12 new relationship blunders you might make – part 2 of 2
Little confused how she differs from miss bad?
Continued from yesterday! click here to read part 1 of new relationship blunders you might make
7. LITTLE MISS NEEDY – Overly available – “Sure… I am free all week! Anytime you want to go.” What a guy hears, “I am so into you that I will move around my schedule in any way to accommodate you!” Remember you are busy busy busy!! Scarcity = Attractive! If you can’t seem to control yourself have a friend keep you accountable. Have her tie you to a chair or spank you every time you mess up. (You can hire me for this)
8. LITTLE MISS HUSSEIN – Emotional Terrorist– If you are giving a guy a taste of this in the beginning, he is going to assume it is only going to get worse! Do whatever you need to do to keep this under control. After he proposes to you can let it back out and torture him for not putting up with it earlier.
9. LITTLE MISS ANGRY – Looking for a fight – These people just suck in general. If it is your MO to talk shit about people make sure that he his the same way so that you can be MORE miserable together. If he is a nice, intelligent guy he will realize that he is one bad date away from being SHREDDED by you and your friends. If you suspect you might be this nightmare personality, CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS they are the number one thing affecting your personality.
10. LITTLE MISS SELFISH – Poor listener – Just canned a girl on plenty of fish for this. I called her one night and she just wouldn’t shut up! She would even talk over what I would say, grrrr… I don’t care how cute a girl is, not being allowed to share is something that someone should never steal from another. But then again, I might have just been so outrageously handsome that she got verbal diarrhea out of fear.
11. LITTLE MISS OPINIONATED – too opinionated – Hey, being opinionated is sexy and shows strength, but to demand that your opinion better than his will quickly drive him away. Not only that, but anyone who does this is bound to have very few friends male or female. This is a form of emotional terrorism, and although you might enjoy seeing his testicle shrink back into his body, you may not like him shrinking out of your life.
12. LITTLE MISS MARRIAGE -Trying to get him to commit – This is just like asking a guy out, DON’T DO IT, rather you must be a master of manipulation AND be ready to walk if you don’t get what you need. Remind yourself, that if he is not willing to go to the next level, he is wasting your time and blocking you from meeting someone that will. (This does not include me however, I highly recommended dating me until you get incredibly frustrated and break up. Then I suggest sleeping with me for months until you finally meet a great guy and he forces you to never speak to me again, sound familiar?)
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Hi Mike, another great and really helpful post, as usual!
I just wanted to say regarding #10, the girl who keeps talking… I wanted to say that often times it IS selfishness, but you are also RIGHT about the other alternative, someone just getting nervous by your looks or charm, etc.
I had a lot of trouble with this issue with one guy I really like– every time I tried to have a conversation with him I would get so excited, it’s like the energy was pouring out in the form of talking… and talking… I was witnessing this but still couldn’t stop it! It was obviously annoying and I was bugging even myself with this retarded behavior. I just went kuckoo every time I tried to interact with this guy.
One day online, some people were discussing what makes a good or bad kisser. They were saying how horrible it is when you go to kiss somebody and they just ram their tongue down your throat. Suddenly I realized my crazy talking over this guy was the conversational equivalent of the bad kisser. ICK!!! And how humiliating!
I hardly hear from this guy (there’s a surprise) but at least now when I do, I keep this visual strongly in my mind. It works! I’m not talking like a crazy person anymore, and I can hold a more receptive space for him.
So I would say, when someone is talking like that, yes they might be just thinking about themselves. ~ORRRR~ maybe they are really into YOU and they can’t handle it.
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I know what you mean about the talking. I haven’t experienced it on my side before since I am not that comfortable talking.
I once went out with a girl that not only talked a ton but was so nervous she was sweating and shaking. I felt awful for her and I didn’t know what to make her comfortable. So I kissed her and after a good 5 minutes of this she was fine. =)
I totally agree! Having made those mistakes myself, I am happy to say I have learned from them and DO NOT do them anymore.
Cheers!
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I’m pretty sure she had diarrhea of the mouth. I told you that was probably why she babbled on and on. She was overwhelmed that someone so hot was talking to her that she couldn’t help herself. One day it will happen to you and when you call me and cry, I will tsk tsk at you. LOL.
Ok so overly available–this one is always hard for me because I just want to go out…it really doesn’t matter with who. So right now, talking to all of these guys and waiting for one of them to just ask me out already is SO difficult.
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I would really like to see the girl that makes me ramble out of fear. I few months ago I met a very famous actress through my sister and I went into stalking mode. She invited my sister and out over for coffee and I felt a sense of pride that I reacted so well. Never went to coffee but I did realize in retrospect I was actually the prey. Too bad I never got eaten, I think my sister understood what was going on and killed it before any slaughter could occur.
The available part is not so hard as long as you make it clear you only have time in certain slots. You are only trying to communicate that you can and will not cater to him.
Can a woman ever be the one to suggest progressing the relationship further? I want to draw a line in the sand (boyfriend or nothing), but it is against my better judgement to ever bring it up. Trouble is… it’s only been 3 weeks. But I have been acquaintances/friends with him for much longer and we are comfortable to a certain level, but make out sessions are super awkward. I like him enough to work through it if he likes me, but I don’t want to stick around if it’s just a hookup. We’ve had dinner dates and hung out with each other’s friends so it feels like it is more, but I just want to know for sure if it’s going somewhere.
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