality. We all get that. But like I said people are not cars. The biggest turn off a man ever gave me on a date was a comment about a unkempt middle age man pushing a baby in a stroller onto a bus and my date said that people like that shouldnt be allowed to have kids.How unattractively shallow of a statement!How judgemental! I know a man who is a millionaire and lives in a small tiny house and drives a 20 year old car to work.Plain Jane felt offended and was trying to bring this to light that self proclaimed "Princess" out there look at all the "Plain Janes" out there and think that because they don't (insert random primping ritual here..i.e get a manicure every week or tan every two days), that makes Plain Janes less worthy? of relationships??? of love?? of having a family?? There are plenty of Plain Janes with Psych degrees and even a few that have flown into outer space and back. A good looking, single mother with a career is not special because of those 3 factors. There are hundreds of thousands of women that fit that bill :) I am one of them. I am a surgeon and single because my husband passed away in a plane crash 3 years ago. You will need to dig a little deeper to find out what is unique about you. You are not everyones ideal mate, you just think you are. No one can see a passerby's beautiful soul. It is cleverly hidden in each of us, under our makeup and skin. When you come to realize that, people will open up to you. don't judge others by their looks...they will judge you. If Buddhist like I, then call it karma or if you are a Christian then believe in Jesus'" you reap what you sow". Ok well i don’t know if this will garner a response or the post is dead, but i will as a casual passerby put in my two cents about the last rant of Sept/2010 ignited by the comments of “Plain Jane”. People are not cars. Cars are not people. A hefty price tag on an automobile may ensure a bit more reliability or quality. We all get that. But like I said people are not cars. The biggest turn off a man ever gave me on a date was a comment about a unkempt middle age man pushing a baby in a stroller onto a bus and my date said that people like that shouldnt be allowed to have kids.How unattractively shallow of a statement!How judgemental! I know a man who is a millionaire and lives in a small tiny house and drives a 20 year old car to work.Plain Jane felt offended and was trying to bring this to light that self proclaimed “Princess” out there look at all the “Plain Janes” out there and think that because they don’t (insert random primping ritual here..i.e get a manicure every week or tan every two days), that makes Plain Janes less worthy? of relationships??? of love?? of having a family?? There are plenty of Plain Janes with Psych degrees and even a few that have flown into outer space and back. A good looking, single mother with a career is not special because of those 3 factors. There are hundreds of thousands of women that fit that bill :) I am one of them. I am a surgeon and single because my husband passed away in a plane crash 3 years ago.
You will need to dig a little deeper to find out what is unique about you. You are not everyones ideal mate, you just think you are. No one can see a passerby’s beautiful soul. It is cleverly hidden in each of us, under our makeup and skin. When you come to realize that, people will open up to you. don’t judge others by their looks…they will judge you. If Buddhist like I, then call it karma or if you are a Christian then believe in Jesus’” you reap what you sow”.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5477 LindseyLoo Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:48:54 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5477 Very Yoda, very observant. It appears as if she is trying to make pretty girls jealous because she has an awesome thing going on with her man. I mean he loves her silliness and wonderful conversations, who can compete with that? Who'd want to? Honestly, landing a gorgeous man is not a life long goal or an "accomplishment". Life isn't about climbing the looks ladder. I just think she's dumb and jealous and not deserving of any of this attention. :P Very Yoda, very observant. It appears as if she is trying to make pretty girls jealous because she has an awesome thing going on with her man. I mean he loves her silliness and wonderful conversations, who can compete with that? Who’d want to? Honestly, landing a gorgeous man is not a life long goal or an “accomplishment”. Life isn’t about climbing the looks ladder. I just think she’s dumb and jealous and not deserving of any of this attention. :P

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5476 Mike Masters Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:38:39 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5476 Hadn't read her comment in a while and I just scanned it again. This is purely a stab at the "pretty girls." She got a bit of luck with her man and she is trying to rub it in after the fact. I would add more but there really isn't much more here but without a doubt someone that still needs to poke at the pretty girls while "happily married" will mess it up. But since most people inevitably mess it up, I guess that isn't very Yoda of me. Hadn’t read her comment in a while and I just scanned it again.
This is purely a stab at the “pretty girls.” She got a bit of luck with her man and she is trying to rub it in after the fact.
I would add more but there really isn’t much more here but without a doubt someone that still needs to poke at the pretty girls while “happily married” will mess it up.
But since most people inevitably mess it up, I guess that isn’t very Yoda of me.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5475 LindseyLoo Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:19:00 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5475 Touche Yoda, ha!! It did take awhile reading her response that she was actually insulting me. Oh well, you're right and it is funny ;). ~You can't talk sense into the senseless~ Touche Yoda, ha!! It did take awhile reading her response that she was actually insulting me. Oh well, you’re right and it is funny ;) .
~You can’t talk sense into the senseless~

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5474 Mike Masters Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:12:48 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5474 Don't let it get to you, she just stumbled onto the post and thought she would give her two cents. Her advice is empty and not intelligent enough to take seriously. Not to mention that she is not wise enough to phrase things in a way that wouldn't be offensive. The fact that both of us think her advice is worthless is enough of a response. Don’t let it get to you, she just stumbled onto the post and thought she would give her two cents.

