Gangaro Girls Rock!
Just got back from NY and been busy out of my mind! but I want to reintroduce a post that I wrote a year ago that I still really like, which I am resisting editing!
My good friend Lacy is a single mother raising a sweet little two year old daughter and she holds down a crazy job. Unfortunately, Lacy has a problem she is upside down, in other words her money in does not equal money out. Lacy feels trapped in her situation, she feels that she can not jeopardize her current income because she has a daughter relying on her. She is in a downward financial spiral and like so many others she toys with the idea of meeting someone wealthy to pull her out of her financial nightmare. This led to Lacy asking me, “Okay, MASTERDATER… dorky name BTW (Shut-up Lacy) Teach me how to meet a fucking rich guy.” “Really…?” said I raising one eyebrow mixed with an Elvis lip curl.
The strangest people in Japan
The Japanese people are so FASCINATING, awfully conservative and yet beautifully eccentric. The extreme of this dichotomy are the Ganguro girls!! They stand out like a shocking severed thumb on the streets of conservative Japan. They are crazy tan, wear ridiculous clownish eye make up, incredibly garish colors all adorned on a young cute frames. The first time I saw a pair of these girls in their 4 inch tall boots, I pulled a freekin neck muscle double taking. WTF??? Seeing these girls in a sea of Japanese suited salary men and 1950s fashion clad women blew me away. They seem not to fit but are as integral to Japanese society as wasabi on sushi.
Now imagine the kind of guys they usually date, inevitably they are the “bad boys” driving vans with fins coming off the back that would embarrass batman. They have wildly bleached crazy hair cemented into place making them look like anime characters minus the huge eyes. They are adorned with large garish jewelry, shaped eyebrows and a truckers wallet. The attitude is one of tough aloofness, never without a cigarette or a girl on their arm.
A good friend asked me, “how do I meet a girl like that!!” I responded instantly. “Never gonna happen, you are not the kind of guy they would look twice at, like attracts like and unless you have something to offer them like money, give it up or buy some makeup.”
If you put a male Zebra in a pen with a female Horse, I can guarantee they will never mate, unless of course the Zebra has a lot of money and no other choice. If your image of the perfect man is a Zebra and you are a Horse what makes you think you can ever get his attention? Zebras date Zebras, not horses. If you want to land a Zebra you need to become a Zebra. You must carry similar values, have an equal education, feel the same about money, have similar friends etc… This is why movie stars almost always date other movies stars. Could you imagine Brad Pitt marrying Ester the hair stylist?
Want a kick-ass partner? are you really as kick-ass as you think you are?
Addendum: The reason I pulled this post out of the archives is because of a talk I had with a friend of mine about how difficult it is to meet valuable men. At the same time another friend of mine is distraught with the virtual shower of qualified suitors. Is location a factor? Nope, both women live in small college towns and both women are equally beautiful and intelligent.
What is the problem? Is it as simple as what I stated above? That she is not emulating what she wants to attract? I think that is a huge part of it but I want to add a little more. The girl getting drenched with men (you guys are perverts) is crazy excited about being back in the dating world, she is vibrating with energy and she is pulling the attraction of every man in 50 miles. The girl who is frustrated is frustrated because she is frustrated!
Do you get this?? Imagine we are all wearing an emotional backpack that we forgot to zip-up. When it starts raining relationship bullshit that backpack for some reason loves to retain all the garbage in an counter productive effort to protect you. However, it really is doing the opposite, it is pulling you down, discouraging you, disqualifying you and destroying the potentiality of so many good situations. If you want something good you have to radiate something good, amazing people are everywhere. It is in your discouragement that you ironically filter the world with want you don’t want, you see what you wish to avoid and in the avoidance you bring it into your life.
So this is not just about BEING who you wish to attract but it is about REMOVING what you don’t.
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thats what I am thinking. But I think the relationship wouldn’t stay long unless the men were thinking about just lust. However if you consider how men are made to be attacted to seduction, then Richard Gere would need a hooker to get hooked… reminds me of this restuarant called Hooters, where figure-loud females walk among the men and start playing cards and chat up….
well you are a man you would know…
anyway best wishes !
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What???
This post made me laugh because I visited Japan last year and while I don’t recall seeing orange women, I do remember the chicks with the bleached blond giant rat’s nest hair and two-sizes-too-big shoes. They dated the guys with super spiky bleached blond hair who dressed like Duran Duran in the 80s. Still validates your point.
Attitude most certainly plays a tremendous role when it comes to success in dating, relationships, or for that matter, life.
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Isn’t it amazing!?
I really miss the crazy nature of Japan, such a wonderful place.
I need to apply this to my professional life.
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