Be Unbelievable in Bed! – 20 tips for Women Only – 1 of 2

Great sex starts with communication

I have been with a lot of ladies and I can assure you that there is a lot of little things that make a girl unbelievable in bed. Granted the guy is more of a limiting factor for good sex than a woman but there is no reason why you can’t get more out of him by making the situation as sexy as possible.

The way I built the list was to think of the best five lovers I have ever had and what set them apart. Almost all of them shared most of the traits below, to my surprise though three of the girls had very little experience, one average and only one was uber slutty. (still fantasize about her)

Masterdater Mike’s unexpected tips to being amazing in bed…

1. Adore sex – if a girl is not a fan of sex it pretty much kills the whole thing. The guy might get to a happy place but he might as well be masturbating. Adoring sex with him is not only incredible for you but will create a superglue like bond between the two of you and make you both better in bed.
2. Be wild and spontaneous (have sex anywhere and everywhere) – Every girl that I remember being amazing in bed wanted to get down anywhere and everywhere. At times this was obnoxious and I had to explain to one girl that a packed movie theater was not the place for a hand job.
3. Have a powerful orgasm – One of the biggest turn-ons for most men is to see a woman having an orgasm. I am not talking about a little hiccup of one that skips along every 5 minutes but a force five GALE of an orgasm that shakes the foundations of the house. If you are not having these, you need to seek out some help.
4. Always be willing to make love – I have a rule, NEVER SAY NO. Of course if one person has a fever of 104 I might only do a quickie but in general I severely enforce this. Having this rule not only makes sex better but it stops negative feelings from forming if one partner refuses the other.
5. Become excellent at telling him what to do – You just gotta do this… not explaining what you like does both of you a huge disservice. Don’t be shy, if you like vegetables in bed then let him know! Also don’t forget to constantly probe him (not literally) for what he likes, often even guys are a little shy about sex.
6. Wanting to please him as much as possible – This falls under the law of reciprocity. Please him and he will want to please you, of course if you feel it is getting too one sided let the selfish bastard know! I personally can’t stand a girl that does not reciprocate in bed.
7. Screw him back – If you are too passive in bed he might as well buy a blow up doll. It may not seem like it but you could be doing a whole lot more in missionary. I have been amazed by what a little movement in the right way can do for sex. I once was with a girl that could take me over the edge nearly instantly while on top, something that no other girl was able to do. (she was in my top five)
8. Proper dirty talk – If you are not having at least a little dirty pillow talk you are missing out! It is just plain sexy when girls talk dirty in bed, even sexier if there is a thick accent involved!
9. Taking on a passive role – Sometimes it is pretty attractive to let him just take you. To let him use you aggressively just to get off. Let him be selfish every once in a while and let him know you like it.
10. Taking on an aggressive role – I love it when a girl takes the male role and has her way with me. A girl I dated got off of work at two in the morning and would come over to my house and jump me while I was half asleep. It was wonderful…

Part 2 of how to be unbelievable in bed – for women only

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