Comments on: Whose reality is stronger, how he can change you! 5 of 5 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/ Dating advice for women and men Wed, 01 Feb 2012 09:02:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Mariana http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-6450 Mariana Thu, 01 Dec 2011 20:16:00 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-6450 Just exploring the web and stumbled upon this...I must say it appalls me the way you label this girl. Saying she has an illness or is wrong in the head is just like saying homosexuality or heterosexuality is an illness. Fantasies are fantasies, and there's really nothing we can changed about that. So she's into things that scare some people, that doesn't mean she's terrible. What if she was somewhere out there and saw the way you label her? Don't you think that she would be painfully upset about such treatment? I understand the reason you didn't go along with it, as I never would either, but she's just a woman trying to live out her sexual fantasies. To be perfectly honest, if a man i was dating had posted such harsh things about another girl, regardless of the situation leading up to them, i'd leave him in a heartbeat. It's not our place to judge in this world. Just exploring the web and stumbled upon this…I must say it appalls me the way you label this girl. Saying she has an illness or is wrong in the head is just like saying homosexuality or heterosexuality is an illness. Fantasies are fantasies, and there’s really nothing we can changed about that. So she’s into things that scare some people, that doesn’t mean she’s terrible. What if she was somewhere out there and saw the way you label her? Don’t you think that she would be painfully upset about such treatment? I understand the reason you didn’t go along with it, as I never would either, but she’s just a woman trying to live out her sexual fantasies. To be perfectly honest, if a man i was dating had posted such harsh things about another girl, regardless of the situation leading up to them, i’d leave him in a heartbeat. It’s not our place to judge in this world.

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]]> By: Gracie http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-6223 Gracie Tue, 11 Oct 2011 13:13:00 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-6223 Or you're an ass with a history of creating false judgements on others to make yourself feel better about the things you've done. Or you’re an ass with a history of creating false judgements on others to make yourself feel better about the things you’ve done.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-6220 Mike Masters Tue, 11 Oct 2011 08:09:14 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-6220 Whatever, the girl was a fruit loop with a history of sexual violence. Whatever, the girl was a fruit loop with a history of sexual violence.

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]]> By: Gracie http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-6218 Gracie Mon, 10 Oct 2011 17:25:51 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-6218 You're looking at it from the wrong perspective, this fantasy is just that, a fantasy. I have never been raped or molested or suffered any sexual trauma at all, yet a rape fantasy is a common one for me. All it really is for me is the ability to prove complete trust for your partner and completely submit yourself to their will. And when these fantasy's are acted out, a safe word is easily created in case it goes to far, which it rarely will if you lay out what you expect before hand. I'm not deranged or a freak of any kind. I'm going to med school, have a great boyfriend who's loved me for three years and knows all my fantasies, and am at the top of my class of students. You can't judge one person by what they fantasize about it, that my friend, makes you in the wrong. You’re looking at it from the wrong perspective, this fantasy is just that, a fantasy. I have never been raped or molested or suffered any sexual trauma at all, yet a rape fantasy is a common one for me. All it really is for me is the ability to prove complete trust for your partner and completely submit yourself to their will. And when these fantasy’s are acted out, a safe word is easily created in case it goes to far, which it rarely will if you lay out what you expect before hand. I’m not deranged or a freak of any kind. I’m going to med school, have a great boyfriend who’s loved me for three years and knows all my fantasies, and am at the top of my class of students. You can’t judge one person by what they fantasize about it, that my friend, makes you in the wrong.

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]]> By: Maerie http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-6197 Maerie Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:37:53 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-6197 As a person who has rape fantasies i am no more "crazy" or "pyscho" then your so called "rape me girl". I highly educated have a family and successful career and im not even 30. Everyone i know who has a rape fantasy ( Men AND Women) have them for different reasons, but none of them are crazy. I get how some people are sensitive about the subject and i get that, but for you to talk so badly about this girl without knowing the slightest bit of ANYTHING about the fantasy is ignorant and wrong. I seriously think you changed the ending of your story. What really happened was you agreed to "rape her" but during she turned out to be a dominatrix and had you bent over crying for mommy. Maybe im wrong but who knows what happened i wasnt there and shes not here to defend herself so ill keep that version in my mind to be more entertaining. Take Care. :) As a person who has rape fantasies i am no more “crazy” or “pyscho” then your so called “rape me girl”. I highly educated have a family and successful career and im not even 30. Everyone i know who has a rape fantasy ( Men AND Women) have them for different reasons, but none of them are crazy. I get how some people are sensitive about the subject and i get that, but for you to talk so badly about this girl without knowing the slightest bit of ANYTHING about the fantasy is ignorant and wrong. I seriously think you changed the ending of your story. What really happened was you agreed to “rape her” but during she turned out to be a dominatrix and had you bent over crying for mommy. Maybe im wrong but who knows what happened i wasnt there and shes not here to defend herself so ill keep that version in my mind to be more entertaining. Take Care. :)

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]]> By: How him “wearing the pants” leaves you naked 4 of 5 | MasterDater http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-1697 How him “wearing the pants” leaves you naked 4 of 5 | MasterDater Sun, 20 Dec 2009 19:18:33 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-1697 [...] Continue on to Whose reality is stronger, how he can change you! 5 of 5 [...] [...] Continue on to Whose reality is stronger, how he can change you! 5 of 5 [...]

