Comments on: When the HELL is it the right time to sleep with a guy? http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/ Dating advice for women Wed, 28 Jul 2010 04:15:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: jerees http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-419 jerees Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:37:05 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-419 Also, thanks, and I will email you with some more questions. I have a few about my current relationship that I'd love to get answered. :) Also, thanks, and I will email you with some more questions. I have a few about my current relationship that I’d love to get answered. :)

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]]> By: jerees http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-418 jerees Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:35:16 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-418 So how can I tell, then, if a guy only wants sex? Some guys are very convincing, and if I just relax and go with it, then it seems like it'd be just like that, sleeping with a bunch of guys who were able to put on a good front for a few dates or whatever. (In my own experience, I've both slept with a guy on the first date, AND waited weeks. So, it's not a prudish question, I'm genuinely curious!) How can I tell the difference between the two situations- I've had guys who were not at all interested in anything but sex open doors, introduce me to their friends, etc...and treat me with respect, as a person, even though they just wanted to have sex and not get involved. How can guys try to sleep with a lot of people, but when a woman does, there's a problem? A lot of this confuses me. So how can I tell, then, if a guy only wants sex?

Some guys are very convincing, and if I just relax and go with it, then it seems like it’d be just like that, sleeping with a bunch of guys who were able to put on a good front for a few dates or whatever.

(In my own experience, I’ve both slept with a guy on the first date, AND waited weeks. So, it’s not a prudish question, I’m genuinely curious!)

How can I tell the difference between the two situations- I’ve had guys who were not at all interested in anything but sex open doors, introduce me to their friends, etc…and treat me with respect, as a person, even though they just wanted to have sex and not get involved.

How can guys try to sleep with a lot of people, but when a woman does, there’s a problem? A lot of this confuses me.

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]]> By: Mike Masters http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-410 Mike Masters Thu, 23 Apr 2009 05:07:33 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-410 Hey thank you for the comment! Good question. I struggled with this when I posted it. I by no means want you to go nuts and sleep with everyone. This advice only works if you have your self respect intact. If you can feel that a guy only wants sex, DONT GIVE IT! The word Slut and Low self respect are one in the same. You must recognize that giving away sex without receiving a guy's respect is not okay. When I use the analogy of the slot machine it only means that if the conditions are right don't worry too much. You may or may not get along and the relationship may not work but don't gamble for gamblings sake. Not healthy... Your questions are good you can email me directly and maybe we can make a post together. Hey thank you for the comment!
Good question. I struggled with this when I posted it.
I by no means want you to go nuts and sleep with everyone. This advice only works if you have your self respect intact. If you can feel that a guy only wants sex, DONT GIVE IT!
The word Slut and Low self respect are one in the same. You must recognize that giving away sex without receiving a guy’s respect is not okay.
When I use the analogy of the slot machine it only means that if the conditions are right don’t worry too much. You may or may not get along and the relationship may not work but don’t gamble for gamblings sake. Not healthy…
Your questions are good you can email me directly and maybe we can make a post together.

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]]> By: jerees http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-406 jerees Thu, 23 Apr 2009 03:45:14 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-406 So, I should feel free to have sex with a lot of guys, until the right one comes along...who then hears that I have slept with a lot of guys, and is no longer interested. It's confusing- I like sex just fine, but men who want a relationship seem put off by women who have ben with a lot of guys. I can't see one wanting a girl who slept around a lot, playing slot machines like you said, trying to find a relationship. What's the math on this? I mean, I've met at least ten guys this past six months that would have been fun to sleep with, but none of them were interested in relationships or weren't relationship material for me- should I have slept with every one of them? What would a guy that I could actually have a relationship with feel about that if I met him after a run like that? So, I should feel free to have sex with a lot of guys, until the right one comes along…who then hears that I have slept with a lot of guys, and is no longer interested.

It’s confusing- I like sex just fine, but men who want a relationship seem put off by women who have ben with a lot of guys. I can’t see one wanting a girl who slept around a lot, playing slot machines like you said, trying to find a relationship.

What’s the math on this? I mean, I’ve met at least ten guys this past six months that would have been fun to sleep with, but none of them were interested in relationships or weren’t relationship material for me- should I have slept with every one of them? What would a guy that I could actually have a relationship with feel about that if I met him after a run like that?

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]]> By: To have or not to have sex, When should you put out? | MasterDater http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-278 To have or not to have sex, When should you put out? | MasterDater Tue, 31 Mar 2009 00:27:24 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-278 [...] Want to learn more? Click here to see another viewpoint on putting out [...] [...] Want to learn more? Click here to see another viewpoint on putting out [...]

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]]> By: tom http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-68 tom Mon, 09 Feb 2009 04:04:32 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-68 This is something I have begun wondering about ever since I came across pickup artists about 2 years ago. It is quite interesting their perspective on romance. I mean if you ask me pick up artist is just another name. because if used right, they become or can become true manly man, full of confidence, as all man should be. But they are not hence the 90/10 rule. I wrote on another blog today about why people dont talk about money and sex. For sex i commented like this. People don't know much about it and i also said that I see to many girls on dating sites saying, if you want a booty call/sex then look elsewhere. 1. I will actually, lol 2. Please in the end you are in it for the sex as well. If I pressed the right buttons you would be dropping your clothes and spreading your legs in an instant. So don't give me this I am not that type of girl bullshit. BTW, Michael your blog is dam awesome the best dating blog I have seen and really enjoy. This is something I have begun wondering about ever since I came across pickup artists about 2 years ago. It is quite interesting their perspective on romance. I mean if you ask me pick up artist is just another name. because if used right, they become or can become true manly man, full of confidence, as all man should be.
But they are not hence the 90/10 rule.

I wrote on another blog today about why people dont talk about money and sex. For sex i commented like this. People don’t know much about it and i also said that I see to many girls on dating sites saying, if you want a booty call/sex then look elsewhere.
1. I will actually, lol
2. Please in the end you are in it for the sex as well. If I pressed the right buttons you would be dropping your clothes and spreading your legs in an instant. So don’t give me this I am not that type of girl bullshit.

BTW, Michael your blog is dam awesome the best dating blog I have seen and really enjoy.

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]]> By: anonymous ;] http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-21 anonymous ;] Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:04:43 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-21 i LOVED how in the bullets you said to go after your equal! thats so true! great post. just waiting on how to make a guy want you. i LOVED how in the bullets you said to go after your equal! thats so true! great post. just waiting on how to make a guy want you.

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]]> By: Caseydilla http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/keeping-him/when-the-hell-is-it-the-right-time-to-sleep-with-a-guy/comment-page-1/#comment-17 Caseydilla Thu, 25 Dec 2008 01:04:06 +0000 http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/?p=122#comment-17 Ha ha. Love it. Cheesy Tortilla Girl? Too Funny. Keep in touch. And keep up the good work!!! Ha ha. Love it. Cheesy Tortilla Girl? Too Funny. Keep in touch. And keep up the good work!!!

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