12 new relationship blunders you might make – part 1 of 2

I like bad girls

1.    LITTLE MISS IMPATIENT – Asking him out – I know, I know… We are no longer in the 50’s and women can ask a man out now. However just because you can does not make it a good idea. You are the gatekeeper to the vagina, if you ask him out you’re a essentially saying, “Discount!! Vaginas!! Get your red hot vaginas!!!”
2.    LITTLE MISS DEVIL – Overly sexual – I know it seems to really shorten the process of gaining his attentions but not matter how cool you are, no man feels he can trust or respect a girl that puts no value on her sexuality. Unless of course you suck him dry and immediately kick him out, his insecurities might very well have him begging for more.
3.    LITTLE MISS ANGEL – Too virginal – There is a limit to keeping your pants buttoned up. Mine is about 2 dates, most guys I will wait about 5 dates. Of course, if there are children involved the stakes are higher and you might want to wait longer (Shannon?) Let’s face it, guys want sex and you have to find the right balance of control so that he still carries respect and desire for you. This means that you must be very observant and make your best guess when to drop your pants. (Sexual favors are not included here, hum him in the first 10 minutes if you want)
4.    LITTLE MISS ACCOMMODATING – not putting him in check – I just had a girl aggressively put me in check, she was right and I ended up apologizing. It is very natural for everyone to push the boundaries of any relationship. When someone is strong enough to make things clear without being angry it is extremely attractive and gives me instant wood.
5.    LITTLE MISS WORRYWART – the over analyzer – Don’t ever ever everrrr…ask the question “what did that mean?” – Oh god… if I could have a condom for every time I have heard this. I could NOT impregnate the population of china with all of them.
6.    LITTLE MISS GIRLY GIRL -Treating him like a girlfriend – This is one that most girls don’t get and most guys don’t know how to set boundaries to stop it. If you see his eyes glaze or witness him bite down a yawn you might be talking too much girl stuff. What is girl stuff? Emotional off-gassing that doesn’t have a rational solution. You know you are doing this when he keeps trying to frickin solve everything!

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