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-765 Jillian Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:54:31 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-765 RTM-- Aw, thanks! RTM– Aw, thanks!

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]]> By: roadtripmama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-758 roadtripmama Wed, 03 Jun 2009 04:41:58 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-758 I seemed to notice you have a tendency toward Asian women....curious about that. One of my best friends (freshly divorced) travels quite a bit and has this "thing" for Asian women as well. Jillian - had a few "road trips" but always follow the conversations. Thanks for missing me!!!! I did agree with all your points on this one tho....very thought out. You always see things from a different perspective that has such insight and wisdom. And they aren't 30 lbs....just slightly less, each. I seemed to notice you have a tendency toward Asian women….curious about that. One of my best friends (freshly divorced) travels quite a bit and has this “thing” for Asian women as well.

Jillian – had a few “road trips” but always follow the conversations. Thanks for missing me!!!! I did agree with all your points on this one tho….very thought out. You always see things from a different perspective that has such insight and wisdom.

And they aren’t 30 lbs….just slightly less, each.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-757 Mike Masters Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:59:47 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-757 What is wrong with you people!?? of course bunnies are food! Except RTM's She has like... 30 lb monster rabbits!! What did I think of during the marathon?? Strangely... very little. (the girls butt in front of me?) Was playing an audio book while running but don't remember a word of it. I think I was completely in the zone. Smiling like a bobble head and occasionally thinking. "oh god... it is only mile ___ ?" then suddenly I started running next to a really cute 22 year old Korean girl. I swear I draw these girls like flies to poop... She runs me in the last three miles at a break neck half sprint. Didn't know if I was in love or wanted to see her hit the deck screaming in pain with a cramp. I think maybe the former. Evil woman... What is wrong with you people!?? of course bunnies are food!
Except RTM’s
She has like… 30 lb monster rabbits!!

What did I think of during the marathon?? Strangely… very little. (the girls butt in front of me?) Was playing an audio book while running but don’t remember a word of it. I think I was completely in the zone. Smiling like a bobble head and occasionally thinking. “oh god… it is only mile ___ ?” then suddenly I started running next to a really cute 22 year old Korean girl. I swear I draw these girls like flies to poop… She runs me in the last three miles at a break neck half sprint. Didn’t know if I was in love or wanted to see her hit the deck screaming in pain with a cramp. I think maybe the former. Evil woman…

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-756 Jillian Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:51:38 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-756 RTM! I've missed you! And I can be persuaded with Tiffany. RTM! I’ve missed you! And I can be persuaded with Tiffany.

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]]> By: roadtripmama http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-755 roadtripmama Tue, 02 Jun 2009 21:53:11 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-755 Okay, enough with the dead bunnies! Jillian, I agree, bunnies are pets. I have 2 that are 18 pounds each (not a typo!). If a man really really wants to give you a gift, Tiffany is the place. Just love those little blue boxes! Mike, how about some thoughts on what you think of during the marathon??? Unless it's weird sexual fantasies about girls who wish to be raped. That whole story gave me the heebie jeebies. Okay, enough with the dead bunnies! Jillian, I agree, bunnies are pets. I have 2 that are 18 pounds each (not a typo!). If a man really really wants to give you a gift, Tiffany is the place. Just love those little blue boxes!

Mike, how about some thoughts on what you think of during the marathon??? Unless it’s weird sexual fantasies about girls who wish to be raped. That whole story gave me the heebie jeebies.

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-754 Jillian Tue, 02 Jun 2009 20:08:48 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-754 Chocolate covered strawberries are good so we can pretend we're eating "healthy." :D Chocolate covered strawberries are good so we can pretend we’re eating “healthy.” :D

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]]> By: Sarah http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-753 Sarah Tue, 02 Jun 2009 20:07:25 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-753 some form of chocolate and we're all set (taking notes Mike?) some form of chocolate and we’re all set (taking notes Mike?)

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-752 Jillian Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:53:13 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-752 Well, quite frankly, it needs to be on a grill with a nice red wine as well. Well, quite frankly, it needs to be on a grill with a nice red wine as well.

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]]> By: Sarah http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-751 Sarah Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:42:59 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-751 I hear you--and what is it with men giving gifts that require more work to receive than it cost them to give? Always cleaning up after them, we are... *sigh* Now if a man presents a cow killed, cleaned, and butchered, then we're talking serious business! Then we know he's serious! :) I hear you–and what is it with men giving gifts that require more work to receive than it cost them to give? Always cleaning up after them, we are… *sigh*

Now if a man presents a cow killed, cleaned, and butchered, then we’re talking serious business! Then we know he’s serious! :)

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]]> By: Jillian http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/power-balance/the-most-powerful-frightening-form-of-power-balance-in-a-relationship-5-of-5/comment-page-1/#comment-750 Jillian Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:33:59 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=718#comment-750 Screw that. Bunnies are pets. Not food. Cows on the other hand...;) Digression is a fun and necessary part of life. At least in this post, I think. Screw that. Bunnies are pets. Not food. Cows on the other hand…;)

Digression is a fun and necessary part of life. At least in this post, I think.

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