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By: We just broke up – It hurts so badly, how do I fall out of love with him? - Part 1 of 2 : MasterDater

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:00:31 +0000

[...] wrote about this process in the post Using what you can’t stand about that asshole, when I had a horrible time leaving my ex. I don’t want to go into spotlighting to deeply here so [...]

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By: MasterDater - Happy and divorced or miserable together?

MasterDater - Happy and divorced or miserable together? — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 07:21:06 +0000

[...] Reading this prompted me to email you: Using what you can’t stand about that asshole [...]

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 05:58:44 +0000

I recently got cornered by a mother of a friend and preached to about god. I told her three times I was not comfortable with this discussion but she ignored it. It was as if someone just kept farting in the room and I finally just had to walk away to escape it. So not cool

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By: Michelle

Michelle — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 05:19:07 +0000

Hey, no problem Mike.

Agreed — religious fanatics are terrible, especially the ones who want to “save” you, or convert you to their religion.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 03:13:44 +0000

Michelle! thank you for sharing!
This is the 3rd time someone has brought up religious fanatic… I had no idea this was an issue with people! lol…
#20 GUYS TAKE NOTES! this is a huge turn off for most women I know and is so easy to fix. Have a plan, be prepared to lead! Dating is like dancing and I don’t know any girl that wants to lead the guy around the floor.

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By: Michelle

Michelle — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:56:11 +0000

I actually have a typed list on my hard-drive called “Qualities of a Life Partner.” These are positive qualities that I want in a partner. So, I flipped some of those qualities around—in order to write the “Things I Hate” list.

Things I Hate/Dislike in Men:

1. Closed-minded, religious fanatics.
2. Lacks ambition, does not set written goals, and take action to achieve them.
3. Lacks confidence, intelligence, and assertiveness.
4. Bad teeth.
5. Bad posture.
6. Bad handwriting. (Look up “graphology.”)
7. Hates dancing.
8. Men who are addicted to the TV. My ideal guy watches very little TV, or no TV at all (he has better things to do with his time).
9. Does not like to read. Ideal partner should be a big reader, and like learning new things.
10. Smoker, excessive drinker, drug-user. Anyone who abuses their body is automatically disqualified.
11. Has a bad/negative relationship with his family.
12. Does not eat a healthy diet & does not exercise regularly.
13. Does not listen.
14. Does not communicate. Bottles feelings/problems inside, instead of addressing them.
15. Untrustworthy and dishonest.
16. Gets jealous of any guy who talks to you.
17. Status-quo lovers. Men who are content with being an employee. Men who believe that opening a small business (entrepreneurship) is too risky.
18. Spends money excessively (spendthrift), and does not maintain a budget.
19. Always arrives late.
20. Indecisive – has a hard time making decisions, and being a leader. Always wants the woman to make decisions (i.e. where to eat, where to go).
21. Talks too much.
22. Messy and unorganized. Does not have his life together. If dishes are piled up from the past 4 weeks and you haven’t washed them—that’s a problem. Same with trash (from the past several months) piling up inside your car.

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By: Step #4 The law of attraction vs. your sex life | MasterDater

Step #4 The law of attraction vs. your sex life | MasterDater — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 03:27:54 +0000

[...] In the last post we started to get a little more specific with what would form the perfect guy or girl for you. If you didn’t do this exercise, I HIGHLY recommend you do. We will use the list you made from before to really get clear about what you want. Click here to go back [...]

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By: tom

tom — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 02:38:10 +0000

Yes, it was such an eye opener for me. All i gotta say is faith is based on fake beliefs. Who are you to say there is “god”?

Ok so let me finish off the list.
15. gold digger?
16. no commitment, responsibilities
17. tries to change you
18. will listen to what her parents want instead of what she wants
19. just wants your money
20. a bum?

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 01:58:41 +0000

Hey tom! good to see you back
Wow, number 5 hits a cord in me too.
Try to get the last six out! those are the ones that are the most revealing.

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By: Mike Masters

Mike Masters — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 01:55:55 +0000

Maybe I need to say something about this on one of the posts?
These are steps, first this, than this…
Thanks for the comment!

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By: Terra

Terra — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 16:29:54 +0000

Mike! Love the articles! However the “Steps” and “Parts” are getting me a tad confused (which is not hard to do) For March Madness are there actual “steps” and “parts” or are you using those interchangibly? Help….

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By: tom

tom — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 16:10:21 +0000

Sure, here is my list, which i am going to make on the spot.

1. less then 22 (maybe 20)
2. will not take my suggestions seriously, instead get offended
3. does not exercise
4. does not eat healthy
5. religious fanatic
6. shy and who is not open and honest
7. lacks a sense of reality (living up in the clouds)
8. controlling and loud
9. racist
10. i would not date someone of my nationality
11. a girl who is clingy to you (it is very annoying)
12. who is bad with money
13. who depends on her parents
14. expects the guy to take care of her (make your own money dammit, gender roles are changing)

I am all out for now, maybe i will add more later

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By: LC

LC — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:04:55 +0000

Mike, I really liked the part where you said, “it is easier to move away from pain than it is to move towards pleasure.” That is so true in so many different aspects of life. Great point!

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