Comments on: Step #6 How to attract the perfect partner by being different

By: Step #5 Getting sexy, is it really all that important? : MasterDater

Step #5 Getting sexy, is it really all that important? : MasterDater — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 00:11:02 +0000

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 15:50:02 +0000

Sarah, I is a strict rule of mine that a comment author can not be more intelligent than I am.
Sorry but I think I am going to have to block you…

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By: Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:43:52 +0000

There’s truth here, though sheep aren’t sheep from fear alone. Apathy and just plain ignorance figure into herd mentality as well ’cause not all of the sheep know about the wolf. Some take the easy road they’ve always known others just don’t know that there’s another road or four to take. Like you, though, I was forced onto other roads since I’ve never quite fit in–I’ve always been a loner and an odd ball and I’ve come to accept that and I wouldn’t have it any other way. One of the tiny ways the importance of difference manifests in my life is in my winter coat–a fabulous, tailored, knee-length, candy-apple red wool sailor coat with big black buttons that’s oh-so-feminine and sassy. In a city where everyone wears grey or black all winter long (what’s with that–isn’t winter dark enough already???), my coat stands out in a crowd, so I have to wear it like I mean it. When I have it on, I walk with my head high, smiling, and with confidence, since there is no way in hell I can hide in that thing! The best part is feeling so damn good, but another fun part is other people’s responses of envy and/or admiration. Now, that’s just a coat–difference can be embraced much more deeply and satisfyingly than through a piece of clothing.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 09:24:14 +0000

I think it takes a lot of confidence for guys too. I know for myself I constantly have to fight the pressure to change my image. But dammit… I like my tongue piercing!

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By: Missaup

Missaup — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 05:47:40 +0000

Women also have to understand that to go against the norm take quite a lot of confidence

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By: tom

tom — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 13:10:18 +0000

I very much enjoy the example you gave about the herd of sheep because essentially this is how our world is shaped.
People afraid to step out of their comfort zone because for one of the uncertainty and because others from the herd are telling you not to.

You definitely can achieve great things in life if you basically don’t care what others tell you and just be yourself.

To tell you a quick story of me and dating. I am dating a girl right now and we are getting along great actually, i don’t think I felt about someone this way in a very long time.
One thing she says that she respects me for is that I am open and honest with her. Seeing how we are both very open minded and I just tell her how it is.

So there you go, being open and honest works, but not with everyone though, it is hard to find those kind of people.

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By: Valantina

Valantina — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 09:07:48 +0000

Thanks for the comment!
I was just musing over your tagline “How to make a man your bitch”, it’s kinda funny coming from a man. Keep me posted about your Shanghai trip!

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