Comments on: Marrige and death, a married man’s view point

By: WhoreBasher

WhoreBasher — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 22:45:50 +0000

This is one of the most misleading and biased articles I have read in some time. Have you women ever stopped to consider that your man may simply be comcerned about divorce? Its that simple. EVERY DAY, family, friends, co-workers, media, radio all put a bug in our ears regarding a new marriage gone sour and how much the man stands to lose: emotionally and financially. Every day! Marriage is a HUGE benefit to you women, not only do you get to keep what you BOTH brought into the relationship if things go sour, but the added cushion of alimony and child support long AFTER the marriage dissolves. You get to keep the kids, house, car, jewelry, retirement plan, bank accounts, and your husband is left in a small apartment, taking the bus and fighting to see his kids on the weekend. F*CK that. And for those of you harping about how the man deserves it, cause he cheated or went astray…lets not forget that MANY a marriage has been broken by a cheating female who cant keep her a*s off Facebook, away from the club with her girls, or her legs closed while her man is away at work. SO, a woman gets to get married, assume everything her man brings into the relationship is hers, drain his assets and self esteem, then CHEAT, let the man raise kids that are possibly NOT biologically his, eventually get a firm grasp on some other d*ck, and get HALF of what left, of everything….THIS IS DAILY NEWS…and you wonder why your man is afraid to commit??? It’s not cause we dont know if WE want to be with YOU forever, it’s about what YOU realistically have to GAIN and what we LOSE if you decide your bored, or tired of raising kids, or tired of being broke because your man cant afford that Gucci purse you want….Woman can be VERY materialistic and VERY shallow. One last thing to consider…and this is real. A majority of the same women pushing their man to get married, are the SAME women who were getting cream pied in the cooze by random dudes in the club and at college parties BEFORE we met ya. YOU made your “long term” boyfriend WAIT to hit it, right? Playing the good girl role and I am just so dang virginous BS… You have to know that us men KNOW better than that. Why the f*ck do we have to wine and dine and cherish you thru thick and thin for LIFE to get laid, when you were whoring around popping kids and having abortions and doing drugs and drinking your liver green BEFORE you met your “long term man”??? SO, we have to PAY to hit it, but all the other drunk dudes got up in that cooze and you sucked their d*cks for FREE??? F*ck off with that sh*t! We men have too much to lose, so if you can’t wait for your man to make an educated decision about the FATE of his life, then you are right, you deserve better…just let the man go with his dignity and find some other SUCKA to lean on.

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By: 25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2

25 reasons why he WONT ask you to marry him – Part 2 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:35:06 +0000

[...] to his wife for almost three years, likens his marriage to Jail. He wrote a post for me here, Marrige and death, a married man’s point of view. He hates marriage so much that he verbally and emotionally tortures his wife, he is so abusive [...]

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By: Sha

Sha — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 18:07:32 +0000

great post.

That freedom, in essence means that you can no longer just live for you. The fact that you can no longer live selfishly is scary…its a high risk. Can it be done? Is it possible that there are other forces that enable us to survive selflessly in a marriage (at least some of the time) that us singles may not completely grasp. I think many have not been able to tap into that force. But it sounds like to me that your buddy Casey has some concept of using that force to work through the “in between”.

I am interested in hearing more about the “so much more” that Casey noted as an exchange for freedom

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By: On the Money

On the Money — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 23:19:03 +0000

Sounds good! I might try it on my new friend Dotty (see http://russellcavanagh.com/2/?p=197)

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By: tom

tom — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 14:58:39 +0000

Great article and thanks for mentioning me in it.
I too, have been wondering recently about marriage. I’ve read a bit about history and there really isn’t any clear indication, except as a form of increasing wealth.
And yes divorce does prove a point, hence why common law partners are so common.
Or its just people wanting to get out of their comfort zone and experiment, imagine an all you can eat restaurant.

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