Comments on: Funny Story Friday – Side Effects of an IUD

By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:21:57 +0000

Ah… well that is good to know.
You should comment on my most controversial post so far. There are lot of people to argue with there!
My online dating nightmare

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By: Julia

Julia — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:06:57 +0000

My non-native speaker self doesn’t really know what a barb is, I’m guessing not something good…
Nope, not offended, I wouldn’t be talking to you at all if you had. I just disagree with you on a bunch of stuff and for some reason I quite enjoy disagreeing with people, especially if there’s something about them I like. It’s the Internet’s fault: it just won’t let you see the sweet teenage smile mitigating all the confrontational teenage anger…

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:39:57 +0000

J, you clearly are very intelligent, and I am enjoying talking but why do you insist on dropping a barb with every comment?
Have I offended you with my little website?

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By: Julia

Julia — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:23:40 +0000

Oh, right, for some reason when I think America, I think New England.
Well, that may be a cultural thing, but I wouldn’t consider an act like that implied when giving consent to intercourse, not for one second. I also grew up ten feet from the Vatican, so that may be it…My advice? When in doubt, ask. Awkward? Yup, but it saves you from being yelled at and your partner from being repulsed by the all thing.
I’m not super familiar with Anglo-Saxon(as opposed to that of French/de Beauvoir derivation)feminism, but I do think most of the movement made a mistake in wanting to solve and explain social issues (ex, pay-gap) with legislations; the old cutting the leaves off the three issue…but I do think of gender as mostly a cultural concept we are socialised into and I think that getting rid of the stereotypes and double-standards would actually benefit BOTH sexes, including divorced men, single fathers and male victims of abuse/rape.
By the way, you’re free to do so, but not all males see things in terms of the gender binary just because they’re guys..
J.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:00:16 +0000

I am in California and I should be very tired but for some reason…

If someone has consented to sex then both of you make your best guess as to what is appropriate. I felt ejaculating inside of a woman was less acceptable for both parties. Clearly I was wrong but having someone yell at me, was unacceptable.

I am a man, of course it is gendered. Anti-fem backlash? Maybe so, I think the feminist movement went too far and it is causing damage to western men. Which eventually hurts women, my audience, and the people I wish to help.

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By: Julia

Julia — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 09:35:30 +0000

Boy, you wake up early, aren’t you American?
Of course I used an extreme example, but I don’t think the quality of the action differs much: it doesn’t matter how common that is (btw, really?!) it was still something she hadn’t consented to.
Backlashy: my own version of the English language to mean “anti-feminist backlash”; let’s just say I think your approach to dating and relationships is, if entertaining, very gendered.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 09:22:45 +0000

I don’t agree with your analogy.
It is quite common to let loose outside of someone. Granted if I aimed for an eye, you might have a point.
What is backlashy?

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By: Julia

Julia — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 20:00:59 +0000

Ok,
I’m sorry, as amusing as that is, for your hurt penis, love, but maybe you deserved it slightly: you have as much right to ejaculate on a person’s body WITHOUT asking as she has to pee on you with no warning because that’s her kink…you didn’t know better, you should have apologised profusely. Sexual karma that one was…
I’m not sure how I ended up here exactly, but nice blog, if a bit backlashy.

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By: My online dating nightmare - I need to Vent | MasterDater

My online dating nightmare - I need to Vent | MasterDater — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 19:16:41 +0000

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By: Dallas!!

Dallas!! — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 00:43:17 +0000

i still cringe even though ive heard the story in person. ewwwwe

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