Typical texting mistakes guys and girls make – Part 5
Do guys obsess about texting girls this much?
Help!! I text the wrong person what do I do!?
Well that really depends on what you sent him or her doesn’t it! But as a general response, say oops and roll with it. There is nothing more interesting than a secret. Play it off and discover how it will work in your favor. The funny thing is that most people do these things on purpose. In other words their subconscious has another motive they are not aware of.
He won’t text me back and I don’t know what to do!
Tough one. I am not the biggest fan of the book “He’s just not that into you” but this might be a time to give it a read. Sometimes the guy simply is not an option for you or you have not handled the situation well. You may still have a chance but if the first impression is blown it is so hard to regain power again. Try the hook method to get him to text you again. Once he does, get him to meet you somewhere and see if you can sense the situation. If it does not feel right… NEXT!!! Relationships are like jobs, there is always a better one out there, move on.
(sometimes a few month break will bring him or her back into your life in a state more to you liking. Keep dating other people and wait and see)
My current boyfriend’s Ex is texting me, what should I say?
There is only one reason for her to contact you. To do damage because she is hurt. Don’t stick your hand in a piranha tank, even if the fish seems really really friendly. I don’t care what sweet guise she is wearing, she only wants to do damage to restore her ego. DON’T text her back, ever…
She is texting me too often
That kind of sucks. So often really attractive, cool people kill their attraction because they don’t know how unattractive it is to be obsessive. The way I have always handled this is what I call a RTO (relationship time out). This is when you step away from your feelings and hers to explain something. It is pretty easy, all you have to do is say,“When you text me so much I don’t feel very attracted to you.” This sounds really harsh but so helpful to her. I met a girl once who would always bite me during passionate times. She would nearly draw blood and instead of punching her in the nose, I did a time out. It didn’t work, so I bit her back.
I really like him but he is too into me and sends me nauseating texts every couple hours.
Don’t you just hate that!? Someone you are into is just screwing the attraction up. You just want to pull them aside and tell them that the are as repulsive as a homeless person when they act that way. Well why not? Tell them? Imagine if during sex he bit your nipple too hard, or she kept scraping your dick with her teeth. Would you grin and bear it? Pretending that you enjoy it? I hope not, I hope you would tell him or her gently what you like and at the same time try to figure out what they like. Communication is the key to building good sex and a healthy relationship. Yeah their ego might be hurt but so what! It is a hell of a lot better than you breaking things off with him because they where too lovey dovey with you.
I hate “games” and this just feels weird to me, why cant I just text what I want to say?
I don’t think my father approves of what I write because he does not understand it. He believes that this is a form of manipulation. Truth be told it absolutely is a form of manipulation BUT… the world abounds with manipulation. If you attended my father’s church as a guest would you be treated in a way that would encourage you to join? Absolutely! You would be subversively bumped into believing what everyone else believes and weeded out if you didn’t quite fit. Don’t get me wrong, I love my father’s church, they are great. However I think it is a lie not to recognize that others will bend you to their addenda if you don’t know what yours is. So just like the happy new member of my dad’s church I want you to make him or her a part of your congregation. If you do things right they won’t mind the fact that you nudged them in the right direction.
I am only getting one-word responses to my texts, what does that mean??
I got this FAQ from searches that lead to my website. Clearly there are some people out there confused about the obvious! If you accept that texting is a conversation in slow-mo, what would a one word answer text communicate? NOT INTERESTED, GO AWAY STALKER… This is the 90% answer but it could be two other things. The person is really really busy OR they are not very tech savvy. But… probably not, most likely you need to leave them alone for a while and try again later!! It is still possible to bag them but since most of their opinions have already been formed about you it might be better just to move on.
Still have questions?
I highly recommend taking a look at my book The Art of Texting I wrote just for people like you looking to understand how to really kick ass in the area of texting. When I started to write it I thought it would be a short guide but I was honestly amazed at how much crucial material I generated on this topic. The feedback I have been getting is phenomenal and I am in the process of publishing it on Amazon but don’t take my word for it, click on the Art of Texting link below and see for yourself.
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how about 10 reasons a women should stay single….
i am i can give u 50 reasons
no headaches, no drama, been able to sleep without a men snoring all night, no lazy guy sitting on my couch and drinking beer, been able to get drunk and dance silly at my living room without anyone thinking u crazy ;P, no morning sex when all u want is sleep, no more drama, no constant phone calls or text, no reason to have to explain what u done and where u were when u get home at noon the next day, been able to flirt w whoever u want, no men telling u ur dress u too sexy – go change, no men to ask if ur dress is making u fat and having him lie to u and pretend u believe him, no men going to peak on ur phone while u taking a shower, no men coming home drunk at night and expecting some action…. gosh i can go on all night ah!
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Liz Takahashi, I am not sure what kind of men you are dating…because none of those sound familiar. I think you need to swim in a new tank.
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Hi,
I met this guy recently. We chatted a bit he asked for my number, thinking he would call. Instead he has endlessly texted me. In fact he started just an hour after seeing me. From his texts I have gathered he is really into me. He sent the last two texts. I stop responding because I want him to call. How do I get him to call?
Thanks!
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Hi Kit
Texting is very safe and a lot of times guys/girls want to hide behind this safety. I understand that you want him to call but does he know this? A lot of girls don’t realize that guys don’t know what they are thinking. It is time to tell him. Ask him very simply to give you a call. Say… “hey I like this text thing but it would be interesting to talk to you in person, I have time tomorrow night at 8 give me a ring”
Hi Mike,
Thanks so much for responding so quickly! You are so awesome! So you don’t think that would be super forward or desperate as a girl?
Thanks!
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Not at all… If it is said in a state of need, than yes but if you are tough than no…
Just be confident when you say this to him
my situation has a bit of a caveat to it. i’m having an emotional affair with someone who’s already in a relationship. it’s a long-distance thing that has been going on for only a month. for the first two weeks, we talked every day, whether by text or chat or phone. sometimes our phone conversations would last for hours.
last week, he told me he’d text me to let me know when we could talk, but i never heard from him. i didn’t hear from him next until the weekend, when he texted me after having had
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Hey Mike. I was just finished reading your texting articles (which I absolutely loved) and I am kind of in a confused situation. I met this guy at the beach through mutual friends and we ended up chatting all night. He seemed to be interested and I was pretty sure he was when he ended up asking for my number. I’m the type of girl that doesn’t like to play games because I think they are quite dumb and immature, so I decided to text him the next day just to say “Hey it was nice meeting you!”. He didn’t end up responding until 4 hours later. 4 hours? I mean, come on, everyone knows that our cell phones are glued to our hands. By the way, his response was “It was nice meeting you too and I hope you had a good time!” I obviously didn’t respond, and I couldn’t respond even if I wanted to because there was nothing to really say back. It has been 2 days and I still haven’t heard from him. He’s obviously not interested right? Thanks!
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Mike is right, they can’t read your mind and they get rejected way more than we do. When I want a man to call and all he is doing is texting, when he asks me a question via text, my standard response is, my fingers are tired so why don’t you pick up the phone and call me and find out. They call everytime. Mike I know you read these, so I am sure you don’t mind if I share this site.
Robin Cockrell´s last blog ..Hard to Get updated Sun Nov 15 2009 9:19 am CST
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