Her advice is empty and not intelligent enough to take seriously. Not to mention that she is not wise enough to phrase things in a way that wouldn’t be offensive.

The fact that both of us think her advice is worthless is enough of a response.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5473 LindseyLoo Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:00:14 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5473 The thing is that it is assumed that you are a bad person if you have a lot going for you- even in the looks department. To take so much space to tell some perfect stranger they need an attitude check is unnecessary, and you're right very telling of the person. Obviously, she makes a point to state that she married a gorgeous man who is more attractive than her....and then later in the post, my type is the type that married men or other men stare at. So, is she saying that her husband settled and stares at pretty girls. Is this what pisses her off? I hate being that rude and brash, but if that is the case then she should check his ass at the door. Obviously something is not right here, because if it was then she would not have been so insecure to write such a thing. And, yes I just checked my email a few minutes ago so this is the first I have read of it. The thing is that it is assumed that you are a bad person if you have a lot going for you- even in the looks department. To take so much space to tell some perfect stranger they need an attitude check is unnecessary, and you’re right very telling of the person. Obviously, she makes a point to state that she married a gorgeous man who is more attractive than her….and then later in the post, my type is the type that married men or other men stare at. So, is she saying that her husband settled and stares at pretty girls. Is this what pisses her off? I hate being that rude and brash, but if that is the case then she should check his ass at the door. Obviously something is not right here, because if it was then she would not have been so insecure to write such a thing. And, yes I just checked my email a few minutes ago so this is the first I have read of it.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5472 Mike Masters Mon, 06 Sep 2010 05:51:36 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5472 I am with you Lindsey, I find it very annoying when people do crap like this. The truth is that she is talking to herself and she is projecting her own issues onto you. Total crap. Don't take offense, I would have responded a little more strongly but I figured the post was dead. I am with you Lindsey, I find it very annoying when people do crap like this.
The truth is that she is talking to herself and she is projecting her own issues onto you. Total crap.
Don’t take offense, I would have responded a little more strongly but I figured the post was dead.

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5471 LindseyLoo Mon, 06 Sep 2010 05:34:13 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5471 You're right. I am bitter because I am so hot. Perhaps my shitty attitude needs a makeover, but I don't. See that is a crappy attitude. I don't have one, but could. It is hard to find a guy on your level, and if I sound pretentious saying that, well then so be it. No matter what your look is or accomplishments, it'll always come with some sorts of challenges. I apologize ahead of time for pissing you off <3 You’re right. I am bitter because I am so hot. Perhaps my shitty attitude needs a makeover, but I don’t. See that is a crappy attitude. I don’t have one, but could. It is hard to find a guy on your level, and if I sound pretentious saying that, well then so be it. No matter what your look is or accomplishments, it’ll always come with some sorts of challenges. I apologize ahead of time for pissing you off <3

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5467 Mike Masters Wed, 01 Sep 2010 23:32:29 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5467 snore... snore…

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]]> By: A Plain Jane's View http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5466 A Plain Jane's View Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:10:48 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-5466 LindseyLoo...well, that might be the problem. Maybe the guys don't believe that they are "settling" because they could with girls who treat them well and have confidence, even if you don't feel that these girls are as attractive as you. Start by looking at your attitude towards other women. To you, they might have very little to offer. To the men they are with, they could be the nearest thing to heaven. I happen to be the "girl next door" type. I'm not a model. I consider myself to be very pretty, but I'm not the most beautiful person in this world. I'm petite with big brown eyes. I'm shy but friendly, with a sweet personality. I'm smart and funny. I look significantly younger than I am. I don't wear makeup most of the time. I don't fix my hair or wear special clothes. I don't have perfect hair or a sexy body. I'm not gorgeous, but I have a natural beauty. I try to be beautiful on the inside, because I believe that inner beauty is important. Some people have called me average, Plain Jane, even ugly...but guess what? I still found a man who loves and adores me. He is gorgeous too! :) My husband thought I was simply "cute" when we met, but he fell in love with me because of who I was. Not my looks or my accomplishments, but because we had wonderful conversations and he loved all the silly little things about me. I wasn't like any other girl he had ever been with before. Sure, maybe some of them were prettier based on society's standards of beauty, but they didn't have what it took to actually win his heart. And me? Well, I might be "plain" to some people but I DO have all the qualities of being wife material. I know how to make my husband feel appreciated, loved, and needed. My point is...you might be beautiful and accomplished, but it sounds like your attitude needs work. The "rental car at Alamo" might be a Maserati in the eyes of the other girl's husband or boyfriend. He might be with her because he loves who SHE is. She might be unattractive compared to you, but she is perfect in his eyes. Being prettier or more accomplished does not make you more worthy of love than other girls. Don't be bitter...find somebody who will love and appreciate you the same way. I know it's difficult but you can do it! :) LindseyLoo…well, that might be the problem. Maybe the guys don’t believe that they are “settling” because they could with girls who treat them well and have confidence, even if you don’t feel that these girls are as attractive as you.

