Comments on: The age difference, are older men and younger women better suited?

By: Janice T

Janice T — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 22:48:43 +0000

We need a Viagra topic! Just saying.

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By: Janice T

Janice T — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 22:48:01 +0000

If you want a cool older guy/gal, I suggest looking in fields with cool people, such as the arts, or in activities with active people, like community sports.

Start with the interesting pool, then look for the age.

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By: Jillian

Jillian — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:00:13 +0000

Mike, did you really just leave that comment? Oh dear. We need to talk because…hrm.
Jillian´s last blog ..That’s my boy

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 01:38:47 +0000

I am with you NN I am getting up there and clearly my youth is not planning to leave anytime soon. The only people that can keep up with me are much younger. Good thing I am so young/good looking or I wouldn’t be able to attract them!

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 01:33:33 +0000

Gosh mike’s friend you are a prolific writer.
Um… I think we need to talk on the phone sometime and work out the details but I would say he is damaged good for a least a year.

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By: -NN-

-NN- — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 18:18:10 +0000

Sorry, but guys of my age (40) are so BOOORING, let alone those who are older.
They think they know what the world is about, and have lost all of sweetness, they look so worn out, they tend to be cynical and did I mention: They are boring.

So I like my men younger, and what is good, I look good about 10 years younger than I am.. =) enough for them to look at me too.

So Older men – 97% of them – No thanks

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By: That friend of Mike's

That friend of Mike's — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 00:50:50 +0000

Hm. That’s my situation, he is 32, I’m 23. The ex wife just turned round and asked him to give it another go. The guy, although not in love with his ex wife, shared a lot of experiences with her. He has stayed in regular contact, telling me he is confused but also assuring me that he really likes me and telling me not to doubt this. Very difficult situation for me to handle. I very much doubt he will go back to her (he wont even tell his mates cos he knows they wont understand why he’s been put into a mental fuddle by the situation). I also have little doubt that he does like me as much as he says. What will happen? Like I say, I doubt he will go back to his wife, and if he does, it won’t last. I’m sure Mike in all his experience knows how unlikely it is to last if friends and family disapprove, and there is a lot of negative history (relationship dead 2 years prior to separation, 1.5 years living apart and divorce just come through). But me and him?
It’s a very hard situation for someone of my age (23) to deal with. How can I possibly comprehend the cacophony of emotions felt toward an ex-wife, even if you don’t still love them romantically? My experience is severely limited compared to his. I don’t always have the necessary confidence to just “go with the flow” and “give it time”. My idea of taking my mind off things is arranging dates with a heap of other guys, but not wanting to take anything further when they express non-platonic interest because I still hope things will work with this other guy. Young people like me, we are impatient and lack the experience to know when to trust our judgement.
Incidentally, all of those positive traits apply to this guy. Another thing, they tend to be more confident and know themselves better. I don’t think it’s always the case, but this guy is certainly funnier and more genuine than any guy I have met in years.
I guess it is a hard situation for anyone. But especially someone my age. Any advice?

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By: John

John — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:39:36 +0000

Yep. That pretty much sums it up!

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