Comments on: We just broke up – It hurts so badly, how do I fall out of love with him? – Part 2 of 2 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/ Dating advice for women Wed, 28 Jul 2010 04:15:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Moon http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3473 Moon Mon, 12 Jul 2010 23:00:27 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-3473 Hi Mike, I'm new to your site but i found it after having recently left my ex - no real choice of mine to be honest. Your blogs are great - upfront and honest and you have a pretty quirky sense of humour. Love the 'what not to do' advice particularly wrt not threatening to commit suicide (not one i have brandished but i knpw many ladies who have). Seems even more ridiculous in black and white. Anyway, keep on writing! Moon Hi Mike,

I’m new to your site but i found it after having recently left my ex – no real choice of mine to be honest. Your blogs are great – upfront and honest and you have a pretty quirky sense of humour. Love the ‘what not to do’ advice particularly wrt not threatening to commit suicide (not one i have brandished but i knpw many ladies who have). Seems even more ridiculous in black and white. Anyway, keep on writing!

Moon

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]]> By: We just broke up – It hurts so badly, how do I fall out of love with him? – Part 1 of 2 | MasterDater http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1974 We just broke up – It hurts so badly, how do I fall out of love with him? – Part 1 of 2 | MasterDater Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:38:37 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1974 [...] Part two of We just broke up, how do I fall out of love?? [...] [...] Part two of We just broke up, how do I fall out of love?? [...]

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1973 Mike Masters Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:37:34 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1973 Well I guess it depends on what you are smoking, how much and for how long... Well I guess it depends on what you are smoking, how much and for how long…

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]]> By: Kelly http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1962 Kelly Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:21:41 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1962 "What not to do: Drink your brains out Definitely my choice if I didn’t have this awful do-gooder streak in me. Sometimes I wish I could be the drunken homeless man sleeping behind the dumpster at Starbucks because I don’t have the courage to face life. Then I remember that I do and of course so do you." How about smoking my brains out? Probably better for your (my) liver and certainly lower in calorie count. :) I'm probably missing the big picture here... “What not to do:
Drink your brains out

Definitely my choice if I didn’t have this awful do-gooder streak in me. Sometimes I wish I could be the drunken homeless man sleeping behind the dumpster at Starbucks because I don’t have the courage to face life.

Then I remember that I do and of course so do you.”

How about smoking my brains out? Probably better for your (my) liver and certainly lower in calorie count. :) I’m probably missing the big picture here…

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1296 Jillian Fri, 06 Nov 2009 05:51:52 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1296 I've already told you that my preferred method was always remembering his bad traits. When people break up, it is the heart's fondness for the good memories that holds us back from moving forward. What is truly interesting about this is, once we've moved on, the bad memories (unless traumatic) are actually the first memories that our brain gets rid of when it is consolidating space. An example of this is women and childbirth. For the first several months, you remember the pain in excruciating detail, but later, you remember it being painful, but not exactly what was painful about it. Eventually, you may decide to have another child because your mind wipes away bad memories first. It's why you can look back on some really nasty relationships fondly. .-= Jillian´s last blog ..<a href="http://blueshelled.com/2009/11/05/thats-my-boy/" rel="nofollow">That’s my boy</a> =-. I’ve already told you that my preferred method was always remembering his bad traits. When people break up, it is the heart’s fondness for the good memories that holds us back from moving forward. What is truly interesting about this is, once we’ve moved on, the bad memories (unless traumatic) are actually the first memories that our brain gets rid of when it is consolidating space.

An example of this is women and childbirth. For the first several months, you remember the pain in excruciating detail, but later, you remember it being painful, but not exactly what was painful about it. Eventually, you may decide to have another child because your mind wipes away bad memories first. It’s why you can look back on some really nasty relationships fondly.
Jillian´s last blog ..That’s my boy My ComLuv Profile

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1277 Mike Masters Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:30:07 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1277 Well damn... That was a waste of a post!! Damn it Lily make sure you are on the rocks next time before you ask me a question! Well damn…
That was a waste of a post!! Damn it Lily make sure you are on the rocks next time before you ask me a question!

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]]> By: lily http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1270 lily Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:46:41 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1270 Late replyyy lol. Hey thanks for sending me a *sneakpeek* of this before postingg. Man did I feel special haha. Anyway, this might be a completely 180 from a few days ago, but I've realised everything was a complete misunderstanding, and that rough period didn't mean what I thought it meant, so I'm no gonna end it with him. It's going good now ^_^ well better than good, greatt. I'll keep this post in mind just incase I'll need it in the far far far off future. Arigatou <3 Late replyyy lol. Hey thanks for sending me a *sneakpeek* of this before postingg. Man did I feel special haha.
Anyway, this might be a completely 180 from a few days ago, but I’ve realised everything was a complete misunderstanding, and that rough period didn’t mean what I thought it meant, so I’m no gonna end it with him. It’s going good now ^_^ well better than good, greatt. I’ll keep this post in mind just incase I’ll need it in the far far far off future.
Arigatou <3

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]]> By: Lacy http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1268 Lacy Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:49:22 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1268 =) You do have some inspiring words...I feel like it was written for me, good timing... I think this is only the 3rd post of yours i've ever read! But it definately caught my eye, because, well, stupid me fell in Love. But it really helped, it's been a month, still super bummed... but i'll definately take your advice and hopefully shorten the healing process. Thanks Buddy! =) You do have some inspiring words…I feel like it was written for me, good timing… I think this is only the 3rd post of yours i’ve ever read! But it definately caught my eye, because, well, stupid me fell in Love. But it really helped, it’s been a month, still super bummed… but i’ll definately take your advice and hopefully shorten the healing process. Thanks Buddy!

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1264 Mike Masters Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:26:17 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1264 I think you should read some of my posts on responsibility! http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2009/05/05/are-you-responsible-for-him-treating-you-bad/ If a guy tries to manipulate you then you should not be in that relationship! It is your fault that you would put up with such behavior. If you don't like it get out immediately and find someone that would never treat you that way. The key is to have so much respect for yourself that any behavior like that becomes immediately unacceptable I think you should read some of my posts on responsibility! http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2009/05/05/are-you-responsible-for-him-treating-you-bad/
If a guy tries to manipulate you then you should not be in that relationship! It is your fault that you would put up with such behavior. If you don’t like it get out immediately and find someone that would never treat you that way.
The key is to have so much respect for yourself that any behavior like that becomes immediately unacceptable

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]]> By: Nicole http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/breakup/we-just-broke-up-%e2%80%93-it-hurts-so-badly-how-do-i-fall-out-of-love-with-him-part-2-of-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1262 Nicole Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:13:22 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=1115#comment-1262 I'm not sure I agree with "you must realize that if you were in his shoes you would have done the same thing." I've had exes that would break up with me to control me (ex: if you don't do this, I will dump you) and that led to a lot of confusion and angst. I’m not sure I agree with “you must realize that if you were in his shoes you would have done the same thing.” I’ve had exes that would break up with me to control me (ex: if you don’t do this, I will dump you) and that led to a lot of confusion and angst.

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