I have recently been asked to be a video blogger for the very popular relationship website luveemorleavem.com
This is one of my first videos and it is pretty much off the cuff so take it easy on me. Also I am think my video personality might be a bit more of a dick than my blogging personality. So I probably shouldn’t be telling you this but I love my readers and I want them to understand this is marketing! and I will probably become more of a dick as time goes by. (Hey, do you really think Howard Stern is the same way at home??)
Since I am new to this video blogging I could really use some feedback… (I already know I need a haircut)
Topics discussed:
How long is too long? are you a prude?
Make sure you are not making the guy wait too long for sex, erroring on the side of caution can sometimes back fire.
Are you taking on the male roll?
If you sleep with him and then kick him out of bed, often he will take on a more needy relationship based role. It is a great save if you cant resist and sleep with him too soon.
Sensing his agenda is the key
Make sure you know what he wants before you let him stick it in ya… This trusting your six sense will almost never steer you wrong.
Magic vagina syndrome
Did you sleep with him in order to create a relationship? Did you think that if he just sampled your goods that he would fall for you? Oops, maybe it was not the case.
Your hormones and the danger of sex
This is a message for women only. Are you really in love with him? or did you just get a big dump of dopamine from having an orgasm. Protect your head.
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I think this videoblog thing can be fun. Go for it. Nice voice, btw.
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Thanks Laura!
You actually did pretty good for a first.
Keep it up, and made some decent points
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Great job, Mike! I love the captions…but am very disturbed to know that you are sleeping with Tiger (I thought I was his only one) LOL. Your information and advice is right on. Oh…and I like your hair!
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Thanks Mindy! Everyone is giving me hell about the hair. I think I have to go through the ugly stage first then maybe I won’t look like Han Solo so much.
Hey, Han Solo was hot- just saying.
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Nice job Mike.
I thought you made some great points!
I think I’m the only one Tiger has turned down. **SIGH**
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Wow, Qt!
I have not seen you here in a while.
The video blogging thing is quite new. I just got picked up by a very LARGE website to do video blogging advice.
Pretty fun but being on camera is a little scary.
Gotta say, you’re great in front of a camera, you should do more video blogs.
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I will be doing a Ton of them in the future.
the video thing is fun but very very challenging!
Yes, being on camera is a bit scary. But you don’t have anything to worry about, Mike. You are a good speaker, and clearly express yourself in a personable way. Good video.
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Video blog worked out well, don’t know what you’re worrying about.
Yeah you are so right about the chemicals. I find it doesn’t happen with married men I’m swinging with though, which is quite strange. I guess it isn’t ALL chemical based, because whatever it is seems to take note that a guy isn’t available! It could be that he isn’t also the type I’d fall for totally though, though is becoming ever more a good friend.
I avoid full intercourse with guys there is no commitment with, it feels a little too much, but there can be plenty of trying the goods to start with… enough that if the chemistry is right they might want more, but for the man, the orgasms they get then are probably enough for him to determine what he wants. So it is just a case of wait and see after that, and the hormones havent done the weirdness for me so I can walk away relatively unharmed if he’s an asshole.
I think I’m turning a little more into the type that likes to discuss compatibility etc, first.
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ok if you really want feedback n your videoblog …here goes
look into camera when u give advise … develop eye contact it works much better
collect your thoughts do less uhmming and aahing ….so keep it shorter essentially
Do a looser shot that way we can see your hands
Having said that I could go on and on … i have worked in tv forever … but whats imp is that your content is grt fun so it works well ….so keep the videoblogs coming
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