Start by looking at your attitude towards other women. To you, they might have very little to offer. To the men they are with, they could be the nearest thing to heaven.

I happen to be the “girl next door” type. I’m not a model. I consider myself to be very pretty, but I’m not the most beautiful person in this world. I’m petite with big brown eyes. I’m shy but friendly, with a sweet personality. I’m smart and funny. I look significantly younger than I am.

I don’t wear makeup most of the time. I don’t fix my hair or wear special clothes. I don’t have perfect hair or a sexy body. I’m not gorgeous, but I have a natural beauty. I try to be beautiful on the inside, because I believe that inner beauty is important.

Some people have called me average, Plain Jane, even ugly…but guess what? I still found a man who loves and adores me. He is gorgeous too! :)

My husband thought I was simply “cute” when we met, but he fell in love with me because of who I was. Not my looks or my accomplishments, but because we had wonderful conversations and he loved all the silly little things about me.

I wasn’t like any other girl he had ever been with before. Sure, maybe some of them were prettier based on society’s standards of beauty, but they didn’t have what it took to actually win his heart.

And me? Well, I might be “plain” to some people but I DO have all the qualities of being wife material. I know how to make my husband feel appreciated, loved, and needed.

My point is…you might be beautiful and accomplished, but it sounds like your attitude needs work.

The “rental car at Alamo” might be a Maserati in the eyes of the other girl’s husband or boyfriend. He might be with her because he loves who SHE is. She might be unattractive compared to you, but she is perfect in his eyes. Being prettier or more accomplished does not make you more worthy of love than other girls.

Don’t be bitter…find somebody who will love and appreciate you the same way. I know it’s difficult but you can do it! :)

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]]> By: LindseyLoo http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3300 LindseyLoo Sat, 12 Jun 2010 04:35:54 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-3300 Thank you Princess T!!! I was wondering the same thing myself. I also have a lot of intimidating factors. Not to mention almost finished with graduate school to be a psychologist, and a single mom. So, smart, knowing the psyche, and a kid? Yikes, in addition to being pretty. I have found myself going out with sweats, no makeup on, etc. to get guys to ask me out. Well, it's just pointless. And I do see the types of girls they settle for and wonder why not me? Why settle for the rental car at Alamo when you have a Mazearti. I would think that my accomplishments alone show that I am not dependent on men or a gold digger. Anyways, wake up guys get some confidence!! Thank you Princess T!!! I was wondering the same thing myself. I also have a lot of intimidating factors. Not to mention almost finished with graduate school to be a psychologist, and a single mom. So, smart, knowing the psyche, and a kid? Yikes, in addition to being pretty. I have found myself going out with sweats, no makeup on, etc. to get guys to ask me out. Well, it’s just pointless. And I do see the types of girls they settle for and wonder why not me? Why settle for the rental car at Alamo when you have a Mazearti. I would think that my accomplishments alone show that I am not dependent on men or a gold digger. Anyways, wake up guys get some confidence!!

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]]> By: I am a maneater, how do I stop my addiction!? | MasterDater http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/girl-next-door/do-guys-ask-out-the-girl-next-door-more-than-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1931 I am a maneater, how do I stop my addiction!? | MasterDater Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:44:25 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1563#comment-1931 [...] friends simply because I get hit on almost daily. (Kinda flys in the face of the recent post “Does the girl next door get asked out more often?“- Mike) Because of this happening to me most of my adult life I have found myself not only [...] [...] friends simply because I get hit on almost daily. (Kinda flys in the face of the recent post “Does the girl next door get asked out more often?“- Mike) Because of this happening to me most of my adult life I have found myself not only [...]

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