Dana is a very successful woman. She has her own life coaching company and has contacts like you would not believe. When I first met her she was dating an NBA ball player and wanted the attention of another. She employed my skills right away to get this younger guy to pay attention to her. We got his attention immediately, through a short text and from there Dana bagged him. Of course she moved on right away but continued to ask my help. Feeling a little bored with ball players (???) she looked for new more challenging prey and got together with a very bright CEO of a small company. Then she did something she was not used to, she fell in love. Now you have to understand Dana gets whatever she wants and was not prepared for what was about to happen. He didn’t reciprocate her desires. Oh shit… Dana pretty much imploded. She is now using any and all means to get him back into her life. Sex, jealousy, manipulation, begging, did I mention sex?
Marisa was a Japanese Brazilian girl that I met in Santa Barbara at an international club. She looked like such a bitch! Dancing on stage looking as if the other dancers were severely annoying her with their lack of skill. WOW I was attracted to her! I spent half the night trying to get her attention and when I finally did she blew me off! What a challenge, how sexy! Being very cocky and playfully arrogant drew her to me but it was a battle. I did wear her down eventually and we ended up on the beach aggressively making love next to a smoky bonfire. BUT… Marisa like many very passionate girls made a fatal mistake. She let down her guard, the thing that made her so attractive to me in the first place. When she told me she loved me I felt the teeth of the bear trap I just stepped on and I held my breath. She became a little more aggressive buying me gifts and giving me romantic cards with disgustingly emotional messages. The trap was now starting to draw a little blood! I felt if I didn’t get out soon I would have to gnaw my leg off to get free. Marisa took another amazing step and actually talked to my parents about marrying me and buying me a restaurant in Brazil (she was rich and this was a dream of mine) The trap finally closed on my leg when my birthday struck, Marisa gave me a baby shoe. Oh Lord! What the hell is this supposed to mean!? She looked into my eyes with a watery passion and explained that she had the other shoe and someday those shoes would be joined when we had a beautiful baby. So what did I do? What any normal guy would! I gnawed my leg off and moved to Japan! Marisa moved back to Brazil and got married and pregnant in under 6 months. She still mails me.
Marisa and Dana made two fatal mistakes when they fell in love. One, they didn’t realize that the person the guy was attracted to was the tough, independent sexy girl he first met. And two, they were attached to an outcome the guy didn’t share to the same degree. This is the single fastest way to lose anything, whether is a job or a husband. If you lock someone or something into your iron will, the person or universe will move mountains to undo it. The less you are attached to a certain outcome the greater chance you have of receiving it. Let go, to get what you want. If you don’t get this you will be destine to repeat it again and again until you truly hate men!
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Mike, I just wrote a post similar to this one. At the request of one of my girls (she wanted to know why guys freak out about the “title” of boyfriend). I will have to incorporate your post somehow…..oh btw, the picture says it all…..lol
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