Comments on: I told him how many guys, now I am slut!?

By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:13:07 +0000

Interesting about the threesome Brett I want to write about that. Did you see the movie chasing amy? That was a very very accurate male response to a girl more sexually experienced than a guy.
Maturity often has little control over an emotional upheaval of confusion, jealousy and insecurity.

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By: Jersey Brett

Jersey Brett — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:58:01 +0000

Jeanette raises an interesting point. I actually would be more bothered if a girl I was emotionally involved with told me she had a threesome with two guys than if she gave me a high number. In fact, I think it would probably be a deal-breaker for me. Double standard? Sure. But there it is. Not man enough to handle it? I guess not, but then again, most guys in their late 20s/early 30s can afford to be picky.

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By: Mikethemaaterdater

Mikethemaaterdater — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 03:04:39 +0000

Dear What
I think you missed the point of the article. I am not condoning that he slut around while you stay virginal. I am only explaining that men and women have a knee jerk, genetically programmed response to certain things.
And sometimes it is just better to lie.

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By: What?

What? — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 02:38:47 +0000

Actually ManWhore=Candidate for AIDS… that is not a double standard I’m willing to allow… I don’t do manwhore’s and if a guy, especially a whore, is too childish to accept that I, like himself, is not a virgin… he can kick rocks… he wouldn’t be mature enough to be in a relationship with anyway.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:03:39 +0000

Anj
that was hilarious.

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By: Rose

Rose — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 12:01:12 +0000

Nah, I am careful with my number these days. 11 is already slutty by many standards.

But I don’t count the number of men I have got naked with, messed around with, or had go down on me. That number, I lost count already.

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By: anj

anj — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 09:01:18 +0000

“How many guys I’ve been with? Including girls, threesomes, making out, one night stands? Including just letting a guy go down? Including guys I tried to make out with but was too drunk to do anything and just passed out next to? Including guys that I was with for months or years but who couldn’t get it up?”

“Yeah. Including all that.”

“Oh, three or four I guess. I really don’t keep track of such things.”

It never fails. With any guy that likes sex, anyway.
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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:49:00 +0000

Ahh…
This is a good topic
When does a guy become man enough to be able to handle when a girl gets as wild as he would like to be.
Never?
I struggle with it myself if I am emotionally involved with a girl. If not… I could care less. For example my ex is now back on the dating scene and it is bugging the hell out of me. I am wise enough to look the other way when guys show up on her facebook but still ouch!
Maybe finding a guy that can handle your past/present promiscuity is a great indicator of emotional maturity.
hmmm…
have to think about this one.

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By: @jeanette_kc

@jeanette_kc — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 03:34:20 +0000

This topic has inspired me to vent:

I just came back from a very unproductive conversation with my recent ex-bf. (Side note: yes, Mike, it was the cop from my last post that everyone warned me off dating…)

We were meeting to ’swap our stuff’ and the converstion turned unhealthy, as it sometimes can. Turns out that – even though we were highly sexually compatible – one of his key reasons for the breakup was that he ‘knew too much’ about my past.

I’d never given him the ‘number’ (which, based on comments above, I will never give to anyone again!), but he was plagued by knowledge about a certain ‘incident’ that I’d shared when we were in the early stages of the I’m-a-bigger-player-than-you dating game.

Pathetic? Infuriating? Irrational? I understand the need for discretion and the whole DNA argument… but seriously. I like my men to be man enough to deal.
@jeanette_kc´s last blog ..jeanette_kc: That did not go well.

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By: Mikethemaaterdater

Mikethemaaterdater — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:21:30 +0000

Geez Rose.
I figured you to be a little more experienced.
I will have help you out someday.
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